Is it safe to lock your heart? My heart is locked, what should I do?

Friend, I've been through the same situation as you, and maybe I'm worse than you. My high 3 and girlfriend are also separated because of me, the same as you, every night until one or two o'clock to fall asleep, I feel very uncomfortable, and then the high 2 also saw her with another boy, because our family lives closer, so we can often meet, and often meet her with her boyfriend, I believe you also know how uncomfortable this feeling is. This situation has been until the end of the college entrance examination, now in college, I am a little better, after listening to a lot of friends, but also experienced a lot of things, I understand, to know how to let go, in order to get more, there is a saying that goes, don't be too sad because you miss the sun, then you will miss more stars!

Now that I'm friends with her, I'll take her happiness as my own happiness, and so should you, if she leaves you, she'll be better and happier, and you should choose to leave, understand? You can't just forget it. It takes time to fade away, and the more you want to say you want to forget, the more it means you still care about her.

Sometimes giving up is also a kind of beauty, and giving others a freedom is giving yourself a space.

You can choose to lock your heart, but when the lock is really locked on your heart, it's not so easy to open it again.

My heart is locked, what should I do?

Hello, it must be very sad when you ask this question, I think you may have experienced something very difficult and closed yourself off to avoid getting hurt again. Past injuries may have hit you so hard that you can no longer trust anyone and anything. But my dear, I also want to tell you that you may have had bad luck in the past, we can't affect our future because of the past, most people in this world are trustworthy, you can give yourself another chance and come out bravely.

It is impossible for a person's life to be smooth, and there will always be a time of failure. The process of life is also the process of gaining and losing, and if there is no loss, it does not matter what is gained. Therefore, gains and losses are very normal phenomena in life.

However, in real life, there are many people who can't face up to gains and losses, they are often ecstatic for temporary gains, and heartbroken for short-term losses. In fact, it is not necessary, really mature people do not care about these. You know, each of us first came into this world with nothing, and as we grow up day by day, we slowly gain many things, and if for some reason we lose them again, it is just a return to the past, what is there to be sad about?

The reason why people grieve is because they take what they have received for granted. Therefore, in order to live a meaningful life, Zhenna must not only get used to it, but also get used to it. There is no problem with losing this royal sale, the problem is only the psychology of the person.

Accidentally spilling a bottle of milk, although it is not a good taste, but there is no need to cry about it. Because crying doesn't make the milk mix stupid go back to the way it was, it just makes you sad. Our pain does not come from loss, but from our "refusal to let go".