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Anonymous users2024-02-11Hahaha, you're cute.
Lovers are not the whole of life, so the same friends are not the whole of your life.
I think the most important thing to maintain a long-term relationship in the world is how you put your mindset right: don't be sincere in giving while holding a heart of control and taking. If you are too heavy about gain and loss, you will only suffer yourself and embarrass others.
So when your friend needs companionship or your comfort, I hope you can support him or her, and don't feel sorry for the "estrangement" he or she is "estranged" from you at the moment.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10It's good to have some clarity on what the problem is. Friends of the opposite sex can talk about love, but they can't fall in love, which is probably the most delicate and distant distance in the world. It's painful and happy, although the acquaintance with each other can be said to be heart-to-heart and like a fish in water in the communication and communication between the two people.
I have been friends of the opposite sex for life, and I agreed a long time ago that if I get married first, he must be my bridesmaid, and if he gets married first, I will be his best man. Feelings are a very mysterious, very magical thing. Just like the title says, the male and female girlfriends who have known each other for a long time suddenly become boyfriend and girlfriend one day, which is equivalent to a fundamental change in the relationship.
If you don't want to lose a good friend, you should keep your distance from each other, don't be too close, and don't cross the line to associate with each other, only in this way can the friendship between the two be long-lasting.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09I can't accept falling in love with a good friend, because it will feel very uncomfortable and awkward, and I think lovers should get along with each other as follows!
1. Rely on each other.
Since two people are together, if they want to get along for a long time, the most important thing is to trust and rely on each other, if both people can't trust each other and rely on each other, then being together will only make each other very tired. We are looking for someone to be able to face all the wind and rain together, not all the wind and rain brought by the other party.
2. Understand each other.
It's true that there is no empathy in this world, but we can understand each other. When two people get along, they need to think about each other and don't impose their own will on each other. Only by understanding and tolerating each other can two people get along better.
3. Be tolerant of each other.
When two fingerpickers are together, you should not only appreciate each other's strengths, but also tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. Everyone has their own habits and shortcomings, so don't just blame others. Two people are together to help each other and constantly improve themselves.
No matter what the other person has lacking, we must tolerate and accept, and then we will work together to change.
4. Respect each other.
If you sneak through their phone today, and they also peek at your phone, and they don't respect each other, it will inevitably cause a round of quarrels. Everyone has their own space and privacy, and knowing how to respect and protect the privacy of Weipi Changfang is the greatest respect for each other, so that the emotional life can be more harmonious.
5. Praise each other.
Anyone likes to be praised by others, because it is an encouragement and recognition of the other person, and no one does not like to listen to good words, and complimenting each other can promote the relationship between the two very well.
6. Strengthen communication and exchanges with each other.
Many times when we do something, we don't take the initiative to tell each other, and there is no communication between the two, which often leads to misunderstandings in many things, and finally causes an irreparable situation. Only by communicating their ideas with each other in a timely manner can two people better understand each other.
That's his character, don't think about it, his character is like that, if you are guessing, it is estimated that you will break up without dividing, you love him to understand what kind of person he is, some people like the feeling of meeting, because he only feels happy when he meets, he thinks that he is only happy when he calls, he just has nothing to do, so it is a waste of time and money, more than accounting, or meeting is affordable, maybe you don't understand why he has such thoughts, you will think what age is now, Doesn't it have to meet to be affordable? But people are sometimes like this, before we didn't have a mobile phone, we can only increase feelings through this way of meeting, but now we all have mobile phones, but some people still like the previous way of meeting, they don't like to call you very much, and rarely meet, but they are on your heart, it's just that time does not allow them to meet often, and when you have time, when you are meeting, he is still happy to have fun with you, but everyone's way of expressing it is different, So don't guess, everyone's love style is different, don't think that he doesn't like you like this, it's just that he likes to meet to increase the relationship between you. If you don't like his way of falling in love, you can put what you want forward and see how he explains, because if you don't communicate, some things are difficult to solve, I have met this kind of person before, and I had the same cranky thoughts as you at that time, and later told him, he said that he liked the feeling of meeting, and he didn't feel it when he texted **, so he didn't want to text **, and then I thought maybe I was too worried, hehe I wish you good luck.
Honestly, although you like her, it's clear that she doesn't love you that much. People are like this, whether they are men or women, as long as they really like someone, they will pour out their hearts and lungs without asking for anything in return, and if they reluctantly accept it because the other party is good to him instead of liking it from the heart, then many times he will become picky. This is also why it is said that the lover is in the eyes of Xi Shi. >>>More
How to change status in love? When you are in love, or after marriage, both parties are equal, don't blindly please each other or be humble, as long as your thinking changes first, it will change.
Now that I am aware of my greed, I also know that she is a good girl, cherish it, don't give up easily, it is a man who should be responsible, it is better to try to communicate with the two, who said that love can not last long, really walk together, and gradually it will become a habit, if you feel a little tired, it is better to temporarily say goodbye, you will find that if she is really not around, maybe you will not get used to it, people say that love for a long time, it will become family affection, decide to be together, don't think too much about love, There is not only love in people's lives, you may be able to change your energy, put your energy into work, and lay an economic foundation for your bright future, I think you will be happy!
When your boyfriend in love becomes so cute, this situation is a change in your heart, especially after the other person becomes your boyfriend, you look at him and feel for him. will feel that the other party has become more cute, which is also a manifestation of love.