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The way to calm down is to go with him, and you can't stop people's mouths, and those who are clear are self-purifying, and it is right to ignore him; The extreme approach is to see an opportunity to hit him in the face, provided that he can beat him and dare not speak.
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In your situation, if you try to fight back against them, you will only get worse results. You think, the neighbor is jealous of you and envy you, it doesn't matter, if the neighbor goes around to show off for you, you have no choice, you can only admit it, or be careful or something, low-key. But what you said was that the neighbor went outside and said bad things about you, which shows that his heart has been twisted by jealousy, and his behavior has become immoral.
I don't know what your living environment is, I think your neighbor should be a person of right and wrong, and he must like the kind of east and west family short.
The most terrible thing is the heart of revenge. Harmony is the best.
You go out more often, swing the dragon gate formation with the neighbors on the left and right, so that other people can understand you as a person, and you also take the opportunity to correct the bad things he said about you, and at the same time talk about the good things of the neighbors. Or if you explain things clearly, the reasonable people around you will also know who is right and who is wrong.
It's better to deal with it carefully, these days, there are too many people who are jealous and hate the rich.
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It is really infuriating to encounter villains in life, and everyone grits their teeth with hatred, but if an upright person indulges in fighting with villains all day long, distinguishing right from wrong, then the villain is in the arms of the villain, and often can't take advantage of it, because intrigue is the villain's strength, how can ordinary people win?
Therefore, the best way to deal with villains is to be upright and not afraid of shadows, be upright and work hard to do their own things, be fair and comfortable, and give a powerful blow if necessary. I will first reflect on my own problems, after all, no matter how bad the neighbor is, it is unlikely that he will do that for no reason, it must be that he did something wrong before, hurt the other party, and after finding the root of the problem, take the initiative to admit the mistake, resolve the contradiction and misunderstanding, and the problem will be solved naturally.
If it is not caused by one's own mistakes, then it must be deliberately explained.
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Ignore her or:
1. Warn her that if she says something out of nothing, go to the community to complain about her, don't have a head-on conflict with her, and feel that she is a very bad person.
2. If you want to use a reconciliation method, buy something to see her, and say something like I am not good enough in many places when I am young, and I will give more advice in the future, so that others will doubt her character when they see you treating her like this, and they will be self-defeating.
Those who are clear are self-purifying.
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This is a pure villain, who will say bad things behind his back and will be famous, but you don't have to care, reputation is not ruined by one person.
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When you encounter such an unconscious neighbor, it is recommended not to meet him in general, and when he has enough trouble like a clown, he will be fine.
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Justice has its own heart, don't care too much about what others say, since you all know that he is a villain. I believe in other people, and I know that he is a villain, and he will not easily believe his words.
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If someone neighbor says bad things about you and ruins your reputation, if we meet such a neighbor, we don't talk to her too much, and if we have a distance from him, there will be no reputation ruined in his hands.
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The villain neighbor says bad things about you and ruins your reputation, you can go directly to him and say it directly, don't say bad things about me outside in the future, if you say it again, I'll be polite, talk to him directly.
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This kind of thing has to be made clear to him in the case of many people, in front of many people, ask him why he ruined your reputation outside, what did I do, causing you to hate me so much, everyone is a neighbor to cause this kind of thing, offended you, you can tell me well, why did you ruin my reputation?
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Cut off all ties with him, and you don't have to go all over the world to explain what you say about him, and you're explaining when asked.
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This kind of thing you can consider calling the police to deal with.
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Don't care too much, believe that the body is not afraid of shadows.
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Be generous, no one is perfect, get along if you can get along, and be a familiar stranger if you can't get along.
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As we all know, drunk driving is a traffic taboo, because once drunk, alcohol will seep into the bloodstream, paralyze the nerves, and lead to confusion. As a result, there are many traffic accidents that lead to tragedy. Life is only once, and it is very precious to everyone.
Every day, we see traffic accidents on the news because of drunk driving, we see innocent lives lost, we see our compatriots grieving the loss of their families, can we still sit idly by? After going through so much blood, can't we learn some lessons from it?
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Summary. The neighbor is a villain, this is the neighbor's business, don't mind. Neighbors always make bad things behind their backs, and you need to guard against your neighbors. For example, don't have contact with your neighbors so you don't say the wrong thing.
The neighbor is a villain + always behind the scenes.
The neighbor is a villain, this is the neighbor's business, don't mind. The neighbor always pretends to be bad behind his back, and this spike needs to prevent the neighbor from guessing a little. For example, don't have contact with your neighbors so you don't say the wrong thing.
The neighbor is a villain, this is the personality and habit of the neighbor. So what about this matter, if it changes its neighbors, it is better to change its own <>
As the saying goes, the near virtuous is hungry and teases the open-minded, and this is what it means to be a fool from a small finger. Because you can't afford to provoke it, then hide a little, but if it's a face-to-face meeting, you still need to stop and nod and say hello, because it's easy to make the neighbors feel very face-saving, and they won't deliberately target you.
That is to say, it must be, first and foremost, to keep a distance!!
Even if it's as cold as ice, it's okay to <>
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If it's an offline rumor, have a good relationship with other neighbors (how to have a good relationship depends on yourself, usually meet and ask for warmth, have something to share, and do something that is beneficial to everyone), so that everyone knows what kind of person you are, and when you hear his rumors, you will know that this person is a villain who likes to talk about others behind his back. Be tolerant of other people's mistakes, even for the mistakes of the person who spread the rumors, don't care, laugh it off, if he is normal, he may be moved by you, and he will not spread rumors again, even if he is not impressed, it doesn't matter, the main purpose is to make others feel more and more that you are generous and generous, compared with his villain behavior.
For online rumors, evidence may be collected and submitted to the relevant departments.
If you also spread rumors and go back, you will only consume yourself every day in the matter of fighting against him. Remind yourself that he is a villain, that what you don't do is not true no matter what he says, that you are open and open, in the sun. When he finds that his words can't hurt you, he is even more anxious and tries to make things difficult for you, but in exchange for your indifference, he finally consumes himself and wastes his life.
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Spread rumors, slander, see if it has violated the law, tell him about his illegal behavior and the consequences caused by it.
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You should talk to him about his mistakes and let him know what kind of person he is.
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I always believe in a saying, that is, rumors stop at the wise, for such a villain, you don't pay attention to him, the more you pay attention to him, the more rampant he will be, and how powerful he will be.
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I'll probably fight back directly, and I'll tell the other party not to engage in those little moves, just say something straight.
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Putting the facts in front of him and fighting back against him head-on, only then will he realize his mistake and not treat others like this, will he?
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Summary. Hello. You offended the villain, the neighbors made them bad, and found some people you didn't know to scold you many times without naming your name.
In a situation like this, you can record their words. Then there must be evidence in these recordings, some of them may say that they leaked your name, then you must have evidence that you can also shoot ** and so on, and then sue this villain, after the court knows this evidence, he will judge the neighbor's crime.
Offended the villain neighbors, they made it bad to find some people they didn't know many times, and scolded me without naming me, what should I do.
Hello. You offended the villain, the neighbors made them bad, and found some people you didn't know to scold you many times without naming your name. In a situation like this, you can record their words in the hall.
Then there must be evidence in these recordings, and some of them may say that they leaked your name, so you must have evidence that you can also shoot ** and so on, and then sue this villain, and after the court knows this rotten evidence, he will judge the neighbor's crime.
Hello teacher, I offended the villain neighbor, she provoked the neighbors in my building to hurt me, they jointly bullied me, scolded me where I went to exercise and buy vegetables, sometimes scolded and sometimes did not scold Mengqingwu, so it is difficult to be bad and record for evidence.
Then go and sue him.
What kind of recording is better for the teacher?
Dear, it would be better if there was a voice recorder.
Oh, thank you, teacher.
You're welcome, your 5-star praise is the greatest encouragement to me.
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Summary. If the "villain" has no strength and influence, we will let him go - this is not impossible.
There is a class of villains in the business who are both angry and pitiful. He has no ability, the leaders don't want to see him, and the popularity of the masses is not good. The ability to work and performance are mediocre or even poor. Such people are often unmotivated.
These villains like to say a few bad things about others in private, make some children's rhymes, and spread anger.
To be honest, it's easy to assess that this kind of person is just addicted to it, and no one takes them seriously.
This kind of "villain" is actually quite pitiful. Just let people complain and talk bad things in private, and find the meaning of life!
What to do if villains go around saying bad things about you.
If the "villain" has no strength and influence, we will let him count the oak horses - this is not impossible. There is a class of villains in the enterprise who are both angry and pitiful. He has no ability, the leaders don't want to see him, and the popularity of the masses is not good.
The ability to work and performance are mediocre or even poor. Such people are often unmotivated. These villains like to say a few bad things about others in private, make some children's rhymes, and spread anger.
To be honest, it's easy to assess that this kind of person is just addicted to it, and no one takes them seriously. This kind of "villain potato lifting" is actually quite pitiful. Just let people complain and talk bad things in private, and find the meaning of life!
Hello. How else can I help you? If you are satisfied with my sleepy service, I hope you can give a (like)! I wish you a happy and happy life!
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In fact, you don't have to pay attention to such a person, the more you care about him, the more proud you are, don't you? The world is so big, everyone has it, a villain is a villain after all, I have met a lot of such people, my way, ignore him, the truth will explain everything, but, don't let his villain succeed.
1. The reason why some people listen to the villain's bad words and some people believe them is because others don't understand you, when you let everyone see it and listen to what the villains say, everyone naturally thinks that Qi Yanzhou will no longer believe the villain's words, and they think that the villain is very hateful!
2. You must make the conflict with the villain public!
Prevent the villain, you have to inch in, it on your neck!
After you set up an image of you and the villain having contradictions, the villain says anything bad about you, everyone's trust must be decreasing, because everyone knows that you two have contradictions, and people with a little emotional intelligence will take the initiative to avoid it, unlike before, the cynicism that was fooled by a few words of the villain, and felt that you were full of high-level garbage!
As the saying goes: don't see the villain in general! If you want to be serious with the villain, don't you lower your personality and IQ?
As the old saying goes: gossip stops at the wise. He said that he would believe it, and he was almost the same type of person as him, so why should he care so much?
As the saying goes: those who are clear are self-purifying, and those who are turbid are self-turbid. Just do your own thing, and being able to be talked about means that there are still people who pay attention. Celebrities will take the initiative to make some gossip and scandals from time to time, just to get attention. is treated the same as celebrities, what can't be accepted?
There are two sides to everything, don't think about the bad, think more about the good, and the mentality will be calm.
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Now the society is so complicated, there is no kind of mild environment in the school, go to work, where you will meet such people, the key is to adjust your mentality, in the same job of course, you have to get along, do you need to work, but also in the long run, in order to work more smoothly in the future, otherwise it will be more rigid, but also to grasp the measure, if necessary, you can wake her up, if the essence of this person is good, good communication, with sincerity to impress her, On the contrary, it is better to stay away from her, and it is best to keep a certain distance.
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See if your girlfriend really likes herself, if she is angry and angry, you can say, baby, you don't want me to be your neighbor, then let's live together, if your girlfriend is still angry, you can directly bully or take it away, girls like to be domineering, it ultimately depends on your decision.