I feel that my boyfriend s feelings for me have weakened

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Personally, I think it's two cases.

    One is that the feelings have faded.

    The second is that the relationship is relatively stable. So it won't be as pampered as it was when I was pursuing you.

    Don't guess and be tempted.

    If you love him, believe in him.

    Every process has its troughs. It's good to get past this stage.

    It's not easy to be in a long-distance relationship for nearly three years. I don't know if you're a student.

    If yes. Just cherish it.

    If it's already working. There are plans to get married and so on. If it's time to put it on the agenda.。。

    It's also a good choice.

    Personal opinion. Ending this pattern of long-distance love early can stabilize the relationship.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Sometimes there are some things that you don't need to guess, I think it's better to say it directly, talk about it very frankly, and sometimes emotional problems don't happen if you don't avoid or deliberately avoid mentioning them. What needs to happen will always happen, the most important thing is that you have the courage to face it calmly, talk to him well, be very honest about your feelings, and listen to his stories and ideas. Even if it ends up being disappointed, it's much better than it is now.

    Maybe it's a turning point. Go ahead and be brave when you have to face it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There is a saying that after a long time, the feelings fade, and the people who love each other will be scattered.

    Since you really feel his indifference, stop deceiving yourself.

    Live well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The landlord is a competent and good girl, and she takes her feelings very seriously, which is rare. Maybe you find yourself tired now, but I think the three-year relationship must not be just fun, otherwise it won't be able to withstand such a long time. I think you should talk to him formally first, ask him what is wrong, if he is still like this then you give up, after all, love is a matter of two people, even if one person is working hard, it is useless.

    You may say that you give up too easily, but your lover is the one who makes yourself happy, and the person who will cherish you when you are unhappy, after all, you are a woman.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Pretending to be cute 2010 is the correct solution, love is romantic, and life is oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, girls should also put their mentality right, how can they be pampered and coaxed every day and every year like falling in love? You don't know what the reason is, just guess what kind of mentality is here? Maybe he is facing some challenges in his life or work now?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't be silly. He must have changed his mind, and if his feelings fade, it is impossible to change all at once. Unless you change your mind.

    This can be confirmed by not actively sending messages and secretly changing QQ passwords for more than a month. Generally, only people who don't like someone can do it without care, if he really loves you, how can he do it for so long without contacting you?

    If he doesn't have a ghost in his heart, why change the QQ password? If you don't want to know, then he won't share his QQ password with you from the beginning, and suddenly change it without telling you, presumably fools know what's going on.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't be cranky, communication is the bridge that builds the heart. Talk to him about what you're thinking!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't test the distance with feelings. In fact, the longer you talk, the less likely you are to get married. Many of my friends have been talking about it for 4 years and 5 years. Broken up.

    How much more are you separated? If you want to redeem it. Let's try to live together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should have a good talk with him.

    You shouldn't be thinking about it yourself.

    Find the answer from his mouth.

    You don't have to worry about it yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find out the reason, is it that he really doesn't love you anymore.

    If he still loves you, don't put yourself into the grinding phase early.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After a long separation, no matter how strong the relationship is, it will show weakness.

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