What happened to me in this life, all this was too sudden, it was all predestined?

There are always many times in a person's life, because of an oversight, a mistake that makes things unpredictable, and even changes the direction of life.

When we encounter this kind of thing, we always say, what happens if we know it earlier, but the world doesn't know it early. Many times in life, when I encounter a lot of unhappiness, being bullied, being deceived, and being hit, I will think that it must be a bad year, and I should also go to calculate the fortune and change the luck.

I had this idea, everything that can't be avoided is predestined, good and bad are the same, and I gradually began to believe in fate.

What is fate? This may be a very grand and profound proposition, and there are thousands of answers in a thousand lives.

The more powerful and confident people are, the less they believe in fate, because they get what they want and get better through their own efforts, and they believe that things are done by man.

And those who have been crushed by life, who have suffered pain and setbacks, who are physically and mentally exhausted, who have nowhere to put their hearts, and who cannot get the comfort, will be handed over to fate, because they cannot break free from the hand of fate, so they will no longer struggle, so it will be a little better.

I have always felt that ghosts and gods are not as terrible as people's hearts, and a sage once said: The most unsightly thing is the sun and people's hearts.

There are devils and angels living in everyone's heart, and one thought becomes a demon and one thought becomes a Buddha.

Many, many accidents are man-made, but kind people are also everywhere, telling us that the world is worth it, and what we can do in the face of people's hearts is to protect ourselves, that is, to do good deeds, not to ask about the future.

Do you believe in fate? Believe it or not, whether ordinary or passionate life still goes on, every day joyful and painful things happen at any moment or second you don't know, but isn't life made up of such joys, sorrows, and sorrows?

As long as you live hard, human beings are great, but people are small, we can't predict the future and can't understand fate, then live in the present, cherish every moment, cherish the people you love, and work hard to love yourself.

My life is up to me. What is predestined?

Hmmm......How do you say that? I feel that life is like a grid, everything you do is choosing to face your hundreds of billions of roads, if it is destined, then I ask you, even if these troubles happen to you, why should you be distressed and confused?

The reason is very simple, it doesn't fit, it doesn't go well, it makes you feel very awkward, you feel uncomfortable, if you change the result or process, you will feel that this is just an ordinary thing, or a happy thing. Everything is the same. There is no "good or bad", there is no fun that does not look for you, only you do not look for it.

Don't complain, it's like this for everyone, and don't say that fate is like that.

It is precisely because of the unexpected that there is a reason to live, and if you have seen all the things that have happened to you in the future, then what is the meaning of living? Try to change it, but it happened to you? Those relatives who have disappeared in Malaysia Airlines, why did the pain of natural and man-made disasters happen to them?

Why do so many elderly people die of illness every day, and are they willing to have this kind of pain and sadness of their relatives? Destiny? Wrong.

If you can't change it, turn it around, change yourself, your heart is too stuffy, this is a sky, above our heads, above everyone's head, under this there are many, many things happening, all kinds of joy, sadness, boring ordinary things, and so on. With happiness there will be troubles, how to say how happy those things are without worries, friends, relax, encounter things that do not go well, smell the air we breathe, it wafts from far away, with everyone's breath. Look at the sky and imagine your friends who live in the same sky as you.

Why are some people happy every day, but their troubles are far away from them? Because they gave it up.

I have also encountered some depressed things in the past, and I was sick because of depression like this, and then I went to see a Chinese doctor, it was an old Chinese medicine doctor, I think he was also a person who had experienced some things, and then when he prescribed medicine to me, he said a word to go with the flow, and then I also found out that it was a heart disease, I couldn't overcome myself, you have to remember that the things you experienced are your wealth, come on, life is very beautiful!

Life, isn't that what it is, growth, study, career, family, it takes a century to finish this. From a cry, a roar, a sigh to go... We have reason not to work hard ... No regrets in your life

Don't be unhappy, get in your mindset and go.