Can a person who has gone through the most difficult days face life more calmly?

Yes, of course! If a person can overcome obstacles and walk bravely through a very difficult period, you will find that everything is beautiful and you will face everything calmly.

It must be like this, when the most difficult days can be passed smoothly, the ability will definitely be stronger, so that you can face life calmly, and you can also make yourself manage your life better.

Yes. Because people only do not retreat in the face of difficulties, but overcome them bravely. In the future, you will be more able to adapt to small winds and waves.

I think yes, only when a person goes through the most difficult days can he face life more calmly, and only then can he stimulate his potential and make himself a motivated person.

When a person has gone through the most difficult days, he has put down the burden in his heart, and when facing the difficulties in his future life, he will be more calm, have methods, and maintain a good attitude.

At present, there are many people in society who are in the most difficult and helpless entrepreneurial failure or poverty due to business, they are basically disconnected, in debt, and even many are displaced and have nothing. I don't want to pour chicken soup for everyone, but I want to give some advice to friends who are in the most difficult and helpless situations based on my own experience.

Think far away. When I encountered setbacks in my business, when I was most difficult and helpless, I always wanted to jump from the office (the office was on the fourth floor), but I felt that there was no point in living, but when I considered the sadness of my loved ones, I finally chose to give up. How to dispel it? Later, I drove to the funeral home, the car was parked in the yard and slept in the car, looking at the white smoke coming out of the grief-stricken relatives of the deceased and the big chimney of the funeral home, I figured it out, people come to this world, whether they are dignitaries or ordinary people, in the end they are all wisps of white smoke, whether you have money or not, whether you have power or not, the result is the same.

Therefore, when people are most difficult and helpless, they think about the distance, think about death, and can take a more look at the scenery of this world is the goal, and everything else is floating clouds.

Look underfoot. When a person is in the most difficult and helpless time, don't dwell on history, don't look forward to the future, just live in the present; Don't think about dignity and face, don't care about indifference and white eyes; Don't think about life and death, suffering and happiness, just live each day with your heart. If you don't have money in your pocket, you go to a restaurant to wash dishes, go to a construction site to move bricks, or go to work to start a small business, or go to work, because you have to fill your stomach before you can survive. A person, in the most difficult and helpless time, if he can look at his feet and ignore everything else, this is strong and strong.

Go higher. People don't know how to face reality when they are difficult and helpless? Don't know how to get out of this situation? Then don't be in a hurry to break free and think about rising, just identify the direction, understand the high and low, and go down firmly.

Don't say that you can't see hope, and not seeing hope doesn't mean that there is no hope in life; Don't say that there is no meaning in living, going to a high place is meaning. When I was in a period of confusion, I just walked forward in a daze, without a purpose, but now that I think about it, I am really glad that I didn't choose to give up.

Life is like this, you can't live as you want, and you're going through twists and turns. When a person is in the most difficult and helpless time, he can think far away, look at his feet, and go to a high place, this is hope and the future.

Grit your teeth and hold on for a while and it's over. Try to divert your attention, go out for a walk more when you have time, chat with friends more often, as long as you remember the thirty years of Hedong and the thirty years of Hexi, it will always pass.

If a person survives the most difficult days, then his or her good days will come, because the rain will pass the weather, and the sunny days in the middle of summer will be comfortable, because after the darkness will usher in the dawn of dawn!

Just regard it as a noble person's suffering, hardship is exercise, after this period, the sweet days are complete!

Do what you like, make yourself happy, face life positively, and be optimistic.

In fact, many people are like you at this moment, suffering and encountering many problems that cannot be solved, and what about these problems? I have been deposited in my heart for a long time, and there are new problems, which keep appearing, and when I think of many problems in the future, I always feel more uncomfortable in my heart, almost collapsed, so you feel that there are a lot of thoughts, and it may be very uncomfortable and hopeless, but you don't know, is this life? In the face of pain and setbacks, we have to move forward, we have to work hard, and finally we have to persist in living, this is life.

Brother, live well, no matter what? The most important thing is that we are alive, we can still feel everything in the world, we can still be with my relatives, there are things we like to eat, swimming, places we are willing to go, by our laughing pants, this is the meaning of life, don't look at everything now so bitterly,

This is inevitable, no one can really empathize with your pain, in the end, you have to rely on yourself, and no one can rely on you.

When a person has survived the pain of grievances, your life will become stronger and stronger, and it will be smoother and smoother, and if you have survived the pain of ridicule, you will see clearly the many people and many things around you, and everything you will do in the future will be very smooth.

Survive career downturns and economic downturns. If a person is not defeated by the trough of his career, he will definitely think about his future life plan, and if he survives his economic downturn, he will cherish every hard-won money more, and make careful calculations to pave the way for a better life in the future.

When a person survives these kinds of suffering, the future life will be very smooth, first, after surviving the pain of grievances, your life will become stronger and stronger, second, the pain of ridicule, you will see many people around you, many things, third, the pain of loneliness, you will enjoy the loneliness in life.

No matter how hard it is, you must remain diligent and kind, so that your life will become smoother and smoother.

Writer Yang Daxia described that diligence and kindness are the guarantee of success.