I have a serious resistance to boys

You say you have a serious resistance to boys, actually. It's that you don't know much about your inner world. You're just blind.

I feel and am in normal times. See yes. Schoolboy.

Some of the bad aspects. In fact. You don't know the boys once in the future, you will.

There is an opportunity to get to know the boys, and you will feel that the boys are relatively more loyal and reliable. And. As a schoolgirl.

Even when you reach adulthood. There needs to be a boy. Be there for yourself.

And to care for you, to take care of you, so that you will feel it too. On the side of the boys. Happier and happier.

Actually, this is not to say that you have serious resistance to boys. It's about what you think. You also have to learn to protect yourself now.

Don't be on it, some bad boys. Of course, you're right. But it's not all about it.

Boys are bad, and most boys are still very credible. You just have to be optimistic about the boys. Your severe resistance to boys will slowly weaken, or it will be.

disappears, or even changes. Perception of boys' resistance.

This may be a psychological problem. Maybe you're still an introvert, and generally speaking, people who are more introverted aren't good at socializing. Therefore, whether it is the opposite sex or the same sex, there is this kind of resistance.

Therefore, you should be optimistic and cheerful, open your heart and actively interact with people!

Generally speaking, mental illness is related to personal experience or environment, and the impact will remain in the subconscious, and negative consciousness will even affect later life. Therefore, if friends in the spring period find this problem, it is recommended to find a psychiatrist as soon as possible**.

You have a serious resistance to boys. Chances are: You don't like the opposite sex.

In terms of feelings, many girls will be more or less resistant to boys, after all, there are too many scumbag news on the Internet now, giving them a hint of psychology, they will inexplicably dislike boys, in fact, not all boys are scumbags, there are also boys who really like you well, if you have resistance to boys, you will regret it in the future, and you can slowly adjust it later.

Antipathy for boys is not a mental illness

First, you need to determine whether you have an aversion to a certain man, or a certain type of man, or a combination of all but relatives, or as long as you are a man.

Second, see if there are any exceptions, which man or men have less disgust.

Thirdly, if this disgust continues to affect your work and life and causes you serious distress, it is recommended that you seek professional psychological help, or go to the hospital for self-protection.

Why is there resistance to boys?

A girl with a normal ideology should not be disgusted with boys, even if she doesn't like them, at least she has a normal relationship. If you have a sense of misogyny, it must be something wrong with your mind, so be sure to find out the reason for the formation of this thought and prescribe the right medicine. It is a mental illness, and you can find a psychological teacher to give you counseling.

If it's physiological, go to the hospital and see a doctor**. Get yourself back to normal as soon as possible.

The reason why girls are resistant to the relationship between men and women

First, girls have their own areas of focus, such as work, such as other goals to strive for, so in a short period of time, they don't want to waste time on feelings.

Second, girls who have been hurt by love often avoid and resist the feelings of men and women because of the hurt in the last emotion, which is a subconscious behavior in the heart.

Third, girls are usually resistant to the feelings of men and women on blind dates, because they do not agree with the behavior of blind dates, so they will also resist the object of blind dates.

Third, girls don't feel resistant to men and women, but only resist you, thus showing the illusion of resistance to the feelings of men and women.

There are many girls who are reluctant to fall in love in life, and have a strong resistance to men, in fact, there is no need for girls to change themselves at this time. Because it is your own decision whether to fall in love or not to get married, if you really can't get over this level psychologically, there is no need to force yourself to accept what you resist. In this society, girls can be beautiful on their own, so there is no need to rely on another man.

If you have a strong resistance to men, girls can choose to be independent, and there is no need to change themselves. <>

Of course, if you don't like your own state, you can also try to gradually accept the friends of the opposite sex around you. Resistance to men is actually divided into many different stages, and girls have to figure out whether they simply don't like boys or don't like to fall in love with boys. If it's purely a dislike for boys, there's actually no big problem, and if the girl doesn't feel like there's anything wrong with her, there's no need to change herself.

If you just don't want to fall in love with a boy, it's not a big problem, as long as you can convince your family to accept it. After all, the future life belongs to you, and it is up to you to decide what kind of life you want to choose. So if you really have a strong resistance to boys, there is no need to forcibly change your inner thoughts, otherwise it is likely to make yourself very painful.

Find out the reason for the resistanceOf course, if you think this psychology is bad, you can also gradually open your heart and find out why you are resistant to boys. If the change doesn't make you feel painful, you can try to change it, but if the change makes you feel unacceptable, there is no need to force the change. In general, girls should still put themselves in the most important position, and don't casually cater to others, so as to make themselves uncomfortable.

If you have a strong resistance to men, you should slowly contact more boys, you can first let yourself try to get close to your relatives, and then try to contact some strangers, and the contact time is lengthened step by step, don't be too closed and too shy.

First of all, you can go to a crowded place to adapt to the environment, and secondly, you can also find men you don't hate so much, play together, improve your psychology, or you can seek help from a psychologist to adjust your psychological problems.

You should slowly get to know men, and if you want to find some sparkle in them, you can change this kind of thinking.

Summary. It is relatively normal to have this kind of resistance mentality, maybe your words and deeds are a little inadequate, so your boyfriend has such a psychological reason, you can communicate with your boyfriend, see what the reason is, find out the reason, and solve it, it is the best, I hope you can go well.

It is relatively normal to have this kind of resistance mentality, but your words and deeds are a little inadequate, so your boyfriend has such a psychological reason, you can go to your boyfriend to talk to him, see what the reason is, find out the reason, and solve it, it is the best, I hope you can go smoothly.

That is, what if we don't meet now.

It's really uncomfortable.

If the other party doesn't pay attention to your feelings, I think the relationship may be over.

It may be better for you to stop your losses in time.

That is, we also talk about feelings.

It's that she's resistant to me now, she doesn't see me much, she sees me less.

Physical resistance.

Maybe the other party didn't feel the freshness and didn't have the enthusiasm at the beginning.

The body does not. If you want to change the status quo, you must first change yourself, let yourself have an attraction point, and attract the attention of the other party.

How to change. Change yourself and make the other person feel that you are different from each other.

Change your way of speaking, your way of life, and your attitude towards her.

Why is it more and more disgusted with boyfriends.

1. I don't like my boyfriend anymore.

Some girls will become more and more disgusted with their boyfriends because they have no feelings for their boyfriends. The ancients often said that in the eyes of a lover, even if you like him, then everything about him will make you feel very good. On the other hand, if you don't like this person anymore, then all his actions will make you very disgusted.

We often hear such a sentence, people go to tea and cool, which is actually an indirect illustration that after no feelings, many things will become weak. Because it is true that a person falls in love with a city, and because a person hates a city. And when we don't like our boyfriend anymore, then he is a stranger, and a stranger is in close contact with you all day long, you will feel very embarrassed.

2. Do something wrong, but do not say it.

Girls hate their boyfriends for hiding themselves, and when their boyfriends hide themselves, and the consequences of this matter are more serious, then girls will be very angry with their boyfriends after they know about it, and this kind of emotion will become disgust and disgust after time brewing, and they will feel that what their boyfriend does is wrong. There must be no deception in the relationship, after deception, this relationship will eventually come to an end, and it will not lead to marriage.

3. Some habits of the boyfriend make him disgusted.

Many people can't see anything bad about each other when they are in love, and they will feel that each other is very perfect, and you get along very sweetly. But after the hot love period, when it comes to the cold period, you will find that your boyfriend has a lot of habits that you don't like, and he is unwilling to change these habits, and slowly you will hate him very much. Because of frequent contact with your boyfriend, some bad habits on your boyfriend will feel even worse after watching it for a long time, so you will dislike your boyfriend more and more.

When a problem is found, it should be raised and solved in a timely manner, and if one party is unwilling to solve it, then the problem will slowly become bigger.

If you are really very resistant to it and you are unhappy with it, break up and don't force yourself.

If you are really very resistant to it and you are unhappy with it, break up and don't force yourself.

If you have resistance to your boyfriend, the first thing is to know what the specific reason is and what is the resistance. Talk to your boyfriend formally about your feelings and say what you think. Solve problems together.

Then divide ,,, persuade and not dissuade.

Your boyfriend is resistant to you, which means that your boyfriend doesn't like you very much and wants to stay away from you.

If there is, actively eliminate this resistance and reduce the disgust of the other party, it is possible to save the love that belongs to you, stop all quarrels, and agree with the other party's point of view, do not put pressure on the other party, let him calm down, often take him to talk, recall the good things in the past, talk about the problem, and solve the problem.

My boyfriend is resistant to me right now, and I think that if you are resistant, it means that you are not doing a good enough job or that you are not a good fit between the two of you.