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It should be some dissatisfaction with the parents at first, then some resistance to behavior, and finally transformation into disgust.
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Summary. Hello, it's a pleasure to reply to you, what will be the manifestation of rebellion: 1
Most children in the rebellious period are very short-tempered and cannot control their emotions. I don't listen to anyone at all, and I feel nagging and impatient when my parents give advice or opinions. 2.
For example, when teachers and parents ask them to study hard, they think that they are restraining themselves and restricting their freedom, and sometimes they will rebel against the practices of their parents and teachers. 3.Self-centered, in the eyes of the rebellious child, everything he does is right.
I don't think about other people's feelings, I only care about myself. 4.I have a strong sense of vanity, and I want to have something that others have and pursue a famous brand.
The attention to the opposite sex will increase, and even some girls will wear makeup and mature clothes. 5.I don't like to be around my parents and adults, I think adults can't understand my thoughts, and I always go out to play with friends of the same age or stay at home by myself.
Hello, it's a pleasure to reply to you, what will be the manifestation of rebellion: 1Most of the children in the rebellious state are very short-tempered and cannot control their emotions.
I don't listen to anyone at all, and I feel nagging and impatient when my parents give advice or opinions. 2.For example, when teachers and parents ask them to study hard, they think that they are restraining themselves and restricting their freedom, and sometimes they will rebel against the practices of their parents and teachers.
3.Self-centered, in the eyes of the rebellious children, everything they do is right. I don't think about other people's feelings, I only care about myself.
4.I have a strong sense of vanity, and I want to have something that others have and pursue a famous brand. The attention to the opposite sex will increase, and even some girls will wear makeup and mature clothes.
5.I don't like to be around my parents and adults, I think adults can't understand my thoughts, and I always go out to play with my friends of the same age or stay at home.
1, 2, 3, 5 are all me.
Then correct it.
If these are all me, am I really rebellious?
It is not necessarily said that at all, specific things are analyzed on a case-by-case basis.
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The manifestations of rebellious psychology are as follows: lack of return.
Emotional instability: short-tempered and unstable, difficult to control emotions, angry when slightly unhappy, easily excited, often yelling and losing temper with parents, always feeling that dad and mom are nagging, as long as he talks about things, he can't listen to him, and even slams the door and slaps the table.
Rebellious psychology: There is a strong rebellious mentality, whether at school or at home, feeling restricted, without their own space and freedom, they may quarrel with their parents at home, and often fail to complete the homework assigned by the teacher at school and love to make excuses.
Self-centeredness: Children in the rebellious phase will show strong self-esteem and may even show self-centeredness, not allowing others, especially parents, to think differently from themselves.
Depressed mood: Some children may experience depressed mood, less language, and not communicate with teachers, classmates, or parents at home. Over time, there may be loss of appetite, or even listlessness, not wanting to go to school, etc.
Vanity: Compare yourself with others, such as overly pursuing famous brands or liking to dress up.
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The main manifestations of rebellious psychology:
The general tendency of members of society to rebel against authority, to rebel against reality. For example, "only the superior is opposed", "only the system is opposed", "only the advanced is opposed" and so on. As a social psychological phenomenon, it has distinctive characteristics such as pertinence, resistance, extremism, spontaneity, and blind obedience.
The rebellious mentality of teenagers who grow up to be independent of their parents or teachers. If you let him go east, he will turn west; You ask him to do it, but he doesn't do it; You don't let him do it, he wants to do it.
Rebellious psychology is a kind of single-value, one-way, unitary, stubborn and extreme habit of thinking, which makes people unable to objectively and accurately understand things as they are, and adopts wrong methods and ways to solve the problems they face. The rebellious mentality is often and repeatedly presented, which constitutes a narrow psychological stereotype, which runs counter to common sense at all times and in all places. The form of expression is quite similar to creative behavior, so some young people with serious rebellious tendencies often talk about it, or psychologically seek a "scientific" basis for their strange behavior.
However, rebellious psychology is fundamentally different from creative personal qualities, and it is often the product of insolence, arrogance, extremism, and simplicity.
Rebellious psychology can occur at different stages of adolescent growth and can manifest itself in a variety of ways. For example, reverse thinking of disagreement and distrust of positive propaganda; unwarranted suspicion of advanced figures and role models, or even a complete denial of them; Hold the emotion of identifying with bad tendencies and applaud them; Passive ideology, resistance, contempt and confrontation for ideological education and code observance, etc.
Rebellious behaviors, which we usually call deviant behaviors, are common deviant behaviors such as truancy, school boredom, self-harm, staying up late, interpersonal sensitivity and hostility towards the environment and people around them, lack of desire to communicate or lack of logic in expression, etc.
Don't like to do what others say; that the vast majority of regulations are unreasonable and should be repealed; If his parents tell him the same thing over and over again, it will make him feel bored; Praise for the students who work against the teacher; think that there are loopholes in the words of adults, and the criticism of adults often arouses their disgust and anger; Once you decide to do something, you won't change your mind no matter how much others dissuade you; The more he is not allowed to do it, the more he has to do it. If you tell him to go east, he will definitely go west, that is, he deliberately does not let the adults go to his will, and does not let himself obey the adults! Feel like you're assertive!
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Manifestations of the rebellious period: psychological resistance, verbal resistance, behavioral resistance.
1. Psychological resistance: Adolescents may experience mood swings and anxiety symptoms, such as irritability, depression, insomnia, etc. They may feel lost and uneasy about their identity and future, trying to find a sense of self-identity and belonging by rebelling.
2. Verbal resistance: Teenagers can use some sharp language to express their opinions and attitudes, such as sarcasm, sarcasm, ridicule, etc. They may deliberately provoke a parent or teacher to gain more attention and attention.
3. Behavioral resistance: Adolescents may show disobedience to their parents or teachers, such as refusing to follow rules, challenging authority, violating house rules, etc. They may choose to have a conflict with their parents or teachers, or take extreme actions to express their frustration.
Precautions for educating children during the rebellious period
1. We need to understand the psychological state of children. During this period, the child will feel more and more independent and want more freedom and rights. But they will also face a lot of challenges and difficulties, such as study pressure, interpersonal relationships, etc.
Therefore, we need to give our children enough support and encouragement so that they feel understood and respected.
2. We need to communicate effectively with our children. During the rebellious period, children often show antipathy and resistance, and are unwilling to listen to our suggestions and opinions. But we can't give up communication with them, and we can build a relationship of trust by listening to their hungry friends and understanding their ways of thinking about brothers.
At the same time, we need to be clear about our expectations and requirements, so that children know what behaviors are acceptable and what are not.
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1. Whatever the parents say becomes nagging in his (her) eyes
Children in the rebellious period themselves have relatively weak emotional control, and their parents' repeated advice will only make them feel that this is a kind of distrust, because in their own eyes, they have grown up and will make arrangements for their own time and things. The more parents talk, the stronger the revolt.
2. Pay special attention to your own appearance
Unusual clothing may be what they are looking for to be different, and their appearance is extremely important to them, which is related to their face among their peers, but this aesthetic may be very different from that of their parents.
3. Reluctant to go out with parents
When the child is a child, he is his mother's little tail, vegetable market, shopping mall, and relatives and mothers want to follow wherever they go, but children in the rebellious period would rather stay at home and play games, watch TV or sleep than go out with their parents, but classmates and friends can immediately go out with high interest.
4. I love to talk back
Regardless of whether what parents say is right or not, they can always use "crooked reasoning" to push back.
The principle is: what parents say is completely unreasonable, and they must speak up loudly; What the parents say makes some sense, and they must find the unreasonable part to talk back; What the parents say is completely reasonable, and the parents' meaning must be deliberately misinterpreted.
5. Words of praise rarely appear in the mouth
There are always all kinds of complaints, teachers, parents, and even social phenomena. They will deny the whole thing or person because of a small flaw, and they will seize on this point and start to complain wildly. Just to prove that I have grown up, can think independently, and have the right to speak.
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The rebellious period of adolescence manifests itself as follows:
1. The child wants to be alone. This is one of the most typical signs of rebellion among teenagers and comes from the need for privacy. At this stage of life, this aspect becomes especially important.
2. Inexplicable mood swings. This is also another very common sign of teenage rebellion. Mood swings are the result of hormonal changes that make teens more sensitive to mood.
3. Relatively reduced communication. Until the onset of puberty, many children are still very dependent on their parents. Suddenly, parents may wonder why their children don't tell them about their school days anymore. At the same time, they may develop new friendships that we don't know about.
4. Begin to feel embarrassed by the presence of your parents. This is perhaps the characteristic of adolescent rebellion, which affects us the most as parents and knows the least about us. At this stage, adolescents are seeking independence and mature adult identity.
It means letting go of childish behavior and attachment to parents.
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