What should you do when you meet a strange neighbor?

What should I do if I encounter a strange neighbor?

1. Analyze the problem calmly.

You should first calmly analyze the problem, what did the other party do, so that you feel uncomfortable, you can write down the neighbor's problem in a notebook or in other ways, so that when there is a conflict, there is something to say, there is something to say, don't let the neighbor feel that you are wronging him, deliberately looking for him to solve the problem. We must calmly analyze the problem, not act in a righteous manner, make mistakes with mistakes, and think of ways to solve the problem first.

2. Take a step back and open the sky.

If the problem is not big, be more tolerant and take a step back to open the sky. Zhang Yingshi, the secretary of the Qing Dynasty, had a conflict with his neighbors, but he did not have a plan but told his family to move the wall into three feet, and the neighbors saw the generosity and courage of the Zhang family, and also gave up three feet, so there was the "six-foot lane" that was praised to the public. We live in this world, not to mention between neighbors, even between parents and children may also have conflicts.

3. Call ** to the property or neighborhood committee.

If you live in an apartment building, it's time for the property or neighborhood committee to step in. Call them and explain how your neighbors are disrupting policing in your living space. Let them act as intermediaries to coordinate conflicts, after all, if there are only two people, if the problem is put on hold, it is very likely that they will quarrel or fight.

4. Form alliances with other neighbors.

If a problem affects you, it may affect someone else as well. Talk to other neighbors and see if they're willing to have a group discussion on the issue. There is power in numbers, and it may be easier for a group of people to come forward rather than just one person to get the other person to change.

That doesn't mean you and your neighbors should go wreak havoc on a bad neighbor's house or apartment – it can get out of hand and make the neighbor feel threatened. Instead, write a note for everyone to sign, or write a group email to join everyone. If it's a face-to-face confrontation, invite everyone to your house or yard while inviting your bad neighbors.

During the discussion, everyone took the floor to express what they would like to see a solution.

5. If the conflict escalates, you can call the police.

Getting ** involved is another way to force your neighbor to change their behavior. If you find that they are breaking the law, you can call the police to fix the problem so that you don't have to intervene. This approach is being taken for situations that have gotten out of control, after all, don't use emergency measures to deal with small neighborhood conflicts.

For example, if the problem is from a noisy **, call the non-emergency police**. For cluttered yards, inform the homeowner's association (if applicable) or the city's pollution control personnel. Most cities have a pollution prevention or enforcement officer who is responsible for protecting the rights and interests of property owners.

6. If it can't be solved, take legal action.

Once you've established that he's indeed broken a law, and you've gathered some evidence to prove it, let him know that you intend to take legal action. You don't need to reveal details – just tell them that you're going to use this to defend your rights. He may not want to get involved in legal issues, so telling him that you will sue may also make him change.

Hello, face".Wonderful"Neighbor, what to do, there are a few guidelines for you to choose from:

1. "Open your eyes, close your eyes".

2 "To rule others as they would have gotten to them."

3 "The adults do not care about the villain, let him go."

4 "The way is one foot high, and the magic is one foot high."

5 "Bear with the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky."

Neighborhood. If you think about it, we often say it in our daily livesDistant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. Neighbors are sometimes more important than their own relatives, and when there are some difficulties in ordinary life, the neighbors who can help each other the most are neighbors, so neighbors should get along with each other amicably.

But when we meet strange neighbors, we don't blindly back down. Among the methods I mentioned above, we have our life guidelines, and we have our bottom line.

Let's see if this strange neighbor can make us think that we don't see it, and when we don't touch the deep bottom line, we can not care. For example, if a neighbor is making a lot of noise, and the stereo is turned on very loudly in the middle of the night, and a group of people are dancing, then we can plug our ears and ignore him. "Open your eyes, close your eyes",Later, I couldn't help it, so I knocked upstairs with a mop as a reminder, but unexpectedly, they even intensified, I thought to myself."The adults don't care about the villain, let him go.

"Later, my wife couldn't help but go upstairs to tell him, but the young man said it was just 11 o'clock and ignored it, so we had no choice but to do so."Endure the calm for a whileHaha, there is a lot of psychological comfort.

Neighborhood. For another example, some strange neighbors don't like to occupy more space in the corridor at home, and then covet a small bargain, and do not pay attention to hygiene and public morality in the corridor. In order to deal with these people who love to take advantage of small advantages (Aunt Wang), Lao Zhang once told Aunt Wang that there were rats and insects in that place, and she was scared that she could not occupy more space; There is also a neighbor, in order to scare away the hated Xiaolin family, a quarrel, told him, your household, there have been repeated unlucky things, someone has committed suicide and hanged himself in this household, this is called"The road is one foot high, and the magic is one foot high".Frightened, the Kobayashi family hurriedly moved.

Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. "We want to be friendly with our neighbors. However, when dealing with "wonderful" neighbors, we either make unprincipled concessions or treat them in a "wonderful" way.

Let me give you a few examples.

Mr. Citizenmen told reporters about his experience. Mr. Men said that after the new house was handed over, he postponed the renovation for more than two months due to work reasons, and the downstairs neighbor installed it and lived in it as soon as he got the house. In order not to disturb the neighbors, Mr. Men carried out the construction in strict accordance with the time stipulated by the property during the renovation period.

Even so, the owners of the downstairs still come upstairs every day to "say hello", and on several occasions even scolded and found a property reviewer. The property stated that Mr. Men was not wrong in carrying out the work within the time allowed. In addition, there were also many residents who were decorating during that time, and it was normal to make noise, so I persuaded the owner to understand.

But the owner insisted that as long as there was a wall chiseled upstairs and an electric hammer was moved, he would go upstairs and knock vigorously on the door and make noise. Mr. Men's renovation had to be halted several times.

Later, Mr. Men came to the door many times to explain to the downstairs neighbor, but the other party still refused to give up on the grounds that he disturbed his normal life. In the end, Mr. Men had no choice but to renovate strictly according to the neighbor's schedule. The original 3-month construction period took more than 5 months, and the labor cost also increased a lot.

Ms. Lu, a citizen, bought a suite for the elderly in her hometown town, because it is an elevator apartment, it is very convenient to travel. Moreover, the greening and design of the community are in place, and it is good to walk and rest at ordinary times.

However, the good times did not last long, and after Ms. Lu moved in for more than a year, the green belt of the community almost turned into a vegetable field, and some people even circled the aisle to grow vegetables. If other owners pass by and step on the vegetables, the neighbors who grow the vegetables will be furious, and even stay by the vegetable patch all day long, not allowing the owners of the community to pass by.

How to deal with "strange neighbors"?

Wang Qun, a citizen, believes that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and neighbors should value harmony, understand each other more, be more tolerant, and make neighborhood relations more harmonious.

Zheng Dequan, a citizen, said that there should be more communication between neighbors, more communication, and everyone should think of ways and ideas together in case of trouble, and live in harmony.

Li Wenjie, who is engaged in property management work, believes that neighbors should try to avoid conflicts if they encounter "strange neighbors", they can give a kind reminder, and if they encounter a bad attitude, they can discuss countermeasures with the property or other owners, and complain to the relevant departments if necessary.