What do you do when you and your girlfriend fall in love with the same person?

Updated on amusement 2024-06-05
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you like someone at the same time as your best friend, then you shouldn't make concessions, and you shouldn't make it clear that fair competition is due, love is two-sided, at this time, you should both live according to your own lifestyle and pursue your own way of pursuit, and let the man say it to the other party in the final outcome.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Look at whether that person loves himself or his bestie, if he loves her, then choose to bless them, if he loves himself, then go all out and strive for his own happiness, love is selfish, it depends on what will happen to you after you like that person, if it is worth it, you should not give up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My girlfriend and I are in love with the same person at the same time? This plot is too bloody, just like Aunt Qiong Yao's exclusive plot, which has never appeared in my real life. If there were, I think I might have quit first.

    Because not fighting or grabbing is my consistent principle of doing things. Even if I like him more, my girlfriend may be greedy for freshness and likes him. Unless we like him to have a three-person meeting together, talk openly and honestly and talk clearly, talk about it thoroughly, he likes me, and his girlfriend clearly quits, otherwise, I don't mix threesomes.

    In the emotional world, I hate 3 people the most, look at what a man can, how sought-after, how arrogant, no man is worth grabbing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If my girlfriend and I fall in love with someone at the same time, I think my choice must be the same as my girlfriend's, open and honest and fair play! If that person chooses a girlfriend, I will be happy and disappointed, but I will bless my girlfriend and sincerely hope that they are happy. If that person chooses me, I firmly believe that my girlfriend will also bless me.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If it were me, I would take the initiative to quit after making sure that the man was a close friend. There are few best girlfriends in a lifetime, but, what do men say, it's too unreliable, I won't hurt my relationship with my girlfriend for so many years for a man I have known for a short time. However, if the rival is not a close friend, you can fight for it.

    Girlfriends are like siblings, and men are like clothes.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Look at me, whether I really like him, see who he likes, and whether I want to get along with this girlfriend in harmony and friendship, if he doesn't love me and likes my girlfriend, I will let it, if I like him very much, and he doesn't have a good impression of his girlfriend, I will fight for it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My best friend told me that she was in love with someone, and the two of them were chatting to see how the next thing would go, but she accidentally found out that her best friend from high school actually knew this person and liked him, and asked me what to do. According to the development trend of Korean dramas, either you don't want it, or you compete fairly, or you have a righteous and awe-inspiring attitude, all kinds of kindness and no intentions, and you will automatically quit.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It turned out that in the end, I seemed to be intervening between my girlfriend and the boy, but I asked my girlfriend everything about the boy every time. Later, I found out that my best friend also liked the boy, and the two of them were still together, so I was very sad and fell out with my best friend, and stopped talking at all.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's normal for your girlfriend and you to like the same person, but you should communicate and communicate well to find the best solution.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love should be pursued boldly, no matter how good the girlfriend's feelings are, it is selfish, so it must be boldly pursued.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Feelings are selfish, but the current feelings are not necessarily true, and that person is not necessarily so good.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Girlfriends have too many similar preferences, and in terms of looking at men, they are likely to have similar visions, so they will like a man.

    It's really hard to take care of friendship and not want to give up the man you like. But in the end, a decision has to be made.

    1. Speak openly and honestly about your feelings with your girlfriends and compete fairly.

    Whoever your girlfriend likes, you must have shared the man's information with you, otherwise you won't know that if you like this man very much, you can have an open and honest chat with your girlfriend and compete fairly.

    Emotional things are not something that can be obtained by liking, and if you give in, it is equivalent to losing the opportunity. It's not easy to meet someone you like, and besides, your best friend and him don't have a definite relationship, and you both have the same rights.

    2. Look at the attitude of men.

    The most important thing in the competition between two girls is the attitude of the man.

    Find a timetable to confess, or let your girlfriend confess first, and see how the male Tongwan person replies.

    As a joke, men may not be interested in either of you, so you don't have to compete for posts, just sing cool and cool.

    Love is fate, and the person you like happens to like you too, which is a good fate.

    3. The man and his girlfriend get close and quit.

    In ordinary interactions, if you can see that a man and his girlfriend are getting closer, then you should quit.

    Hide your love in your heart and try to avoid seeing men alone, so that you can also preserve your girlfriends.

    4. The man and the two of you are ambiguous, and persuade the girlfriends to withdraw from this competition together.

    Men are ambiguous about you, don't say they don't like it, and they don't say they don't like it. Moreover, you find out that he and his girlfriend are also dating.

    At this time, it's not your sisters who are competing, it's about advising your girlfriends to join forces and stay away from scumbags.

    Such a man is taking advantage of the situation to delay the likes of the two girls, enjoy the feeling of hugging left and right, don't let him be delusional.

    There are many men, and finding a boyfriend is put in front.

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