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The situation of the questioner is exactly what I experienced more than ten years ago.
I'm going to share some of my thoughts with you.
First of all, it's worth affirming that it's good to want to change and improve.
Please keep it up. Secondly, it needs to be denied that many young people have walked into a misunderstanding, how to do people and do things, "there are too many methods, and each method has specific applications."
Besides, beyond that, the method will not work. So I read a lot of books and learned.
There are n many methods, but in the end, it still feels different from my own situation, what is useless, and I even suspect that the author is blind.
Finally, the solution is, don't read the solution books, but read them.
Problems with the class of books.
To put it bluntly, if you want to achieve your goal, you need to understand both aspects through reading.
knowledge is good. One is to understand human nature, and the other is to understand society.
The more you learn about these two things, the more you will understand the world.
Baizhi has a deeper understanding. At this time, you will find that you can come up with a lot of "methods" for a problem.
ps: I have a junior high school education, and when I was 19 years old, I read "The Hundred Schools of Thought" and rolled in society.
A few years later, at the age of 25, he decided to become a lawyer. Six years later, I am now a lawyer.
His current hobbies are philosophy and finance. The people around me who used to laugh at me for being stupid are now looking for me for a "way" when they encounter problems.
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You don't need to read books, it's all floating clouds, go to work, practice brings true knowledge, believe me.
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Any book you want to read, that you can read, will change you.
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Now to go to work is to learn skills, and I can do the old class in the future.
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Humanities, such as Chinese etiquette traditions, etc.
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Speech and Eloquence is very practical.
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Go to work and don't be illiterate.
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How old are the seniors? Are you a middle school student?
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The one I read myself, it is Kai-Fu Lee's, "Be the Best Self", it feels good, you can take a look, it is worth recommending!
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The balance of being a person is not something that can be seen by looking at the book of matching, remember the following points:
Talk less, do more; Less complaining, more forgiving; Less laziness, more diligence; Ask less of others and more of yourself; Have good thoughts and purify yourself.
Han Liu Xiang "Said Yuan Pei this. Caigen Tan. Tao Te Ching, and so on.
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I've read a lot of books, but now I've forgotten them, and I usually don't remember the titles, I only pay attention to the content of the books, and I also browse very quickly, so that I can learn a little more, so now I have developed an impatient personality. In fact, it's useless to read books too fast, and there are many things that haven't been learned, so what's the use?
One book that has had a great influence on me is particularly good. When I was in junior high school, because a friend had a book, this book had a lot of stories, I asked him to borrow it, and then I read it patiently, there are many stories in it, and I was very inspired by myself.
Now that I'm in this school, I never want to borrow books, I read them on my phone. In the software that comes with the phone, I saw this book, and I read it all, it's really good, this book is called "Wisdom Backpack".
It's very philosophical, it's very suitable for us teenagers to read, if it's too complicated books, we don't have much patience to read at this age, and the most attractive thing for us is those stories, and there is always some analysis behind the story, telling us a lot of truths, although these truths have been forgotten now, but I believe they have been integrated into their own bodies. "Wisdom Backpack", you deserve it.
This book is easy to understand, it should be a lot of people collect information, and then keep changing and scrutinizing. To be able to complete this book, it must have cost a lot of time and effort! Since it takes so much time to write a book, this book must have a lot of value, we need to taste it slowly, experience it well, and we must read it carefully!
Don't let down the author of "Wisdom Backpack", such a good book, you must cherish it.
To develop the habit of reading, perseverance, will bring you a lot of inspiration in life, it will give you a great horizon, life is really very short, learn more about things, this life is not so wasted.
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The Romance of the Three Kingdoms is very useful, and it is very practical to speak, make friends, behave, do things, treat others, work, and start a business.
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