Divorced, nowhere to be found, my daughter is nine years old, crying all day long, asking me if I wi

Updated on society 2024-06-13
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I read a very uncomfortable question. The child, who is only 9 years old, is uneasy.

    I know that your emotions are also adjusting after you are divorced, and the injuries, frustrations, unwillingness, and grievances in your marriage have not disappeared, and you are still recovering. But please give your child a little more love, don't be annoying her, hug her more every day, and tell her that your mother loves you very much, and you will always be your mother's baby. If the child keeps asking, give an openness, if the mother meets a person who loves the mother very much, and at the same time that person also loves you very much, is willing to protect us, and shares the mother's hardship, can we be a family?

    At that time, there may be a new member in the family, and you will be upgraded to become an older sister, but your mother still loves you the most.

    When the child is loved enough, he will no longer be afraid.

    Adjust your own emotions, now that you are divorced, throw away everything from the past. Work hard, study if you can, and don't miss out when you meet a good person. No, no, not messed up. You live a stable and self-consistent life, and when you are in a good state, your child will naturally be fine.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    As a 9-year-old child, I felt sad to hear this question. Because that's not something a 9-year-old should be responsible for. So whether you remarry or not, be sure to love your daughter.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because your daughter is very afraid of your second marriage, she no longer loves him after giving birth to Erbao, she is already living in a broken family and is very insecure.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then you can tell her generously: I won't get married again.

    That way she can be better.

    Also, in this case, children are prone to early love, so you have to keep an eye on it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Divorced, no partner, my daughter is nine years old crying all day long, will I get married and have children? Do you have to find a partner when you get divorced? Find the meaning of your life, live a good life and your daughter will still be happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I have already been accompanied by a man, don't worry!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't worry, feelings are also fate!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's all dazzling, and I missed the good times.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Women are not in a hurry, either waiting for someone, or they are aspiring, unless they dare not compliment their appearance.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I helped her explain what she wanted.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, because sometimes we only have one chance, and dishonesty is your biggest bankruptcy

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Try it out. Only if you work hard will you not regret it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello! For love, age is not a boundary, as long as you love each other, these are not problems! And the difference is only 9 years, this age is normalized, if the boy is more mature, you will be happier in the future!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Two people who love each other don't care about age, if you don't love you, you will definitely be able to find an excuse, my boyfriend and I are still ten years old! We're not doing well yet.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I liked a girl, we were eight years apart, and my colleagues encouraged me, but I still couldn't beat myself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't know if it's far, I just know that you like him, he doesn't like you as much as you like him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    With an age difference of 9 years, he may feel that you are not very mature in dealing with people, some hobbies, outlook on life, and values are different, and your attitude and judgment towards people and things are very different, which is not in line with his ideal object.

    You're only 20 years old, and you're lacking in some ways, such as social experience. It's possible that after a while, you find that he is no longer the person you like!

    If you really like him, I suggest that you don't rush to get along with each other first, start by being good friends, get in touch more, and get to know each other better. The more we get to know each other, the more love comes.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is no reason for true love, regardless of age, rich or poor, ......

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Think about the consequences, not just the immediate ones.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    True love has no age cut-off.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The age gap is too big, and it's really not suitable.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's okay, she doesn't like to be bigger than herself!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It won't be too far. Age is not an issue. Affection is distance?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    With love, age is not an issue.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Excuses for not loving, you know?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If only you liked it, age is not a problem.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    That can only say that you are immature in your heart

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Far away, there are twenty or thirty years old, you look at those stars.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What is a 9-year-old??? All 50-year-olds have !!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    True love is a society where there is no distinction between genders. Age is nothing.

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