I know that I don t dare to agree to get married because I don t have something to worry about, so w

First of all, you love your boyfriend, but you have some inferiority complex, because the difference between the two families is too great, and you may feel that you don't have any excellent conditions for the man to treat you like this. Then, it was your mother's statement that shook you.

I think your boyfriend should be more aggrieved, because I feel that he really likes you, and wants to marry you, so he will take you to meet your parents, so his mother will have the act of giving you a bracelet, it can be seen that your boyfriend has done a good job of ideological work for their family, and his mother will be like this, and then if he doesn't want to marry you for a lifetime, he doesn't need to take you to his house and give you a ring to propose, marriage is a man's biggest commitment to a woman, promising to take care of you for a lifetime, Promise to be with you through the ups and downs. But if you turn around and run away like this, it must have hurt his heart, and maybe it will shake his love for you, because this is a certain gap for him, and he thought you would be happy to accept it, but you left him alone like this, so he must also feel very wronged.

What your mother said may also be right, but not every rich person is like that, but I feel that most of what your mother said are sweet words before marriage, and people who are pressed by life after marriage, firewood, rice, oil and salt have to think about it a lot, and there is no time to say love, but you have to think about it, if you don't even dare to say this to you before marriage, will you still marry him? Generally, it is difficult for married people to treat each other like this, because after getting married, two people face life together.

But don't worry too much, a relationship will not be built simply, and certainly will not simply disintegrate. I come to you from the perspective of a boy, you have to communicate first, you have to tell your boyfriend, the problem you are distressed about, even if I say more, it is also with speculation, but I believe that your boyfriend will give you a firm answer, you have to tell you why you turned around like this and ran away, he will forgive you, he will forget his grievances, you can send him a text message first, because the text message can be received as soon as you turn it on, and then call him home ** to find him, remember to communicate, If you don't even have basic communication, then you can't talk about love. Tell him you're looking for him, and you're eager to communicate with him heart-to-heart.

I'm sure he'll understand you, be brave and confident. Hehe, lovers eventually become married.

The point is that you don't worry about what ......This has to be the right medicine, you can't say that you have a stomachache and close your eyes and prescribe medicine.

Why do people get married? It's for love. We live to make ourselves happy and to make those around us happy.

We got married to make this love complete and full. Legend has it that women are the lost ribs of men, men and women fight from birth, only half of life, we have been looking for our lover, looking for our own other half. In the vast sea of people, only when we find our other half can we have a complete life, and we can make life abundant and happy.

So we keep searching, bravely fall in love, wrong, hurt, and then despair, lost, because we have not found our true love, because true love is hard to find. In this life, you may meet several lovers, or you may have only one. You may be with your lover forever until the day you die of old age; It may also be that happiness is like a flash in the pan, happiness or sorrow, both love and marriage.

In fact, many people misunderstand the true meaning of marriage, especially some young ignorant teenagers Marriage should be the ultimate witness of true love, it is sacred and solemn, some people may mistakenly think that marriage is a shackle that can tie two people together, or some people think that there is a home Although marriage is essentially just a formality, it must have a very profound meaning No matter what, it should come naturally, regardless of the reason. Let everything that should happen happen, and follow the trend, without force or deliberateness. I like this sentence very much:

Let's get married, it's idle anyway, it's really boring to fight, so as not to be lonely...

Perhaps because of the acceleration of the pace of life, or because of the increase in the pressure of life, many people are now busy with work and entertainment, learning and growing, and making money to enjoy, but they rarely take into account their emotional problems.

As a result, there are a lot of older singles. They miss the marriageable age and don't have the energy to have a big relationship.

Although they have always believed that when the right time comes, the destined person will definitely appear by their side, but as their parents, they are extremely anxious.

As a result, "urging marriage" and "blind date" have become a very headache for these older singles.

Xiao Zhang is one of the older single groups. She had a boyfriend with a bright potato when she was in college, and like most campus relationships, they broke up after graduation.

It may be because of the pain after the breakup, or it may be because of the sharp increase in pressure from school to the workplace, in short, Xiao Zhang has put all his energy into work in the five years since graduation.

Although she is a girl, because of her excellent work ability and high dedication to work, Xiao Zhang's career development is relatively smooth, and she became the director of the company before the age of 30.

However, although Xiao Zhang's parents are relieved by the excellent work, because Xiao Zhang has been single, it also makes his parents worried.

Knowing that Xiao Zhang was too busy with work to talk about falling in love, her parents arranged a lot of blind dates for her.

In this regard, Xiao Zhang was very confused: "I am 29 years old, should I accept the blind date arranged by my parents?" ”

On the one hand, my parents were worried about my future, and on the other hand, I was afraid of blind dates. "I know my parents are doing it for my good, but I don't know how to deal with it." ”

In fact, in real life, there are many cases of the same confusion as Xiao Zhang, many people will reject blind dates, but at the same time they don't want to make their parents sad.

If you want to say that you are really not in a hurry about emotional problems, right? In fact, when I'm not busy, I still envy those who have someone to accompany me.