I always feel like I don t deserve him, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-20
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you really love each other, you don't need to think about these issues, love can surpass everything, have confidence in yourself, if the other party makes you feel that you are not worthy of him, then give up first, difficult his reflection, if he does not have the intention of keeping you, it means that he is not worthy of your lifelong trust Oh, my words are only for reference.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's that you're not confident enough. If you can't be confident, it's better to separate than be pressured to be with him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Lack of self-confidence, really

    Here you are, you are the only person in the world, you are the only one.

    You are the best

    Increase self-confidence, don't care what other people think, that's all, hehe.

    I'm sleepy and sleeping, so I don't write it, but I want to say a lot, I'm sorry

    I wish you to find true love

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Simple, try to increase your chips for yourself, and you're done.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Work hard to improve yourself and make yourself more confident!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are always some things that you have to judge with your own eyes, and there are always things that you should try to believe that you use your heart when you look at them, so they are real, so you believe them.

    If you think you've lost, you've really lost.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No self-confidence. You need to be confident.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You are a kind of unrequited love, you can go to the Internet to find the solution to unrequited love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Give yourself a reason to be confident There's no such thing as a deserving or unworthy one.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Suddenly feel that you are not worthy of him, kiss hello, why do you always feel that you are not worthy of the object, it may also be a problem of appearance, a little inferiority, it may also be that the face is good-looking, and you feel that you are not worthy of the bottom, this may also be the effect of psychology, don't always feel that you are not worthy of the object, let the object know that you are good, and then in his heart you can't get married, if the object doesn't care about that, then you think too much.

    Suddenly I felt that I was not worthy of him.

    Suddenly feel that you are not worthy of him, kiss hello, why do you always feel that you are not worthy of the object, it may also be a problem of appearance, a little inferiority, it may also be that the face is good-looking, and you feel that you are not worthy of the bottom, this may also be the effect of psychology, don't always feel that you are not worthy of the object, let the object know that you are good, and then in his heart you can't get married, if the object doesn't care about that, then you think too much.

    Kiss hello, you can see that you still have some inferiority complex in your heart, and you suddenly feel that your original family is not worthy of your boyfriend. Actually, you don't have to think about it so much, your boyfriend really loves you and likes you, and the two of you get along very happily together, I believe that in your boyfriend's mind, you are very good. So you don't have to worry too much, maybe your boyfriend doesn't care about your family of origin.

    Kiss you, as long as he likes you, it is enough, there is no difference between high and low love, only love and non-love. And the relationship needs to be consensual, I think as long as the two of you like each other, it's enough.

    Hello dear kiss, Zhang Ailing once said: "If you like someone, you will be humbled to the dust, and then bloom." After you really like someone, you are always prone to gains and losses, worrying that one day your beloved will leave you, lacking self-confidence, and always rushing to meet your own lack of ability and thus not worthy of the other half.

    In the end, I often stage a one-man show, sad, in fact, everyone is unique, always have their own shining point, you must be confident, confident people are the most charming!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    However, this is just our own one-sided feeling, not a fact. We can think of it this way, and we can also change this idea and take the opposite attitude: I deserve all the good (that's the name of a book, it's recommended).

    You have experienced several failed romances, being deceived, squeezed, split, etc., which is also your "unworthy" feeling at work, you don't believe that you deserve to have a good love, have a good lover, so you only dare to find these "scumbags" who will hurt you.

    Positive self-fulfilling prophecies will help you attract a positive and good life, while negative self-fulfilling prophecies will trap you in a bad cycle.

    So, when you find that these "undeserved" negative thoughts are coming back to you, be sure to hint at yourself with some positive thoughts: I'm good, I'm good, I deserve good things, I deserve a good life.

    These beautiful things will make you feel that life can be very beautiful, and with a good life comes more beautiful feelings, more beautiful people and things. It's not the bad luck you might think.

    It's not easy to change your beliefs, but it's possible, and it's worth trying, and as long as you take the first step, the rest will become smoother and smoother.

    If depression and anxiety are still bothering you, it is advisable to stick to it**.

    I'm the little ear of the Q&A hall, hug you, the world and orange or I love you! ❥(

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I know, he is very good, his grades are very good, his family conditions are very good, and his appearance is also very good.

    Compared to him, I don't seem to be good, so every time I mention my crush to my friends, I have low self-esteem.

    He's a very polite, very sincere guy, unlike a lot of people, and I think he's very careful about everything.

    His politeness also made me feel very distant.

    It's been a long time since I made it clear last time, I don't dare to read it, this is also the first time he sent such a long list of messages, before I did it, I must have been ecstatic, and read it many times, but this time, it was the end of my crush, that message, I only read it once at the time, and I still don't dare to read it a second time, and now I think about it, I will feel very sad.

    Friends say I'm very persistent, indeed. I liked him again and again, including before, my friends even thought I was joking.

    In my freshman year, I went to a new environment and met a lot of people, many of whom had initiated the message of falling in love, but I didn't feel it, and even from the beginning to the end, I would point out that I didn't want to fall in love.

    I'm curious now about what the girl he likes is like, and when he chats with the girl he likes, he doesn't reply to messages for a long time, and he says they don't have a common topic, and he politely addresses her "you"?

    It's hard to let go, in my room, the 18-year-old gift for him has not yet been delivered, and the digital oil painting that has been painted for a long time has begun to fade ......

    Anyway, let it be.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Real feelings don't need to be chased at all. The tacit understanding between the two people is slowly shortening the distance between the two hearts, and they are gradually getting closer to each other unconsciously. From good friends to lovers, it doesn't take long for real feelings to come.

    From the moment you like him, maybe he also likes you at that moment.

    Handsome guys and rich people like beautiful women, but the requirements of beautiful women are generally rich, and rich people are monopoly capitalists who find beautiful women. So ugly girls are destined not to make a fortune by finding a partner.

    Typical inferiority complex.

    Because I like ta, in my own eyes, everything about ta is so beautiful and unique, compared with myself, of course, I will feel that I am not worthy of ta

    It's not good to think like that. Girls should have self-confidence, have you watched "Hibiscus Out of the Water"? The ballet teacher has a classic line: I have a secret, I am beautiful, and everyone loves me

    Only a confident girl can shine.

    Believe in yourself. We often feel sorry for missing something, but in fact, the mystery of life is often beyond your expectations, no matter when, you have to believe that everything is the best Anmo You's answer.

    Compared with the four girls in the book, only Hatsumi's love is absolutely selfless and great, she tolerates all the things that Yongze needs to be tolerated, and gives Yongze the most beautiful and greatest love in her heart, she hopes to get Yongze's understanding and care, just such a simple request but can't get a positive answer; She once said that she could wait for Yongze for a long, long time, but Yongze couldn't give her an accurate deadline, is this wait for three years, five years, or ten years? And Yongze said, if you still love me one day in the future, continue to love, if you don't love, love others, this is up to you.

    Hatsumi said:"Is it wrong to want to be understood by someone? "

    Yongze: "Understanding a person is not a matter of whether you want to or not, but a natural occurrence."

    After reading the main book, it can actually be understood that Hatsumi's love is too rational and selfless, and it is an existence that transcends love, just like maternal love.

    This blind face is emanating from Hatsumi, the tone of her voice, and her meticulous care for her friend Watanabe; The other part is also due to Yongze's cynicism, too free, and unreasonable attitude towards the world, which brings out the helplessness and even despair of this love at a deeper level.

    In fact, everyone is cheap, but you don't know all the people, on the contrary, you only know that you have a lot of dark sides, maybe you are still an adolescent, there are many people around you who are actually very poor, but you haven't seen their nests, if you want to compare with them, it is not necessarily who is better than whom, since you are not necessarily the worst, then you go out and make friends with them frankly and what is the defense?

    Even if you're the worst, what are you afraid of?

    Didn't someone say: I'm a hooligan, who am I afraid of?

    What do you think? Do you have too little interaction with people?

    That's why this inferiority complex arises?

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