Is it right or wrong for my boyfriend to leave me during a difficult time?

There is no absolute right or wrong in this. If he leaves because of low self-esteem or something, it is not advisable. If you are willing to let someone else give you a happy life because you can't give you a happy life, this is understandable.

But this question does not take into account whether you are willing to accompany him through the difficult time, and this behavior is not advisable without considering your personal wishes.

This kind of thing is not good for judging right and wrong, for you may be wrong for others, but for the other party, he has chosen the choice that is beneficial to himself.

This still needs to be asked, of course it is wrong.

will not leave him, will find a way to get through the difficulties with him. For details, you can refer to the following practices.

1. Go into his field and research before giving advice.

If your boyfriend is a very ambitious person, he will definitely have trouble at work. In order for him to see you as a confidant, you must first understand the basics of the industry he is engaged in, the development of his career, and his status in the company, etc. As his girlfriend, you are the second person to know him.

If he has a problem in the emotional, family and other fields, you have to have a sensitive intuition to find out what the problem is, and it is better not to be like a layman who keeps asking him: what's wrong. Because he doesn't want to say it, and your frequent inquiries will only turn him off.

The best thing to do is to meet a friend in the same field as him, his colleague, his buddy. In this way, you will be able to understand the crux of your boyfriend's difficulties at the first time and prescribe the right medicine.

2. Don't say: you should ......Something like that.

When your boyfriend is facing difficulties, his own emotions are negative, his heart is even full of rebellion, and when he can't think of how to solve the problem, he will be very disgusted with those who help him make decisions. It's very familiar, when you were in adolescence, you didn't know these words from your parents, how could you obediently do things according to your parents' will?

And a man's rebellion in this regard is long and potential, so when you step on this minefield when he is facing difficulties and don't know what to do, then you may easily win the disgust of your boyfriend, and it is even more impossible to listen to your advice.

3. Quiet listening, reciprocal communication.

Find a quiet café and listen quietly to him finish talking about his troubles. In such a quiet and clean environment, people's emotions tend to be calmer, and it is best to analyze the difficulties clearly. Wait until you have listened to his difficulties, contact the knowledge you have, communicate with him on an equal footing, and complain about his strange colleagues with him to liven up the atmosphere.

Take the moment and come up with some suggestions for your ideas, but remember to be sure to put yourself in the shoes of a listener and let him know that you are thinking after listening to his difficulties. In this way, he will be able to seriously consider your suggestion.

No, I won't leave him, I will support him mentally, encourage him, and when I encounter difficulties, I will solve it together, and I can't let my boyfriend face it alone.

No. I finally found a boy I liked, and I can't leave him because he encounters a little difficulty, so I have to share the ups and downs with him.

No, I will help my boyfriend through it, difficulties cannot be a stumbling block in the love of two people, I will not leave him.

Grow old together. When my boyfriend is in trouble, as long as he doesn't give up, I won't leave him. Since we are together, we must share the weal and suffering together.

No, the difficulty is temporary, and I will help him through this because I love my boyfriend very much, and I will not leave him.

No. I would choose to stay with him. If he is in trouble and you leave, then you really don't deserve love for the rest of your life.

I'm not leaving, and to be honest, I'm facing a similar problem right now and we're working together for a better future.

But it's not that my boyfriend is having a hard time, it's that I've been having trouble all the time. It's that his family conditions are not good, intuitively speaking, there is no house or car, and the work is average, I haven't seen too much enterprising spirit in him before, I liked him because I felt that he was more honest, and he was very sensible and filial to his parents. The main thing is that he is really nice to me, and the two of us really like each other.

Many times, the reason why our choices are tangled is because there are problems, and the problems between me and him are not because I really dislike him, I am also willing to fight with him, I am not the kind of girl who completely wants to rely on men. I still want to be independent.

But I asked my friends around me, including my cousin or something, they all said that love can be regardless of the car and the house, but marriage depends on it, in addition, my cousin is married very ordinary, my brother-in-law has no house or car, and she said that my brother-in-law came to the door to raise the bride price money is very small, I don't know, anyway, my uncle and aunt were in the village at that time and couldn't raise their heads, and were laughed at by the whole village.

Fortunately, my sister is more independent and hardworking, although her early work is also a lot of ups and downs, and then she worked hard for more than two years to be the company's sales champion through her own efforts to buy a house and a car, she said that now they have a better life, but she used to quarrel often for money, so she is firmly against dating my boyfriend, I must admit that what she said will make her parents lose face when the time comes, although I am a little shaken, but I believe that my boyfriend and I will overcome these difficulties, everything will be fine.

So I think no matter how bad his economic conditions are now, he has to be willing to work hard like me, otherwise the congenital conditions are not good, and if he doesn't work hard the day after tomorrow, there is really no hope, and now I don't want to do so much, I work hard with him first, give everyone a fair time, and see how things develop later, I hope everything is fine.

No, I will face difficulties together, and share the blessings and hardships, which is what couples should do, and they must never give up.

No, the so-called blessings and hardships are the same, and the boyfriend will leave him when he is in trouble, which is not only a blow to him, but also a denial of his character.

No, I will be there for him to support and encourage him, and if he wants to leave me because of this, I will not agree until he gets better.

No, because he's my boyfriend. I like him very much, and when I have a problem, I want to help him solve it, not leave him. I will be with him in his most difficult moments.