My relationship with my friend has faded, and I feel like she doesn t care about me

Many things can't be forced, and feelings can't be forced. Take care of yourself and be kind to others, she loves to come and go by her, and she is not the only one in the world.

Sunshine up, happy up! Don't worry about everything, don't indulge in feelings, and lose what you should do. If you are sunny, others will come close to the sunshine.

Sometimes I think like you.

But if you think about it, college is separated, and the love of boyfriend and girlfriend will also become alienated with time and geography.

Not to mention friends.

Of course, you'll meet different people in different cities.

There will also be different circles of life.

Don't think too much about it.

If she's your girlfriend and your feelings are wrong, maybe she has a crush on you!

If she is your good friend, you should also be considerate of her distress, maybe she has a lot of secrets in her heart that she doesn't want to tell you.

Why am I teaching all that is using me ... Friend..

Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, it is inevitable that we will lose some friends in the process of growing up, and there is no way to become more and more distant from our best friends, and some friends are destined to only be with you for a while. Here's why good friends are drifting apart:

The first is that this is especially evident when the environmental differences between the two sides are getting bigger and bigger. Especially after a very big change in income, when chatting, you will find that the concerns of both parties will be completely different, and you will start to find a common language, and then you will find that the values start to conflict.

The second is that friends are far away from each other and can't see each other often. No matter how good the relationship is, as long as you don't see each other for a long time, even if you keep in touch through the Internet, you will slowly drift apart.

The best way to maintain a relationship is to find time to meet and have a chat at least once a year, no matter how busy you are. Otherwise, it's a friend, and it will slowly disappear.

In fact, every Yuzhen has its own family environment, interpersonal relationships, and academic ability, and everyone has their own life to experience.

With the passage of time and the growth of the journey, some friends no longer walk with us at the fork in the road of life. But once in a while, you might as well put a little more thought into it and find a way to talk to the people you cherish.

No matter how time changes, cherish the fact that someone will still walk with you through countless forks in the road, and some friends will still stay.

I hope I can help friends in need.

All of us have come closer before we drift apart, but most of the time we meet suddenly, and we don't know when we start to be intimate or when we start to drift apart.

In the age of rebellion, we always want to do something maverick. With long bangs, learn to highlight and dye your hair, and then modify the school uniform, or graffiti on the school uniform, or cut the school uniform pants into leggings, and treat all the non-mainstream as your own special labels, self-righteous swagger. Although this history is dark, it was experienced by the two of us who are not particularly at peace in our bones, and maybe this is how our friendship was built little by little, and then we walked through junior high school and high school together until not long ago.

As soon as I calmed down during this time, I would think of this friendship and find that some feelings gradually disappeared in daily interactions. The establishment of a relationship seems very simple, because of a common topic, interest, hobby, similar experience, or just because they hit it off, or because they get along day and night. And the dilution of feelings can be because of contradictions and estrangement, or because of personality problems, and even because the feelings are getting closer and closer, too intimate so the burden is too heavy, so the more you get along, the more difficult it is to get along.

After high school, although we were in different classes but in the same dormitory, we all knew that living under the same roof would inevitably have some friction, but we didn't expect that these small frictions would make our feelings fade.

When we were in junior high school, we made stupid mistakes together, and we were happy with each other. In high school, we grew up a lot, and we began to dwell on each other's mistakes, or we were unwilling to accept different punishments for the same mistakes.

My friend is a very abrasive person, and I've known it since junior high school, but we didn't care about it at that time, because we were in the same class, and even if we were late together, we would be punished the same. However, in high school, we were in different classes, and although there were many fewer cases of late arrivals due to accommodation, there were still some cases.

The homeroom teacher in my class was much stricter than her class. Therefore, every time I was late, I was punished more severely than my friends, and over time I began to be unconvinced, which was probably a feeling of abandonment: why did I accompany you to make mistakes and you couldn't share the consequences with me?

I started complaining about my friends and making all kinds of excuses to go to the cafeteria and classroom by myself. Maybe my friend is also complaining to me: why can't I wait for her, isn't it just a few minutes?

Friends become very cold, yesRecall what happened recentlyIf you don't take care of his emotions and cause him to be angry, you should take the initiative to communicate with him at this time, and then resolve such a contradiction. There must be a reason why a friend becomes indifferent, so finding the cause is the key to being able to prescribe the right medicine.

Analysis of the reasons for the fading of friendship

First of all, my friend became indifferent, whether it was caused by my own oversensitivity。Sometimes a friend is in a bad mood and may have a cold attitude, and something must have happened to him to make it like this. At this time, you should help him, enlighten him, and be a friend who should do what you should do.

If your friend has a dislike because of what happened to the two of you, they are cold to you. At this time, it is necessary to find the key point of the problem, whether he has really done something wrong, or he has misunderstood, and he must take corresponding actions to let him get out of this matter. Good friends are hard to come by, so cherish them and take the time to communicate deeply.

If he deliberately avoids you because he has a new friendFor example, if this new friend does not have a good relationship with you, then he may be alienated from you. If this is the case, then you can try to redeem such a friendship, after all, after a period of getting along, the two have formed a certain tacit understanding, have a certain relationship, and they can't easily become friends. If the retention fails, let him go west and east at this time.

Such a friendship is not worth it.

If you can't find a suitable reason for the end of a friendship, the other party is also very vague. At this time, you can take the initiative, let him confront you head-on, say his thoughts frankly, and let him also give a reason, don't be silent like this, it's not good for both parties. After all, both parties worked hard to become friends.

My friendship

I'm in friendship, tooThere have been confusions, retreats, struggles, and betrayals. That feeling was very uncomfortable, and I felt that my efforts were all in vain, and there was nothing in return. All I had to wait for was the pain of a breakup.

At this time, I will try to adjust my mentality, start again, and re-examine myself, whether I have failed to do something, whether a certain behavior has hurt him, whether I don't care enough about him, whether there is a better friend who made him give up on me, or whether he has found a new pursuit and direction.

All this, after much thought, is painful, but also very wise. I will come out of the shadow of failure and walk away with a smile. I have done everything I can, and if the other party's feelings are like a pool of stagnant water, I can't do anything.

Feelings are a matter of two people, and I've done what I'm supposed to do. And why care about the air that you don't care about?

How do good friends fade into relationships? First of all, let's talk about how good friend relationships are formed. We might as well ask ourselves first, what kind of people have become good friends with you, and why are you willing to be friends with them?

1. The reason why common interests and hobbies become good friends is that you will definitely have some similarities, such as you both like to play basketball, do boys like to play basketball with several good friends very much? For example, you both like to drink and sing, run and work out, or play games together, in short, you often cross paths, and you will laugh and make fun together in the same activity. 2. Mutual trustWe will have a lot of friends around us, but to be able to become good friends must be mutual trust, if there is anything bad to say to others, we will generally say to good friends, because they are worthy of trust.

Therefore, we like to talk about problems in work and life, even our own secrets, with our good friends. Good friends are also willing to lend a helping hand when they are in trouble. And the weakening of good friends' feelings is often because of these two points.

1. Different circlesWhen many good friends are in the same circle, everyone can support and play together. And when everyone's circle changes, the relationship will also fade. The simplest example is that many very good friends in college have less contact after graduation, because everyone's circle has changed, and they are all active in their current circle, the intersection has become smaller, and the relationship has naturally faded.

Because after graduation, everyone's circles are different, their horizons are different, and the common language will be less. Second, the most important thing between friends who have lost trust is trust, once trust is lacking, it is difficult to establish again. Many people have borrowed money from a good friend and the other party has not paid it back.

Because of friendship, we can't bear each other to fall into a difficult and defeated situation, but in exchange for his right. Even in the case of repeated urgings, the other party still did not repay the money. Or your most trusted best friend tells your secrets to others, and repeatedly breaks your promise to others, which are all factors that weaken the relationship between good friends.

Between friends, the most important thing is trust, helping you is love, not helping you is duty. So if you cherish the friendship between friends, please be a person who keeps your word.

The relationship between friends also takes time and energy to maintain, if the two parties have not been in touch for a long time, the intimacy of friends will naturally decline, coupled with the difference in the working and living environment, the surrounding communication or divination circle is also different, and the topics between each other are also correspondingly missing, there is no common language, and the lack of ideological resonance will also accelerate the fading of the relationship.

HowI can only say that there are fewer and fewer friends who can be called, and even fewer and fewer friends who can be contacted casually！Here's why:

1. After getting married, there are too many people who can't help themselves, and because they are already married, they will put more feelings and energy on the family. Before we got married, we were relatively free in terms of time, and when we had nothing to do, some friends could just call out and get together. But once you get married and have a family, there is a kind of bondage, especially after having children, there are more ties, you can't go out if you can't say it, and two friends, if you have time, she may not have time, she needs your honor when you don't have time, in short, the intersection is getting less and less, and because of this reason, the contact between the two people is also less, naturally, and slowly it will be unfamiliar.

Second, now that communication technology is developed, two people don't need to go out, and they can do face-to-face, but this kind of face-to-face is still not as real as meeting each other, just like saying that couples in a long-distance relationship, even if they call ** every day, send messages, and even say ** world manuscript high chat, but it is not as good as couples who can meet every day, come to be more real. Therefore, this kind of communication method also shortens the distance between the two people, making the two people unconsciously become strangers.

Third, third, there is a very important reason, in fact, it is the same as falling in love, the communication between friends, but also pay attention to the right person, like-minded, when they are not married, two people can be said to be equal in strength, but once married, I think there may be a gradual gap in the economy, especially after a few years of marriage, after more than ten years, the gap has gradually opened. Because there is a certain gap in the economic level of the two colors, it also leads to a psychological gap between the two people, or even if two people sit together, they may not have a common language, which leads to the two friends are becoming more and more estranged.

The older a person gets, the fewer friends they have, I believe thatEveryone will have this experience, but in the end we will also find that although there are fewer and fewer friends, but in the end the rest is also the most worthy of us, sometimes it is really like that, friends do not need too many, can have several, when we are in trouble, need them, to be able to help, it is enough!