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There will always be some discordant people in every dormitory, and some discordant things will happen, but you still need to be patient! Because after all, you may have to face three or four years, and even worse, you may be together for graduate school entrance examinations!
And for this kind of low-quality dormitory roommate, a kind reminder is obviously useless, otherwise, it would not be possible for so long without anyone accusing her. So you should try to be patient, or you can try to explain to her about your current situation, such as your sleep quality is not good.
Of course, there is a natural cheerful character, if only this person is that cheerful character, and the other classmates are more quiet personalities, maybe this classmate will have been assimilated a long time ago, that is to say, not only the dormitory roommate is so noisy, but there will also be a lot of very lively people in your dormitory, it's just that you don't like him!
In the face of such a situation, it is also patient, because the minority obeys the majority, if you are particularly unaccustomed, it can only mean that you are an outlier, even if their approach is difficult for others to accept. I'm also a little nervous, and when I sleep, my roommates are playing games loud and waking me up. Actually, I also have the urge to get up, but I will deliberately calm myself down, but silently look at them and smile.
I'm glad that my roommates are noisy but still very polite, and they will smile at me and say, "Woke you up?" I'll tell them, "It's okay, it's time to wake up anyway."
Don't exacerbate the conflict, try to turn the big things into small things, and sometimes you can endure it, because you are not sure how your roommate will tolerate you, because you must know that everything is mutual, and when you annoy others, others may also annoy you!
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This should be something that cannot be avoided in the dormitory, because the roommates come from all over the world, and there are people with all kinds of personalities and behaviors, so there must be some discordant factors. It's a small thing like this to shouting in the dormitory, and the real ones are like theft, stabbing in the back, and not having a good relationship, so you don't have to worry too much.
First of all, you can bear with him more, after all, the dormitory is equivalent to a small family, a small society or a public place, naturally not everything is as you want, if you rashly teach him or scold him, it will seem that you are too stingy, and it is easy to stiffen the relationship between the two people, originally the roommate is the most precious person in your school career in the past few years, and you must get along day and night, you don't want to live in a depressive atmosphere in the future, so you still have to take a step back and broaden the sky, big things into small things, The trifle is nothing. Properly regulate your emotions and convince others with reason.
Then you can talk to him, you don't have to be too formal about things like this, it's too awkward to be too formal, you just have to play around. At any time during meals or classes, you complain about him, saying that he almost lifted the roof when he was in the dormitory, and then said that he resisted the impulse and almost scolded him several times. Of course, the speaker will have an intention to smell it, and it is estimated that at this time he will reflect on his behavior, so that he will be relatively restrained in the future.
If he still hasn't changed at all, then you need to actually sit down with him, after all, you are not obligated to bear this.
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Personally, I think that since you find him annoying, others must be too. I suggest that you send a representative and talk to him privately. Talk to him about your thoughts and hope he will be considerate of the others.
We have a roommate in our dormitory, who always shouts loudly when others are sleeping or when they return to the dormitory, and always disturbs other people's rest. I think such people are really selfish. The dormitory is not owned by your family, so you have to take into account the feelings of other people, right?
And when other roommates speak, his voice is not high, and he always speaks to sarcastically others. So the practice of our dormitory is to wear headphones with better sound insulation when he sleeps every day, no matter how he tosses, he can't hear it. If, after your negotiation, your roommate still goes his own way, or even has a tendency to get worse, I think you can buy headphones with good sound insulation en masse, or ignore him.
Of course, you have to be subtle when you ignore it, so that he doesn't notice. After all, if you look down in the same dormitory, you can't look up, and it's not good to get too stiff.
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Everyone can get together in a dormitory, it should be a manifestation of fate, people in a dormitory, generally from different places, everyone may be different in many ways because of their own growth environment, living habits or work and rest style, I think this is a very normal thing.
Take our dormitory as an example, one of my roommates chases stars, and she keeps scrolling Weibo every day, and we all sleep at night, and she is still scrolling Weibo, usually she sleeps after midnight. This leads us to have to be quiet when we get up in the morning, but at noon when everyone is resting, she is there all kinds of hilarity, and sometimes it affects our rest, quoting one of our roommates who said, "She's afraid it's too much time in the United States." But after our roommate communicated with her, she would care more about our party's feelings, and slowly try to restrain herself as much as possible and try not to affect our lives.
I think the dormitory is a common place for everyone, it belongs to every member of the dormitory, and everyone should learn to respect others. I think if you do something that makes you unhappy with your roommate, I think you can communicate with each other because he may not realize that his actions are affecting others when no one tells him.
So, if he affects you, you can try to communicate with him, if you feel that you may not be able to communicate with him alone, then you can tell other roommates and ask them to assist you, I think many problems between roommates can be solved through communication. I feel like you've all communicated this directly with him, and I believe there's no reason why he shouldn't fix his habits. Therefore, when you encounter problems, communicate more, communication is the best way to solve problems.
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Relax your mind, you can bring headphones and listen to songs, and don't think about everything so complicated.
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1.Seriously. Choose a place where no one is bothering, and you and your roommates who are sympathetic to you say to the black sheep
Today, I specially asked you out to open the window with you to say something bright, just to tell you that your endless noisy and noisy in the dormitory has seriously affected my study and rest and everyone's study, and affected my opinion of you. Everyone is an adult, and adults should have a sense of right and wrong, and know what to do and what not to do. I hope that you will abide by the rules of the dormitory, take into account everyone's interests, and control your words and deeds within a reasonable range, so that it will not affect everyone's life or the relationship between us.
2.Concoct the scramble as it is. When he was tired one day, he also made a lot of noise in the dormitory, letting him know that he didn't know the dangers of respecting others.
3.Sue as soon as possible. As soon as he violates the rules, immediately report to the (school?) Supervisors report and believe that managers will have a deterrent effect on them.
4.Shoot the video and send it. Depending on the situation, the video of what he did was passed on to his family, class, and even the Internet, and if he didn't believe him, he was not afraid of criticism from his family, and everyone cursed.
5.Outspoken threats bluff. Tell the other party that if it is tolerable to provoke you, then everyone will only have fists and kicks.
Of course, this has to be buckled with colleagues in advance, some have to do it, some have to pull the frame at the right time, and you can't really do it. Once a classmate, friendship should still be important, and you can't do illegal and criminal things. Again, I'm not here to get you into a fight.
6.Thirty-six plans to escape. I can't afford to be provoked, so let's just hide out.
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Hello, is answering this question for you, you need to wait patiently for about 5 minutes, the answer will reply in about 5 minutes, please don't worry!
Hello! You can refer to the following method: talk to your roommate about whether he or she sometimes thinks that your noisy behavior will first make your roommate have a good impression of you, because you care about his feelings, and when he complains to you or reminisces, he will also do a self-reflection, do I also pay attention to it.
This is also a process of mutual understanding. At this time, if your roommate understands what you mean, you can exchange schedules and tell each other when you go to bed, or if the other party is going to be noisy, you can let each other know in advance, and consider each other when doing louder things, and try to be quiet. Tell the other party clearly what you want to do, please be quiet If the other party still does not pay attention to restraining yourself, please be sure to tell him in a consultative tone She, you are very tired now, you want to sleep, please quiet down, or you need to be quiet to think, such a request will generally not be refused.
But you must be careful not to be too impatient or extreme, and avoid unnecessary arguments. Prepare your own earplugs or headphonesWhen your roommates are noisy and uncontrollable, wear earplugs or headphones, do your own thing, listen to ** watch movies, etc. Or when your roommate is not around, you can do what you need to do efficiently.
Take advantage of some more relaxed occasions, tell him about this matterIn more relaxed occasions, we can make all kinds of jokes wantonly, and everyone's mood is more relaxed, we can half-joke and half-seriously bring it up, tell the roommate that this habit is not particularly good, and we should properly consider the feelings of others, so that it will be helpful for him to work in the future, so that it can not only attract the attention of the roommate, but also make him grateful to you. If your roommate does cause you a lot of trouble, and he always feels good about himself and is immersed in his own world, then you can't change him, so you can only choose to change the environment. However, the last method is more difficult to implement, try to solve it as much as possible, after all, everyone is a classmate, and your roommate will be considerate of you.
I hope mine is helpful to you and I wish you a happy life
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Some people are just too selfish, never care about other people's feelings, you either come out to live alone, or just tell her, if she beats ** or releases ** after saying it's useless, you can also do that, she thinks you're a bully, you can only fight violence with violence, there is no other way.
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Listen to the song with headphones and plug your ears up. If you don't have headphones, use a cotton ball or toilet paper to wrap your ears in two balls so you can't hear them noisy.
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