She betrayed our relationship for three years, she betrayed our relationship for 12 years, should I

After reading it, I have a feeling.

You should end such a woman as soon as possible, or when you get married, your life will still be chaotic. You still have to climb the wall.

It's been three years, and she's treated you like this, and you're still obsessed.

Chase hair, chase, let go as soon as possible.

A rental guy took her away, and she still feels mature, I'm really convinced.

You left your entrepreneurial path and went around her, and the result? If you have to go down on your own path, what should you do and what should you do, and this woman is also worthy of you?

Probably really loved you before. But now I may love that guy more. I advise you to give up the relationship.

It's not me talking nonsense! Think about it. Even if you win in the end!

What's yours in? What will be your status at home in the future? If she can show up the first time, she can't guarantee that she won't show up a second time.

Half-heartedness Can you describe her no, why do you love her so much Is it worth it. She's too realistic. Not for you, mind if you change to a girlfriend.

You do your own business well, and there will be many good women in the future. As a woman, I can't stand it, I can't accept it, my boyfriend still has any ambiguous relationships with other women, let alone kissing or something.

You are in love with her! You can give up everything for her! But the question is, is she worth it?

Is she still the same person you knew? Does she still care about you now? Don't say love, even if you care a little, I won't do this to you!

If you still like it, how can you bear to make you so sad! Maybe she didn't know what she wanted. Maybe you've been together for a long time!

Something has changed before you know it! Maybe you're separated from each other, and she's used to being alone!! You can let her go now!

Let go of this relationship for the time being! Let's be quiet with each other.

Give up, friend! Since he treats you like this, you don't have to insist anymore, it's boring! Now girls are very realistic! Leave her, find the right one, forget about her, she is just a passerby in your life!

Ignore her, put your mind on entrepreneurship, she doesn't love you, why do you care so much about her? Because it's beautiful? Don't care too much about the outward stuff. Trying to improve yourself is king, not trying to please her

Forget it, brother, I'm not afraid of you scolding me, if the truth is really what you described, I think you really don't need to make money outside ,,, for the future home, and she doesn't care about your tiredness, your suffering, nothing to say, forget it, proud.

Without her, the earth wouldn't turn the same way, this world is like this, why complain, don't you have to live your life? If a man has a career, will he have everything soon? Go for it.

This kind of woman calls it unworthy of your love to leave her early.

She's already like this, do you still believe she loves you?

Personally, I suggest giving up, such a woman doesn't understand feelings.

You can only face reality, and of course it's definitely not your fault.

His fault is that he doesn't cherish you, and the main reason is that it is not suitable. Your love has come to an end.

His fault is that he chose someone else, and he insisted that you were not good, messing around, making trouble, and excusing himself.

Such a boy is too unworthy of cherishing.

Of course, love is a matter of two people, if he chooses to leave and chooses someone else, let him be! Don't feel wronged, don't feel lonely, you still have your parents, and you will meet the one who is more suitable for you in the future.

Six years of relationship, after some distance obstacles, separation can only show that the reality has chosen the happiness in front of you. Let it go completely! There's no need to be sad for him anymore, especially if you end up putting the blame on you, too immature practices and ideas.

Let him go, he is not worthy of you.

What should I do? It's better than when you had him!

Laugh and watch the flowers bloom and fall in the pavilion, don't let this relationship entangle you anymore, since he is so ruthless, he has already thought of the consequences in advance, no matter how much he keeps it, it is just your wishful thinking, it is recommended to leave yourself some dignity and start anew.

Men are like this, they like the new and hate the old. I guess I caught a prettier one than you.

It's normal for people nowadays to do this. Such a person is no longer worthy of your love for him. It's not worth retrieving.

Even if he recovers, who knows if he will find another one. Forget about him. This may be the best option for you.

Find someone who is worthy of your love.

Let it go, my brother will also be in a situation with you, and it will be fine in a few months. Usually talk to friends more, don't let yourself be idle, it's very hard to be alone outside, it's good after this time, I wish you to come out early, your future is very bright.

Let go Although you love him, he doesn't love you anymore, why bother??

You should be thankful that it's not too late to break up.

If there is no novelty, she will break up, so she will have to change objects non-stop for the rest of her life! Who can keep the freshness, from love to marriage, the two of them are slowly tending to a dull life from the initial freshness, just want to spend money on the moon, can't stand firewood, rice, oil and salt, then talk about a lifetime of love, change the object of a lifetime.

Maybe her feelings for you are really not as deep as you think, and the lack of freshness is just an excuse, and it is true that she doesn't have much feeling for you as a person. Maybe I left you for a period of time and thought it through, or maybe I had other encounters, I don't know, anyway, I want to leave you, and the others have little to do with you.

But at least it's not too late to break up now, you still have a long life, you can still meet a lot of people, there will always be someone who will appear for you, and there is no grass at the end of the world. It's right to be emotional, but feelings can't be forced, everything follows fate, if she really wants to leave, maybe your fate has come to an end, you should let it go!

I pity you for your painful emotions now, the thread of the matter seems to be gradually coming to the surface, it seems that some betrayals in the past make you still haunt you now, I wonder how you feel about your wife now, do you think you love her, or whether she is satisfied with your feelings, and whether the things that have happened have made you unable to let go?

Given that when she was in love, she and her ex-boyfriend were still together, I don't know if it was her family who didn't agree with them being together, there was no problem between them, we said we were married, but she went out on a trip with him, she didn't like to pick up my phone Yu Sakura, I thought she was busy, once she didn't pick me up on the night shift, I ran to Zhencong to find her, her colleague told me she wasn't there, and then I found her and went on a date with him in the car. I found her parents, and then she was undecided, and in the end I still couldn't let go, I had to marry her, and she couldn't marry me in the end, because of the family. This betrayal made me change, I lost trust in anyone, and I had no new interest in anything!

This epidemic has made me very idle, and I think of betrayal again, and my heart is like falling into a cliff, a cliff without a bottom.

You can see that during this epidemic, you have a lot of thoughts in your heart to look back on the past, and you can look for the help of trusted friends when you are in pain.

Thinking of her mentality at that time, she was also very desperate, and she was engaged to you.

To hang out with her, maybe she wants to be separated from you this way.

She'll feel like no one can stand it and feel like she's a fool.

For 13 years, she has been obedient to you and has not made you angry for 13 years.

The love is enough to let go of the betrayal, but why.

It still hurts so much to think of betrayal.

How can we forget this trauma?

Embark on the current love experience your emotions.

It is very important to clarify how those past traumas were generated, about the things of 13 years ago, maybe the other party once needed some explanation for this, and over the years, the status and feelings of the two people have changed a lot, I don't know how your relationship is, and this is a very important background, if the once ignored emotions are suppressed, they may still appear at some point, for example, this epidemic gives you the opportunity to recall many important things, and some traumas need to be released and reprocessed. may be diluted.

When people struggle with pain, judgment, try to push it away, avoid it, ignore it, suppress it, can actually trigger other painful emotions that lead to more emotional pain, we can sit back and look at our emotions instead of judging ourselves or struggling with our emotions, you can quietly observe your emotions without judging yourself, you can notice what you are going through, emotional agitation. It's uncomfortable but I'm fine and I can tolerate that. Validating your heartache means accepting it, and if you feel that such distress is affecting your life, you can try counseling to help. zq

Psychoanalysis: Hello subject, trauma is hard for us to forget, the past is real. We can only face and accept. One day you can overcome it, and the trauma will become a medal in your heart.

You've been married to her for 13 years, and you've had love with her for 13 years. She's obedient to you. Is it that she also feels guilty about you?

After you got married, did you communicate with her about it again? If this is your heart knot, it is recommended that you communicate with her calmly. Maybe it's exactly the same as you imagined.

Back 13 years ago, you knew she was out on a trip with her ex-boyfriend. You still chose to marry her later, what did you think about changing the scum at that time? She married you because of her family, why did you accept her at that time? How will she feel when she marries you?

You say you can't trust anyone. If you didn't believe her, why did you marry her in the first place? If you don't believe her, will you be able to live with her for 13 years? In fact, maybe you are conflicted inside. Or maybe you just want to prove that your feelings are right.

You decide to marry her, and she must have something very appealing to you. In the same way, you must have something that attracts her. Because of the gravitational pull of the year, you can live together for 13 years. Each other has become one of the most important people in each other's lives.

At the moment, isn't it the most important thing that the person who is with you loves you?

The one she used to be is just a part of who she is now.