Even if he wants to break up, you can say it directly, why do you have to do it? Make me hate him an

Maybe there's a reason for him. Or maybe he knows that he is not good, because of your good, you are so good to him, he is afraid that he will not be able to give you happiness, and he loves you very much, you know, a person who really loves you always wants you to be happy, don't think so much, you may not believe in fate, fate is like this, if he is really you, then you don't have to worry, if it is not you,. It's useless how you force it, you don't care about it like now, think about it, feelings can't be forced, really, if he really falls in love with that girl, he won't care if she's ugly or beautiful, just like when he fell in love with you, did he say you're beautiful?

Did you say you were ugly? Maybe it's the inner beauty that he values! Don't have any resentment, don't grieve yourself, now you're still young.

If you want to love, you can love it once, since he is like this, you have to live better, you have to let him know that giving up on you is his loss, don't take your feelings too seriously, now you have to pay attention to your career, you know? I believe you will have a better life.

If you can't bear it and really want to leave, then don't look back, if not, then cherish him.

If you still love him, then fulfill him. If you don't love anymore, then perfect yourself.

It doesn't matter who influences you, it's you who makes the final decision, and if you make the wrong decision because of it, you can only blame yourself for not being strong enough or being stupid.

It's possible that it's a ...... playing around with youObserve calmly for a while.

If that man hadn't come to you, maybe he had really changed his mind......After all, the woman didn't seem to ...... without turning

Maybe the woman got some grip on him???

You must be very uncomfortable, this kind of man is excessive, you think about it, don't you think he's like garbage?

What else is he thinking about the garbage?

If there really is another insider, you don't fantasize about anything, it can only be that the two of you have no fate, look at the point.

It's not worth getting angry with a man like that! Forget it! Let's put it on! Believe that your happiness will come! Hope you find your own happiness!

He wants to be angry with you, why don't you find a beautiful one, find an ugly and vulgar one, he's really weird!

I also hate men like that, and it's a good thing to leave.

They don't care about them like a couple, so why care about irrelevant people.

Hehe, you can tell what he can't say at a glance

There's an insider, hehe, ask him.

Literally, it means not to hate you, but still to break up with you.

In fact, when men and women talk about breaking up, it means that there are already problems between you. The person who said that he had broken up had a clear mind and had already learned the hard way. The people who were broken up were confused, and they didn't know how they could be ruthlessly abandoned.

Just because I don't hate you doesn't mean I want to stay with you for life. No one can guarantee what will happen forever, let alone predict it. It can only mean that your fate has come to an end. There is no real love between you, so your breakup was not an accident.

Even if you struggle with it, it won't help. He has already made up his mind to break up with you, and if you continue to press you, it will only lower your own dignity.

Even if he had a new goal, so what? None of that matters anymore. Let him pass the past, and don't look back. Because he doesn't love you anymore, what's the use of forcing him to stay by your side with such a man?

In love, it is very common for two people to break up and get together, but in most cases, girls propose to break up just because they are angry and want their boyfriends to coax them, and if they are not angry, they will pass, as long as the girl does not really want to break up, they will always be reconciled. However, once the boy proposes to break up, no matter how much the girl keeps it, the end of the breakup is already doomed.

Girls are more emotional, more emotional, when they are angry, they can't listen to anything, and when they calm down, they begin to regret it. But some boys feel that as long as you mention breaking up, there is no need to reconcile, and then the girl finds that since she can't get back together, she slowly puts it down, at this time, even if the boy comes to get back together, the girl will never agree, and the real despair is actually more ruthless.

Remember, people who really want to break up won't look back, men and women!

So why did the boy take the initiative to break up? I don't think it's that I don't love it anymore, but I tried hard but found that some problems just can't be solved, so I can only let go first. Generally, there are three situations in which a boy will take the initiative to break up:

Clause. 1. Too many negative emotions.

There are too many problems between you, and neither of you wants to communicate well. When encountering problems, they either quarrel or break up, they don't really sit together to talk about things and deal with their emotions well, everyone only cares about telling their grievances, only caring about blaming each other, and never really thinking about it from the other party's point of view.

Whether you quarrel or break up, the last two people seem to be reconciled, but the contradiction still exists, it has not disappeared but has been hidden, and when the next time a bigger contradiction comes out, all the emotions accumulated before will be detonated, and the previous little things will become your ** attacking each other.

Clause. Second, the demand is not being met.

Needs are divided into physical needs and emotional needs. If you are in a long-distance distance and ignore each other's physical needs, it is also possible to break up.

Then there are emotional needs. Boys also need to be cared for and cared for, and boys also have bad moods, if you just blindly act as the person who puts forward the demand, and he unilaterally pays but can't get a response from you, it is easy to break up after a long time.

So what are the emotional needs that boys need? Your understanding, tolerance, trust, and adoration.

Clause. 3. Loss of intrinsic value.

In order to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship between people, it depends on commonality and mutual attraction, rather than moral self-touch.

When your intrinsic value is gradually lost, or even completely attached to him, in his eyes, you are an unattractive person. Who doesn't like the other person they just met, even if you are ordinary, you still shine in his eyes. But then, when he looks at you, there is no light.

At this time, don't keep him as the first step for you to be yourself, the second step is to find that independent and confident self, and finally forget about him and live your own life.

Suggest that he may have met something better.

It's that he has a better choice.

You said that he proposed the breakup, you agreed and he scolded you, and said don't regret it, don't beg him, too confident, because you said that the breakup was mentioned by your boyfriend or your girlfriend, and you also agreed, he may be tempting you to say that you proposed to break up and then you agreed, he felt that you were not sincere in wanting to be with him, so he said that if you don't go, he will scold you and say that you don't regret it, don't ask him, it should be said that he regrets it, and put forward this tentative tone These topics.

Judging by the words you described, he didn't recognize the other person's attitude towards him at all. always thinks that the breakup can only be brought up by him, especially when he brings it up, you really agree, which is too unexpected for him. That's what makes me confident.

He proposed the breakup, and he scolded you when you agreed, and said that you don't regret it, don't beg him, it may be that he proposed to break up just impulsively or jokingly mentioned it with you, and if you agree, it will make him feel that he has no feelings for him, so he will scold you. It's also possible that he's feeling good about himself and being too self-righteous.

Now that both of them have broken up.

You can treat him like a stranger.

Does it matter what he says?

He said don't you regret it.

In fact, he hasn't let go of you in his heart.

That's why he said something like that.

On the surface, he hurt you, but in fact, he hurt himself.

He is also a man of deep affection.

He must have said this at the time, and he didn't expect you to agree, so he became angry and said a lot of excessive.

Yes, when you meet such a person who is too confident, you must live your own life, do not regret it, do not ask him, break the thread, find the right person at the right time, and live a happy life.

It shows that although the other party proposed to break up, he did not let go of you, and she hoped that you could keep her. But I didn't expect you to agree, so he was very disappointed.

He mentioned the breakup, you agreed, he scolded you, and said don't regret it, don't pursue him, he said this Guan is not confident, but he has put you down in his heart, so he said so.

The breakup was proposed by him, you agreed, and he scolded you, indicating that he still has feelings for you, and he didn't really break up with you, but he also gave himself confidence when he said this!

I think that since the breakup was mentioned by your boyfriend, then he will scold you after you agree, I think in his heart you may beg him to make amends, but in this case, I think you are doing very right.

He mentioned the breakup, I agreed, he scolded me, and said don't regret it, don't beg him, too confident, right? Think this man must be annoyed and angry, right? In fact, he may not want to break up with you in his heart, but for the sake of face, he took the initiative to break up with you.

He mentioned the breakup, I agreed, he scolded me, and said don't regret it, don't beg him, he has self-confidence, he mentioned the breakup, I agreed, since the breakup, you can't go to him, what's the use of the ballgame? This is also because he overestimates himself too much, and he is too self-confident.

This kind of boy is very narcissistic, and you are just a passer-by!

I think it is a very wise choice to meet such a scumbag, and you give up in time, after all, some people don't know themselves well enough, so they make such radical behaviors.

Is he talking about stand-up comedy? Himself said to break up, you agreed, and he began to be hysterical again. There's no one left, but thankfully you agreed.

This kind of person man never knows that he is wrong, he always sees the fault of others, you can't imagine what kind of psychology this kind of person is? There's nothing wrong with this mentality, I've experienced it myself.

Maybe it's too handsome.

The breakup was mentioned by him, I agreed, and he scolded me, and I said don't regret it, don't ask him for confidence, then I agreed, why did I ask you, and regret it.

I'm not familiar with this, but this money must come quickly, you don't have to work all the time, the working hours are short, the income is high, and the money is really fast.

Summary. Then don't coax, just follow your heart. The twisted melon is not sweet, you can follow your heart.

When I mentioned breaking up, he agreed, he said that he also felt more and more that we were impossible, what do you mean, is he going to give up or has someone he likes.

Yes, he's going to give up on you. His intention to give up on you does not mean that he has someone he likes, it should be that you are together, and the two sides have different philosophies, behaviors, and consumption habits, and it is not pleasant for the two to be together, so he will say that he feels more and more that we are impossible. It means that there is already a crisis in your relationship.

You mentioned breaking up, which happened to be in line with his idea, so he agreed.

What are the chances of him agreeing if I propose to reunite in the future.

Then he had me in his heart when he said that, or did he no longer have me.

There is hope for consent to propose a reunion. After all, there is no question of principle between the two of you. It's just that each other's hearts are tired.

Every time he is sad and angry, he is easy to coax, and this time it will be easy to coax.

You can coax forty first.

You can try it first.

But I don't want to coax now.

Then don't coax, just follow your heart. The twisted melon is not sweet, you can follow your heart.

Will he take the initiative to find me?

It depends on who is right and who is wrong, and generally the wrong person will be found first.

He asked me to play a game tonight, but he didn't say anything.

It means that he took the initiative to ask you out and give you the stairs down.

He doesn't love you anymore, he betrayed you, so he broke up with you. But he thinks you're a good girl, he feels ashamed of you, he feels like he's failed you. So he told you to hate him and hate him, and told you to find someone who loves you.

Tell you to take good care of yourself. It's all just a way for him to comfort himself, he wants you to hate him instead of loving him, because he doesn't love you anymore, but he feels sorry for you, so if you still love him it will make him feel more uncomfortable, it will make him feel guilty, so he would rather you hate him and hate him than still love him, so that he can also self-hypnotize and feel that the guilt for you is not so deep.

Actually, he just doesn't love you anymore, so he betrayed you, but you are a good girl, and you haven't done anything wrong, so he feels sorry for you, feels ashamed, and feels guilty. So he wants you to hate him, so that his heart won't be so bad, and his brain won't think that he has betrayed you, and you are still stupidly in love with him.