What should I do if my girlfriend is going to marry someone else

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Love is not possession, it is giving!

    Give her whatever she wants, if you really love her!

    Advice: Bless her to be someone else's bride and let go of your so-called love for her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Water-based poplars, stepping on two boats, and saying some immature and marginal words. Lovers are lovers, and wait for the opportunity to break them up and turn them positive.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then let it go and bless her. Don't go on this trip, when the interruption continues, the rationality will be chaotic.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not worth cherishing this kind of immoral woman, there is a thing called willingness, let it go, everything will be good in the future! Good luck.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There's no way to get it, she can marry whoever she wants, she says it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, then you have to figure out the reason, whether it's because of the economy or emotional fatigue, and it's better for friends to make decisions early.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If she likes you too. Then she will definitely resist, then you should prove it with actions, not words.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's because she doesn't love you too much! I'm just a little fond of you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What girlfriend? Pedal on two boats?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then she won't put a colored hat on you!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What kind of girlfriend is this? Step on two boats and divide it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    She may want to give you compensation for being good to her for so many years, but it's better not to be a conservative woman, otherwise something will definitely happen in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, do you know why her parents don't approve of you being together?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since she thinks like this、If you really love her、Then you can't have it

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your girlfriend is married to someone else, this question is not valid, your question should be that your ex-girlfriend is married to someone else, what should you do, when she marries someone else or is ready to marry someone else, she is no longer your girlfriend.

    So the question you have to think about should be how to get out of the emotion of your girlfriend marrying someone else, because even if your problem is true, you can't do anything now, even if your ex-girlfriend marries someone else, and you still love each other, then you can't do anything now, just let this relationship pass.

    There are indeed a lot of such situations around me, many friends are like this, a relationship is over, two people are separated, soon one of them has a new partner, and the other person is still waiting for the other party to be able to turn back, the breakup is inevitable, although the reunion is beautiful, but in fact, it is really unnecessary to go over, especially if the other party is already in love and ready to get married, the other person should not continue to wait, but it is easy to say, it should be difficult to do.

    I had a colleague before, who had graduated for a few years, and the last time I fell in love was when I was in college, (in fact, it can't be considered love) a boy chased her, chased her for a long time, but she rejected it, and then the boy stopped pursuing her, and so on until graduation, until a few years passed, a few days ago, she told me that the boy was going to get married, and she was very uncomfortable, after listening to what happened, I couldn't take it, it's been so long, I can't forget a love that didn't start, Looks like it needs to be adjusted.

    So the main thing to do now is to regulate your emotions, don't let such things continue to affect your mood, either start a new relationship, or forget about the past. After all, love is still beautiful.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What else can I do? Everyone is married to someone else, do you want her to divorce or do you want her to be happy? However, there are some options for you to choose from, be careful!

    1. Break them up: After you break them up, you can be with her, but it's also very risky, does she like you, are you the right person for her? If you have a problem that you can't solve before, then there is basically no need to be together!

    2. Bless them: If you can't break them up, then bless them, if you can't change anything, then accept the reality, and bless them just to make you feel at ease, after all, that's the person you once loved and even loved in the future, but she no longer belongs to you!

    3. Forget her: Without a person, you may miss her temporarily, but after a long time, you will gradually forget her, your sadness will be handed over to time, time will dilute everything, maybe one day in the future, you can't even remember what she looks like!

    4. Hurry up and find a girlfriend: emotional pain is generally not easy to come out, but you can find someone else to soothe your pain, but don't hurt her, if you can't do it, then bear the pain yourself, and use your pain as an excuse to bring pain to others, which is not something that normal people can do!

    The above methods are for you to choose from, if you are a give-and-take, then let it go! You can live a wonderful life without her in your life, as long as you are willing, if you are unwilling, no one can save you!

    I hope you will be a chic person, give your thoughts to time, wait for time to dilute your pain, and then find a person who cherishes you for life, time is your own, don't waste it on unnecessary people, otherwise, you will be so sorry for yourself!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm facing the same problem as you right now.

    Me and my boyfriend who loves me, at least I don't want to be separated from him just yet.

    My parents are against it, because my parents have pinned their life's hard work and sweat and hopes on me, and they are very dependent on me, and the important thing is that my boyfriend's home is not ordinary far away, and my father said that if I am with him, I will break off the father-daughter relationship, and my mother is okay, on the condition that as long as we have a stable income and can work together, we will agree.

    My choice is painful, since my boyfriend and I got right, my whole person has changed a lot.

    I used to be a very outgoing girl who was rumored to be the most sensible by my family, but now I hardly go out at home, I can't say a few words for several days, and I hate all the relatives who are against me and my boyfriend, they think that I am too far away to marry.

    My boyfriend said that he would be willing to go with me as long as he could be with me, but I grew up in our family, they are all rich people, I feel that if I don't have money, they will look down on him, so I don't want to put a lot of pressure on him, I have wanted to leave this family since I was sensible, let alone let him come to this family.

    It's really painful, and sometimes I really think about it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Question:1It is recommended to communicate more with family members and marry freely.

    2.There is a house and a car, housing is a symbol of home, how can we live together without a family and get married? A car is a necessity in this society, and her family can make your girlfriend die with you after having a car and a house.

    3.Have a regular job and a stable income! This is a basic guarantee!

    4.To be honest, steady, and atmospheric, a woman's pursuit is to find a big shoulder! You can find a shoulder to lean on when you are sad, sad, and tired, women need a sense of security more, so if a man is honest and steady enough, he will definitely bring a woman a sense of steadiness, and a solid heart is the greatest satisfaction of a sense of security, and her family will rest assured!

    5.You are a potential stock, no matter what you are doing now, no matter whether you have money at home or not, as long as you have motivation and your own ideas, you can fight for the person you like, no matter how many times you fail, your girlfriend will definitely insist on accompanying you!

    6.There is a common goal ideal, this is a must for two people to be together, only clear future goals and directions, you can go on together, think about the future on the road of hardship and tired, if you can stick to it together!

    7.Conquer your father-in-law and mother-in-law, no matter how loving you are, no matter how free love and marriage are, you always have to pass a pass that is the woman's parents, you have the father-in-law and mother-in-law, you must be a knowledgeable, brainy, eye-catching and talkative person, only in this way will you get their approval, the meeting gift can not be less, must be carefully prepared! After meeting, you should communicate more with your father-in-law and mother-in-law, so that they can better understand you, and only when you understand it thoroughly will you marry your daughter willingly!

    8.Better than the person in their family who wants to marry her, both in appearance and in money!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Try to be nice to your girlfriend, if her parents are reasonable, they are happy to see you dote on your girlfriend, if her parents are not reasonable, such people generally love money, and if the money is enough, they will be happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Now is not the era of comprador marriage, who your girlfriend marries is your girlfriend's own decision, and his family can't decide. Of course, writers have the power to advise and guide. I don't think you have to worry about the relationship between you and your girlfriend, but when you encounter this incident, you still have to explain the reason to the woman's family, correct the relationship and care about his family, so that his family's thinking changes, which is good for life in the future!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    From your worries, it can be seen that her parents are not very happy with you, then you have to work hard. First of all, let your girlfriend never leave you, and then help you convince her parents that you should also behave well in front of your girlfriend and believe that her parents will marry their daughter to you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In today's society, only she can decide who your girlfriend marries, the era of arranged marriages has long passed, what you have to do is to behave yourself well now, and let your girlfriend feel that you are the best, and your girlfriend's family can't control her.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Now that the country advocates free love and does not engage in arranged marriages, is your so-called girlfriend's family member suspected of an arranged marriage if he wants to marry your girlfriend to someone else? If yes, you can ask your girlfriend to file a complaint with the local women's federation or the civil affairs department, so that the law and the local government can protect her freedom to marry.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Only you become a better person, in the eyes of others, you are not only rich and handsome, but also generous and considerate, with countless wealth, with a successful career, your girlfriend's family will take the initiative to marry her daughter to you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Unless you have money, a car, a house, and talents.

    This is a natural advantage, otherwise it would be really difficult to be a girlfriend.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You should have a good talk with your girlfriend's parents, ask the reason for stopping the two of you, you try to meet the conditions proposed by your girlfriend's parents, and go to your girlfriend's house more often when you have nothing to do.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't think this is the point, the premise of the point is that you have to be better, so that her family is more at ease, if not, just use raw rice to cook cooked rice.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you ask that, it must be that her family doesn't like you, so you have to work hard to improve yourself to be with your girlfriend.

    If the gap is too big, let's let it go.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Your idea, how can you marry someone else, do you have an idea, then you can mention it to your girlfriend directly, and don't delay others.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    1.Raw rice cooked rice is now more unmarried and pregnant, 2Take the money and smash 3Attack his family one by one.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Communicate well with your girlfriend's parents, let the other party have a good impression of you, Xinren, good luck.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    As long as you love each other enough. And your girlfriend only thinks of you.

    It's still negotiable on the parents' side. That's why you have to work your own.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You have to genuinely impress her family and prove that you love her.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Parents nowadays are very realistic, as long as you love her with full certainty.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Have a good talk about your heart, show your good side, and chase it quickly.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Take practical actions to prove yourself, love, please love deeply, and let your parents see that you care and your efforts.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Communicate well, show your strength, and good luck!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    。。。Look at your own girlfriend's wishes

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Don't force it if it's not yours, fate will come naturally.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The best way to do this is for you to get her back and it's all settled.

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