What is it like to talk to a guy who is special to pick the door?

Updated on society 2024-06-02
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I never take the initiative to pay when I go out, I take the initiative to wait next to the side when I go to the supermarket to check out, I never eat out, I don't watch movies, I have no gifts for the holidays, I took a coupon for my birthday and invited me to dinner, and I have to AA, I have a birthday from the cake during the day, to the KTV at night, I pay, no gifts, no flowers, he checks out two hundred when he visits the supermarket, and finally nagged for more than half a month, and I told me how much more his savings are every month, and he didn't spend money to fall in love. I still have a lot of savings, and I don't remember...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The ex-boyfriend is, always eating and drinking, embarrassed to invite the rich second generation, and then rubbing and drinking, I am embarrassed to go, in the end the two of them are together, anyway, movie tickets don't cost money, K songs don't cost money, he just licks his face and rubs it, my dad asked him at the time, what to do with the wedding house, he said confidently, rent a house to live, and thought about repaying the mortgage at the time, because I have a fixed salary, fortunately broke up, and now the object of the house is going to be renovated, we are about to get married, Later, I saw on WeChat that he wanted to buy a house in the second-hand development zone, and he didn't want to do it, he was not poor, he was lazy, and there was no rule of law if he was lazy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Boys who fall in love and mention AA are all scored. Soon after we met, he invited you to dinner, you invited him to drink, or he invited this meal, you invited the next meal, although it is advocated that girls should not rely too much on boys for money when they fall in love, but boys mention AA in person is really, too bad! The girls mentioned that it was about the same.

    And the one who said that he didn't like people talking about green tea, in my opinion, green tea is the kind of coquettish in front of other people's boyfriends (or husbands)! It doesn't matter in front of your boyfriend.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When my ex first started dealing with me, he started slamming the door, saying that he didn't bring any money, that he wanted me to spend money on boating, and that he didn't take me to eat. The second date said that he wanted to buy me a fruit cake, not only did he not buy any of them, although he did not buy more than 50 yuan for a meal (chicken pot), he also said that he didn't bring money for me to pay the bill, and he ate more than me, and rushed to eat, I didn't eat a few bites, and I grabbed the chicken in the chicken pot, enoki mushrooms, fish balls and other ingredients, so I left potatoes for me, and told me to eat, you're welcome, not enough to order more. The third time I told him to fuck off.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The first time we met, he paid for the meal, and since that time I have been paying for it, except for him buying snacks for himself, we sing, eat, and play are all at my expense, and even playing with his friends and his relatives and friends are all my money, I think I am a god of wealth, give him gifts, clothes, I have never seen him give me a little something, too much, I can't finish talking for a while!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think there are people who are more slamming the door than me, there are no wonders in the world, I talked about it for a month, and broke up decisively, and it is difficult for such a slamming boy to find a girlfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Fall in love with a guy who picks the door. Basically, there will be no fun at all. It's impossible to go out without spending money.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Liuyi sent a red envelope of six yuan and one, it is better not to send it, it is not enough to buy Wahaha, it is really not a red envelope for him, he just feels that he is worth six yuan and a dime in his heart, he said that he can't do a loss-making business, I will hehe, the object is a transaction, if I trade, I use it to trade with you...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I saw a bag 139 in ** when he broke a set of 900 skincare products on my desk because he moved my desk...And it's brand new....I blamed him, he didn't say he wanted to buy it back for me, then I bought another set, and then there was no money, I sent him the link to the bag, three or four days later I asked him when the courier would arrive, and he said there was no courier....Later he said he didn't buy it because it was too expensive....

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't dare to let him buy anything, if you don't buy it, forget it, and count you down, it's also drunk.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I was annoyed every day, and I didn't know what he was thinking, whether money was important or love was important.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think a guy picks the door when he talks to you, and maybe he will pick the door even more after getting married together in the future, so it is recommended not to deal with the boy who picks the door.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I like guys who pick the door, and I feel that the people who pick the door are annoying.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. The boyfriend who picks the door is very poor. Even if you buy a small thing, you will be careful about the price. If a man goes out to buy groceries, he will bargain for a dollar, and such a man completely gives people a feeling of rejection.

    After all, for the person who picks the door, he doesn't know what kind of impact such a life will have, but the people around him will feel embarrassed.

    Second, the boyfriend who picks the door is stingy.

    The boyfriend who picks the door is stingy. Whether it is to family members or friends, they will behave very stingy. Maybe it's because I'm used to saving in my usual life, so I have a mentality of wanting to save when I do anything.

    So living with such a person, you will find that there is only one word in his life, which is province.

    3. The boyfriend who picks the door is too selfish.

    A woman can tell whether a guy loves you or not, which can be seen from his attitude towards spending money. If a man truly loves you, he doesn't care about spending money on you at all. If a man is genuinely willing to spend money for you, then such a man will definitely love you.

    If a man is not even willing to spend money, then why does he say that he loves you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. If your boyfriend is very picky, then he will use saving money as an excuse and is unwilling to buy anything for his girlfriend, such as saying that saving money is to live a prosperous life in the future, but in fact, it is just a shame to say that it is just a picking.

    2. If your boyfriend never cares about money when he eats with his friends, and he is the kind of big spenders, but he is unwilling to buy anything for his girlfriend, it means that he is very picky, and it also means that he may not really like you in his heart.

    3. When he goes out with his boyfriend, he forgets to bring money every time, and then eats and drinks with his girlfriend, which also shows that he is very picky, and he must know that money is not saved, but earned through his own efforts.

    4. Of course, what kind of performance is the boyfriend who is very picky, and it can also be found through some details, if the boyfriend is a very picky person, it is recommended that girls should carefully consider the relationship between you to see if you can be together.

    Second, how to face the boyfriend correctly if he is very picky.

    1. If your boyfriend is reluctant to spend money, then don't summarize it as a slam at the beginning, you should learn more about how he is to see how he is to other people, if he is friendly to other people, and his friends say that others are very good, it means that he is not really slamming the door.

    2. If you ask your boyfriend to buy something for yourself, and your boyfriend is reluctant, then it will feel very uncomfortable for the girl, and if you feel uncomfortable, you must explain it to the other party in time, because love is not the same as marriage, and the two will get along for decades every day after marriage.

    3 You can also hint at your boyfriend through your friends, let your friends persuade you, and see if you can change this problem, like saving money, there is nothing wrong with it, but when you like girls, you always have to buy some gifts, and then invite your girlfriend to eat and watch movies together, etc., life still needs a sense of ritual.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I never dreamed that I would entrust my life to a boy who picks the door.

    My husband is very picky, but he didn't find out when he was in love, I only know that he is very frugal in life. He planned how much he would spend on his living expenses each month and how much he would save for his monthly salary.

    When we got married, although I didn't have a job, the two of us only paid my husband's salary alone. However, under his careful budgeting, he still insisted on leaving part of his salary in the bank.

    He likes to bargain when buying vegetables, and when others sell cabbage for 2 yuan, he can talk about 3 yuan for two handfuls. 8 yuan a pound of peanuts can be talked about 7 yuan a pound. I haven't seen him buy a new dress for a few years, and I see him wearing those two sets of clothes every day.

    He said it was too expensive, 7 yuan a bowl of dried rice noodles, if you buy it and cook it, you can eat several meals.

    When I first started working, the thing I couldn't stand the most was that I had to hand over all my salary to him. He told me that two people's salaries put together a good plan. For the first few years, I was a man of his word.

    Later, I found that if this continued, I had to ask him for money every time, and when I was unhappy, I had to look at my face, and I didn't feel safe at all. After hard work, he regained his financial freedom and got his salary card back.

    Although he has regained his financial freedom, he earns his own money for his own use. But the daily expenses of the family, laundry, soap, shampoo, as well as Internet fees, electricity bills, etc., are all my expenses. You also have to pay a certain amount of living allowance every month.

    I don't know exactly how much of his salary he spends each month, it's always unknown. Because I know him and never spends money recklessly, since I started working, it is fair to say that I have not worn a single piece of clothing that he bought for me. He often saved his money and went to the bank to buy government bonds.

    What touched me was the time when my son bought a house, he almost spent all his savings in order to scrape together money for his son to buy a house. A full 300,000 yuan in cash, all of which were his bank deposits and a list of treasury bonds. Looking at this thick deposit slip, my eyes turned red.

    This is the hard-earned money he has accumulated every time he picks the door!

    My son bought a house, and because my husband had limited cash, I took out a loan. But it's not much, it's not a lot of pressure. I think there's nothing wrong with finding a guy who picks the door, as long as he is good for the family and has a sense of family responsibility, we can sit back and relax.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I haven't dated a guy who picks the door, but I've seen my friend's boyfriend he is very picky, that is, when he goes out, although I think it should be AA, but if it's a boy who invites a girl to dinner, then the boy should still pay, so when you meet a boyfriend who picks the door, I think you should talk to him, if it really doesn't work, then it's good to get together and disperse.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Smell the fragrance to know the woman, look at the money to know the man. Don't fall in love with a man who values money too much, because he will never value you; Don't fall in love with a man who picks the door, this doesn't need a reason, he can't even give up a rose, he is unlikely to have something more valuable; Don't fall in love with a man who can't afford to joke about money, you can't say he's stingy, you can't say he's not rich, you can't say that other men are generous... Because it means that he is stingy, very poor, and really not as generous as other men; How do you make fun of a man who is stingy, he is not angry, but he is still stingy, such a man, of course, should stay away, stingy to the point of cheapness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, why did the boy pick the door? Boys who pick the door can be divided into two categories, one belongs to the rational life, and the other is to live a life. One category belongs to selfishness, commonly known as the iron rooster.

    The first one has security together, which can output security for you later. The second kind will cause contradictions when they are together, and there will be fewer and fewer people around them, which is depressing.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Picking the door does not tell love or not love, love is embodied in action, not in money. Of course, it's really uncomfortable to associate with a boy who picks the door, but his personality may be caused by a variety of reasons, after all, not everyone is born with a golden key, and more are ordinary people. If two people love each other, I think they can be more tolerant.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    will feel that he has to shop around for everything he buys, and everything he buys depends on whether it is expensive or not, and it feels very cheap.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It also depends on the situation, if his door is for you to consider in the future, I don't think there's anything wrong, but if from love to marriage, he is very critical of you along the way, and you don't like it very much, you also need to consider whether this is the person you want.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You may not get used to it at first, but over time you will develop a habit of picking at the door, and of course it is premised on that you love him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That may be something you want to eat, and he thinks he thinks it's bad, or there's no need to buy it, and he won't stop buying it for you, and if you can accept that, it's okay.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't associate with a guy who picks the door, because he will pick the door until you doubt life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Probably: I still found an abacus when I was in love, why are other people in love very good, but my own is like this, it's better to break up quickly than to be happy alone.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Whether you pick the door or not, it depends on how much money he has and how much he is willing to spend on you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think it's going to be very tiring, you can save and thrift, but you can't pick the door. But my words are a bit extreme.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If the guy is very picky, when you are eating and shopping, he will count the ** of every food item, which will make you very annoyed.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I also don't like men who are particularly picky.,I think it's really impossible to find a man who picks the door in particular.。 If you're with a guy who's picking on the door, you're going to feel awkward and not fun at all. Affect your mood every day.

    First of all, with the man who slammed the door, the two of them will have conflicts all day long. Because a person who is particularly picky about the door, he is only the money that should not be spent, he will not spend, even the money that should be spent, he will not spend. He felt that every penny he had was wasted, and he felt very uncomfortable.

    Not only does he not spend money himself, but if the other party spends money, he will also interfere and accuse, which is the most unbearable. So two shirtless savages will have a lot of idleness together, and it's really not worth it to find such a person.

    Secondly, the purpose of making money is to live, so sometimes it is human nature to spend money to improve our lives, or to buy ourselves a few good clothes. You are absolutely not allowed to be a man who picks the door, he even has to control all the financial power of the family, and he has to greet him with any money, and he can't do anything if he doesn't agree. To be with such a person is to live a lifetime, a poor life.

    You can't enjoy the joy of life.

    Third, but if you really find a man who picks the door, you should also find ways to change him. Because it is not easy for people to shout in this life, you patronize and make money, and you don't enjoy it at all, which is really bitter for yourself. If you can make some changes in his thinking through communication, it will make the relationship between the two people better and better.

    Giving gifts to each other on wedding anniversaries or empty birthdays to express their love for each other not only has a sense of ceremony, but also feels the love and understanding from each other.

    I think it's okay for a man to pick the door appropriately, because life does have to be careful and calculated, but it's incomprehensible if it's too picky, and it should be changed appropriately.

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