Do you think life needs a way out?

I think it depends on the situation. Sometimes there is no way back, as long as it is right, the only way is to continue to persevere. If there's a better option, why not try it?

I'm a little similar to the one upstairs, I'm doing foreign trade now, and I'll go home at the age of 35 if I can't make a name for myself, and I won't give myself any way back before that. People can't live too uneventful in their lives.

Of course, there must be a way out in life! Otherwise, when you are careless and do something wrong, there is no chance to remedy it, and you will enter a dead end in life. But there are many things in life that there is no way back for you to take, and the path you choose in that three stubbles is also the road you want to take in this life.

So you must be cautious when choosing, don't have too many chances, and think carefully!

For the things that I am interested in and willing to spend half my life to complete, I will leave myself 5% of the way back. The other 95% makes me stressed and motivated. It may be a little tiring, but this kind of life will be fulfilling. "There is no failure in being young! ”

At least life needs a way out, and people can't live too desperately.

Sometimes it's better to have no way back, so you can succeed faster. For example, it was the end of the road that inspired wealthy figures such as Li Ka-shing and Fok Ying-tung.

There is no way back in life, only forward, one step is one step less!

There is no way back in life and there is no dress rehearsal in life. Because every day, every hour, every moment of life is live. To perform the drama of life every day, just look at whether it is wonderful on the spot.

Although there is no way back and no dress rehearsal in life, if you go astray, you can change your evil and return to the right, and if you mess up, you can improve it, so you won't often fall into the same pit, and you won't continue to smash the play.

It's impossible not to regret it.

If you think about it from the perspective of personal development, you should spend more time on work, because work itself is a good learning process, put yourself in the process of work, and the process will lead you to grow and improve.

Similarly, if you're happy with the job right now, and you're expecting a good prospect in the future, focus on your work.

The times are changing, the market is changing, and the technology is upgrading, which makes us feel uncertain all the time. Only when we keep up with the trend and have the ability to make the tide will we not be eliminated.

In other words, if your current job is what you have wanted for a long time and that is your interest, then it is meaningless.

You can achieve your dreams, gain recognition, and improve your life through work, which are all the meaning of work.

You don't have to be like this for the rest of your life, but you have to be like this for a period of time (about 3 years) compared to your almost 35 years of working life.

From my personal growth experience, there is no shortcut to a broken life, and what you see in other people's harvest is actually not formed overnight, but a process of accumulation.

The other day, when I was consulting with a client, I gave an example of wheat.

In our hometown, wheat is sown after October every year. After October, the weather will only get colder and colder. After the wheat sprouts, it grows a few leaves, but it is only 10 centimeters high, and it is very weak, and it has to meet the coming winter, including the coldest time of the year.

During the long winter, the leaves of wheat do not grow and can even freeze.

If the weather is dry, you see the green layer of wheat on the surface, but the leaves are already dry, and they will crush if you pinch them with your hands.

But, don't worry.

When spring arrives in March of the following year, these wheats will grow rapidly, tiller, and turn from a weak seedling into several seedlings, or even a dozen seedlings, and then tassel and fill until they mature, which only takes 3 months.

To sow one mu of wheat, no more than 10 kg of seeds are needed at most, and the yield per mu is generally 500 kg after maturity. The output is 50 times the input. The core key to achieving such a high input-output ratio lies in the coldest three months of winter.

At that time, although the leaves did not grow and were even freeze-dried, the roots of the wheat were still growing slowly in the ground, growing into a large patch. In this way, when spring comes, they will have enough roots to absorb nutrients, and they will complete their life's mission in 3 months.

These three months are the coldest and most difficult moments, but they are also the most important moments.

The same is true for human growth. Whatever you want to gain, you have to talk about the hardships and efforts you have to deal with it (except in the case of family wealth inheritance or other fortuitous outbreaks).

Even if it is practiced deliberately, it takes 10,000 hours to become a talent. If you want to achieve more than 90% of the results, you have to work so hard for a period of time that it takes root like wheat to ensure that the nutrients are absorbed in order to ensure that you can harvest later.

No matter how you go in life, you will regret it. People have different choices in different periods, you choose one, you must give up one, every choice is a different life, what you can't get is always the best, how to choose can not have both, the emphasis is to follow the heart, choose to insist. Take marriage as an example, when you get married and have children, whether you choose to be a full-time mother or a working mother, you will regret it, being a full-time mother will inevitably have no income to Fu Tuanyuan, life will be hard, and you will not be able to accompany your children to grow up if you are a working mother.

This sentence is put on the teacher to the child.

However, this sentence is problematic in terms of the advance and retreat of life, only if we leave the outside desires behind, our bodies still have natural progress, there is a saying: "a small bamboo raft in the middle of the river, towering green mountains on both sides of the river", only let their own external desires go down, people's hearts will be welcome

The way out just depends on which path you are taking.

In 1830, the French writer Victor Hugo signed a contract with a publisher to deliver a work within six months. In order to ensure that he could concentrate all his energy on writing, Hugo locked all his clothes except the sweater he was wearing in a cupboard and threw the keys into the small lake. In this way, because he couldn't get the clothes to wear when he went out, he completely cut off the idea of going out to meet friends and play, and went into **, except for eating and sleeping, he never left the desk, and the work was out of draft two weeks in advance.

And this work, which was completed in only 5 months, is the world-famous literary masterpiece "Notre Dame de Paris".

On the long road of life, it is often easier to win a way out only if there is no way out. When we find it difficult to control our inertia and desires, and we can't concentrate on moving forward, we might as well take some measures to cut off the way out, and force ourselves to go all out to find a way out and move towards success.

Text: Wandering the world.

Part-time work is not a long-term solution, but when we leave the workplace, we are like fools, we have become unable to survive in this society, and as we grow older, we will one day withdraw from this historical stage and become outcasts who no one cares about.

Over the years, after countless job hopping, wandering at the crossroads of life, I always couldn't find my right place, once fantasized about meeting Bole, and then swore to follow him, and spent my life like this.

I have experienced all kinds of ups and downs in the world, I am tired of my part-time job, and it is really tiring to intrigue in the workplace.

Even if it is impossible to return to the countryside in the future, without farmland and housing, survival has become a problem, and you can only stay in this small town, you must solve the problem of economic **, which is something that must be considered at present.

In recent years, I feel that my physical health is not as good as day by day, when I was young, I was more stupid, I didn't pay attention to maintenance, I always thought it was a tumbler, and now I am like a wind candle old man, and I can't stay up late at all.

Age is an indisputable fact, compared with the younger one, it has begun to decline, although some people are unwilling to admit it, with a disobedient mentality, continue to destroy their bodies, and the final result is to dig their own graves.

I don't want to discuss this topic with others, everyone has their own different opinions, after all, people have their own ambitions and can't be forced, just like someone retires and starts to engage in a career again, that is a personal behavior, and it doesn't hurt the interests of others, so don't comment on it, let it be.

Now we only focus on the individual, in the future life path, how to develop themselves, and cultivate some good habits, explore new ways out, for the future, when no one cares about the age, leaving a way to make a living, is the most basic guarantee for an ordinary person.

The slow transition from physical labor to mental labor is a transition period, when people reach a certain age, their bodies can no longer bear it, and they can only do some work within their ability, which is very necessary to lay a good foundation in advance in their lifetime.

No one knows what accidents will happen in the next few decades, and this point is to be prepared for danger in times of peace, in order to live more comfortably in old age, we must make up our minds from now on to change ourselves and create the future, let us work together!