Ask for help from fresh graduates who are confused about their future

Do a good job of career orientation.

Positioning is the unity of self-positioning and social positioning, and only on the basis of understanding oneself and one's career can we accurately position oneself.

Examine your personal traits (1) Desires and the ability to do things) What do you really want at this stage of life? (2) Ability What are you good at? (General Techniques and Special Techniques) (3) Personality Traits (Temperament, Nature) (Temperament, Nature) What type of person are you?

Under what circumstances is there the best performance? (4) Assets (tangible and intangible) What do you have an advantage over others?

Each group of people needs to be positioned, and the purpose is to ensure that they continue to develop. But the focus of each group's positioning is different: the focus of positioning is to clarify what you have.

Overestimating or underestimating oneself, attaching too much importance to one's diploma or one's own achievements, and underestimating one's potential too much, so it is necessary to analyze oneself carefully and understand more about social needs in order to position accurately. In most cases, the right way to think is to do what you should do, not what you love.

Finding a job, like doing anything else, has methods and skills. Many people can't find a job not because they don't have the ability to do things, but because they don't use the right methods and certain skills in the job search process. The so-called skills mainly include three aspects:

Know yourself, including your knowledge, skills, personality, hobbies, and physical condition. Before looking for a job, you must have a comprehensive understanding of yourself, and you must know what kind of work you can do and what kind of work you are not suitable for. If you want to do a job that you don't have the ability to do, you will definitely be turned away.

Learn about your chosen career and industry. Understand the work content, nature of work and the requirements for the quality of practitioners. You can ask people who have done the relevant work from friends and family, or you can ask others who are engaged in this work, they have rich experience, deep experience, can provide you with instructive information, their failures in the process of work, you can play a preventive role, and their successful experience is something you can learn from.

Self-referrals. On the basis of knowing yourself and your job, you start looking for a job. Job hunting is the process of finding and getting a job, which usually includes obtaining information about employment, obtaining interviews, talking, signing contracts, etc.

Finding a job is like selling a product, to get customers to buy your product, you have to tell the other party how high the quality of your product is, how fair it is, in order to attract people to buy this kind of product. Similarly, when looking for a job, it is important to focus on "I am truly capable of doing this job, and my requirements are very reasonable". Be sure to learn to market yourself so that others will recognize and hire you.

My experience is very similar to yours, the difference is that I can 3D and can't coreldraw.

I don't think it's wise to say that you have wasted four years of study, but is it more valuable to realize your own value than to work hard? Rather than sticking to a garden that you're not so interested in, it's better to find a new path. Think about what you're interested in and what you can do.

Time waits for no one. I quite agree with the statement "Voices of the Sea 12".

Even if you still love gardening, after this period of job hunting, you haven't found out what kind of knowledge you are missing, think about it can be replenished in a short time? Why are your classmates successful in employment?

In addition, I think that people with some work experience will have an advantage over fresh graduates, even if they don't have work experience in their major.

Don't look for a job according to your major, what do you think you are more suitable for, just try it, don't have to find a job in the garden, don't be high or low, start from a small job, don't look down on any profession, and learn experience from social work little by little.

Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion. If you have a job, you will do it, and if it is not suitable, you will change it, and there will always be a suitable time.

Now is the era of talent competition, but you have a much higher diploma than me, but I tell you, I'm not afraid, what are you afraid of.

Hello! You can consider studying new automotive technologies, such as new energy vehicles, intelligent networked vehicles, and so on.

Now is the era of automobiles, the development of popular life and society needs cars to protect, engaged in the car maintenance and repair industry, learn car beauty maintenance technology, learn to open such a car maintenance shop when the time is ripe is also good. Auto repair is definitely promising, now auto repair, car maintenance and beauty are in great demand, professional car talent is in short supply, but you have to think well.

Second, is it possible to get anything other than money through auto repair? If you can earn from this job, the more problems you can control, so that you will not worry about no development. Of course, the premise is that you give full play to your subjective initiative to learn.

Third, after learning auto repair, what is the possibility of promotion and development in the future? You can't be an auto mechanic all your life, through your own efforts, or go to the professional technician job, or after your own funds are enough you can go to run a shop on your own, these are two feasible directions, you need to carefully evaluate, through your own unremitting efforts, whether you can achieve such a result.

Why are we confused? Because we didn't try it at all.

You said that you like the new **, but you just want to go to the Internet giants.

Why do I keep not being able to find a suitable job? Because your abilities and goals simply don't match.

Therefore, as fresh graduates, we should adjust our mentality and can find employment first and then choose a career.

With a learning attitude, you should get in touch with the industry you are interested in, and accumulate a certain amount of experience before choosing a job. Interviews are a bridge on the way from school to society, so we should cherish every opportunity to interview.

In the interview process, highlight your advantages in the position you are applying for, such as working carefully and carefully, have good office software operation ability, etc., fully demonstrate a positive and responsible attitude towards work, the spirit of unity and cooperation in the team, and win the opportunity with sunshine and confidence.

Lately, my mind has been very chaotic, and the feeling of a lot of thoughts popping up in my head and mixing them together really makes me feel anxious. Anxiety, insecurity, and negativity surround me, and I sometimes think suddenly in a nest that makes people think about it.

What is my anxiety is that I am confused about employment and career selection after graduation, second, the long cycle of learning to drive and insufficient resources lead to too short training time and low efficiency, third, I have not been able to successfully go on to further studies like other students, and fourth, my physical health is not as good as before but I do not strengthen exercise. The reason for this anxiety is that my major is relatively unpopular, with low salary, strong mobility, and heavy workload, so I am more inclined to turn to the teaching profession. The second is that I am eager to get a driver's license as soon as possible to find a job to make money, keep up with everyone's pace, but the efficiency is low; the third is that the failure to insert the book is more than worth the loss, and the biggest loss is to collapse the body; Fourth, the lumbar muscle strain is serious, and it has been five months since the onset of the disease, and it is not completely healed.

How can I relieve anxiety? Actually, I thought about it. But I have a problem with being easy to avoid and not wanting to face these things that make me anxious.

But recently, I revisited "The best way to solve anxiety is to do the liquid thing that makes you anxious right away." I decided to put my thoughts together and write this article. The initial workaround is as follows:

The first is to reasonably allocate time to learn the professional knowledge of primary school Chinese and brush up more teaching questions to prepare for the township establishment of teachers; The second is to summarize while learning to drive, and at the same time pay attention to the recruitment information; The third is to learn English well, if you really need a World War II undergraduate, it is a good thing to learn English as soon as possible; The fourth is to put down the mobile phone and allocate time reasonably to do the best training.

Okay, let's implement it after it's released. (On the first day of the daily update plan, it doesn't matter if there are no views, I am my own audience.) Every step of the way is also a kind of progress for yourself. Come on! ）

What should fresh graduates do when they are confused?

1.Write down your confusion on a blank A4 piece of paper, write concretely, and keep writing and writing. Until you can't write, maybe in this process, there is too much suffering, too much pain, but don't give up, you have to believe that as long as you persevere, you will be able to get rid of confusion and get out of the trough of life.

2.To analyze the confusion, that is, to distinguish which category your confusion belongs to? Before you do that, you need to know that there are different types of confusion.

Confusion falls into three categories.

1) I have no sense of direction in my life at all, and although the future is in my own hands, I have no vision for the future at all.

2) I used to have a direction, but after a series of failures and ridicule from others, I no longer have the confidence to move forward.

3) The direction is clear, but reaching the destination is far away, and there are too many things to do, so it is difficult to act.

3.Find out the reason for your confusion and develop a solution.

For the first type of confusion, the first thing we need to do is to give ourselves meaning to life, and to explore the deep passion for life in our hearts, which is your hidden expectation, and it is also the guiding light that guides you to find your own way, specific methods:

Prepare an A4 blank paper, find a quiet and undisturbed place, concentrate on writing down what you want to do most or career, sort it, and then remove the 5 dreams that are not essential, remove the remaining five and remove two, and finally leave 3, sort, the first is where your current passion for life is, combined with the passion of life, further explore the personnel you like to socialize, the atmosphere you like to work, and what kind of life you like to live.

The second type is confusion, when we encounter failure, we are used to self-denial, so as to convince ourselves to give up on our goals. In fact, don't do this, if you really have a series of failures, then whether you should think about what you really did wrong, what lessons we should draw, to think about how to improve, how to turn defeat into victory, if there is a problem with the method, we go to the mentor, find outstanding people in the field, learn relevant knowledge from them, or read more books to find out, to learn to use resources.

The third type of confusion, we face the distance of the destination, and the heavy daily tasks, let yourself breathless, these pressures actually come from, you see the goal too important, so that the mind is to the end of every step of the way, the pressure on these roads is like the last straw that crushes the camel, in fact, our attention should be on every small step forward, on this road in addition to the huge attraction of the end, there are also a lot of small luck in the process, reduce the focus on the end, step by step slowly, Walk steadily and cheerfully, even if you don't arrive, you will reap more rare joy.

And finally: take action.

You can study in a technical school again, learn a technology, and now it is more popular, e-sports, Internet, e-commerce, animation, environmental art, all good.