Is it appropriate to be too harsh on people and things?

No matter what is too harsh, it is always inappropriate, there is a saying that if the water is clear, there is no fish, and if people are observed, there are no friends, and this is the truth.

It's not good, being too harsh on people and things will end up with a mean reputation, and this is a world where people have human feelings, so you can't be too harsh.

It's not suitable, everything must be mastered to a degree, things must be reversed, too much is definitely not good.

As long as it does not affect one's own interests, one should be tolerant of people and things.

It's better to be strict with yourself, but it's annoying for others to ask for it.

For the persistent pursuit of a person's ideals, we outsiders have no right to judge. Whether it succeeds or not, this is a person's business, and the premise of not harming others. Like a child in my relative's family, he is obsessed with taking the postgraduate entrance examination, and he is only admitted to one school, the Chinese Academy of Sciences.

The problem is that he repeated his studies for three years before he was admitted to only one general book. After graduation, non-graduate students of the Chinese Academy of Sciences will not be able to go to school. He is now 35 years old.

Food, drink and shelter all depend on parents. I've been on a blind date, but I've never been in love. I am still studying, and I am also admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences.

Relatives and friends have advised me on this matter. I also evaluated it behind my back. So what?

He had to take the exam, but his grades were not up to standard every year. The path you choose must be climbed to the end. This is his motto.

This so-called attachment also smiled slightly, and it was not about himself. ‍‍

Being harsh on people or things is a manifestation of being serious, sometimes some things can be harsh, but it is better to be tactful. After all, society is a big group.

It's not appropriate, we can be ourselves, but we don't have to be on others, after all, it's not a good thing to make others feel bad about themselves.

People's hearts are flesh and blood, when they are too demanding, let him look at the actual situation, some things are demanding, some things are not too demanding, can not meet your requirements, it is you who are angry, and strive for perfection to adapt to the situation.

It's really inappropriate to do this, don't waste too much time on unnecessary people, focus on yourself. As long as it's not harmful to you, let them go.

No one thinks it's a good thing, and the person who is obsessed with it thinks it's not good for himself. No one can really let go of attachment and entanglement, there is always one thing that can make a person persistent and entangled.

It's like doing something, we can't ignore it, we can't take it too seriously, and sometimes there is that feeling that a lot of things are counterproductive. That's why I want to say: grasp a "degree" in everything.

Let's just try not to touch it. Finally, the world is hot and cold, and people's hearts are unpredictable.

Don't get too attached to one thing. ‍‍

When you look at others unpleasantly, it reflects that you have a similar situation in yourself, so start by changing yourself. There is a saying: be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. ‍‍

No, there is no absolute answer. If you succeed, you are obsessed with one thing and get everyone's applause. If it fails, it is too entangled in one thing, and it will only become the laughing stock of others. Success or failure, on heroes. ‍‍