How can I become smart and not be bullied?

Setbacks are the essence of life, and it is a perfect journey of benevolence to taste bitterness and happiness. Relax your heart, life is wonderful because of you!

Say less, do less.

There is no harm in being deep.

Don't be sharp.

How to deal with people who think they are smart, I have a lot of experience in this problem, because I once met a very smart leader, the other party acted strangely and was self-righteous, and I was a subordinate, with a huge disparity in status, unable to resist, I could only complain and complain with my friends, and then slowly found out some ways to get along with people who thought they were smart.

The first point is that if you don't have to get along with this person who thinks you're smart, for example, the other party is just a classmate, alumnus, etc., there is no strong constraint between the two people, and there is no interest relationship, you just need to stay away from such a person. In this case, even if you hate the other person very much, or the other party's self-pretentious cleverness makes you feel very uncomfortable, as long as it does not hurt you in essence, it is still recommended to be kind to others and stay away, and there is no need to tear your face and gradually distance yourself.

To sum up, people who think they are smart often lack self-knowledge, they always feel that they are incomparably right, and it doesn't make sense to reason with them, they often have a very self-consistent logic, and this kind of person is very good at using sophistry techniques "slippery slope fallacy", "scarecrow fallacy" and "black and white fallacy". Please ask the subject to die and want to reason with them, reasoning with them can only make you crazy, don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes.

Treat it in two situations: 1. If you have to maintain daily contact and can't tear your face, then compliment him and say that it is okay to perfunctory him on the surface; 2. If there is no relationship between them, those few words will put him aside, and he will not dare to pretend to be poor in front of you after eating the closed door.

How to deal with subordinates who think they are smart?

Self-proclaimed smart subordinates often fail to thoroughly implement the leader's intentions and always do some unfortunate helps. They always think that their own ideas are better than those of the leader, and they make their own decisions in the process of carrying out the task and change the leader's intentions. For such subordinates, although the leader is angry, he is embarrassed to scold them.

Because it will make them not help you in the future and turn against you. Imagine someone who solves a problem for you wholeheartedly, and you not only don't appreciate it, but also scold them, can this feel good? Since you can't scold it, you can only use soft attacks.

First of all, thank them for their sincerity and help, affirm the value of their help from the front, and then explain the mistakes they made from the side, and finally find a step down for their mistakes, and even attribute the mistakes to themselves in the end.

In fact, as long as they are properly guided, it is not difficult to train smart employees to be useful employees, so don't give up on them, these people can be an important resource for the company.

How to deal with selfish, nosy, self-righteous people?

Ignore them! Waste of energy!

It is when he insists that something is wrong, we choose not to expose him, and the day he pays the price for it will be the result of you dealing with him.

You have to make sure he's really clever, not that you're not seeing things for what they are. 2 Be strong in your heart, unaffected by its words. 3. Silently appreciate her every self-made clever performance. 4 Stay away from her. 5 Forget her after staying away, even.

Perfunctory, if it really doesn't work, just stay away, there is no need to hold him among colleagues, do your part, be happy.

1. If this kind of person wants to get close to him, he needs to "hold him", don't take his words seriously, just hold it on his face.

2. Such people are often eager to compete for interests and love to steal the work of others, so when working together, you need to do good deeds and send your results to others to share first.

3. Don't treat others as fools, because you are actually a fool yourself. After a long time, everyone will see that they don't want to pay attention to him.

For the villains you meet in life, the best way is not to deal with them, and don't have contact with them.

Of course, don't be smart and think that you can submit to the villain's rule, which is not only stupid but also unwise. When the villain calculates you, you understand in your heart that this is a pit, and then we use our personal wisdom to dodge it, don't think about a report and a report, life is very short, there are a lot of important things to do, why choose to get along with the villain? This not only lowers my taste, but also wastes my time.

In the TV series "Sima Yi's Military Divisional Alliance", Cao Fang repeatedly plotted against Sima Yi and repeatedly wanted to put Sima Yi to death, when Sima Zhao asked Sima Yi why he didn't make a move, Sima Yi said lightly: Cao Fang is a fool, can you compete with a fool? Therefore, it is wise not to compete with villains.

To deal with those who pretend to be smart, I personally think that the best way is to watch him perform to the fullest, and those so-called smart people will inevitably show their feet and show them to others.

If a person does not choose to be strong, who will show him weakness......Therefore, the way to be strong is to improve social status and social value.

Always remember: everyone should have the spirit of Ah Q.

Be strong, want to drive a little, be brave.

That's just for him to suffer more. People who think they are smart are often not smart.

Hehe, there are many people in life who pretend to be smart and don't care about other people's feelings, and the best way to do this kind of person is to let him do one thing by himself, and when he encounters difficulties and can't solve them, he comes to you, and you can easily help her solve them, and it is estimated that he will not put a score in front of you in the future.

I don't think you should reason with him, but he will get more and more energetic after theorizing with him, and there is no need to continue to bite back with him

Ignore him and do your own thing.

A society is like a university, and everyone is a student.

Be wise yourself, and be substantial.

For those who think they are smart, try this way

First, keep the relationship in general and stay away. Don't offend easily, don't deny it casually. He loves to perform, you cut **. There are many performances, and I will act by myself.

Second, don't argue with him about anything he says, admit that he is smart, and what he says makes sense. Often the world and reality will teach him the stupidity of the little clever.

Third, if you are too arrogant and have complete contempt for you, when necessary, give him a lesson severely, seize the opportunity, and teach him a lesson that you will never forget. In this way, he also knows that others are not stupider than him.

In short, he is a smart person, has a strong desire to perform, and loves to brush his sense of existence. Most people are not bad in nature, that is, most of the time they ignore the IQ of others, which makes people feel disgusted or disgusted. It is generally better to let him learn lessons from reality.

Treat it in two situations: 1. If you have to maintain daily contact and can't tear your face, then compliment him and say that it is okay to perfunctory him on the surface; 2. If there is no relationship between them, those few words will put him aside, and he will not dare to pretend to be poor in front of you after eating the closed door.

People who think they are smart will be smart but will be mistaken by cleverness, and they will be punished?

Give someone a taste of their own medicine.

Respect and stay away, and deal with it calmly.

In real life, there is indeed such a person, who always thinks that he is very smart and treats others as fools, in fact, his self-righteous little tricks, others have long seen through it, but he just didn't say it, dealing with this kind of person:

1. Never leave any mercy, it's best to poke him directly and let him have no chance.

2. Stay away from this kind of person and try to keep a certain distance from him.

Hello! Yes, this kind of person is very annoying. You can ignore him, too!

You can't save face when dealing with this kind of person. He must pierce his shield with a spear.

My proposition is: He says I listen. He does, I see.

There is no need to slap a person in the face.

Ah, to deal with those who think they are smart, you should put them in a group and let them know what it means to be clever and be mistaken by smart.

If it's not important, just be yourself and don't care about others, hehe. After all, people live for themselves.

I'm guessing you're underage.

Having no temper is not necessarily a bad thing, and people who have no temper live a long life.

Everyone is different, and you can't ask yourself to be as tough as everyone else. Everything can be cultivated, and you consciously cultivate yourself and work on your own shortcomings.

In fact, many times, it is not others who are bullying you, but you yourself who are bullying yourself. Most of the people you get along with are people your age, how much scheming can they have? How can they bully you?

It's you yourself who take it too seriously. No one has an enmity with you, so why should they target you and get along with you?

Take it easy.

What's more, there is another saying: Suffering is a blessing.

Personally, I prefer to be psychological, but physical health does have a great relationship with mental health, so it is also recommended that you exercise more, and a good body is the premise of good everything.

First of all, you must be confident, learn more knowledge and be well-informed, so that others will admire you from the heart and at the knowledge level. Secondly, you must exercise, otherwise you will be sick all day long, and others will have an advantage over you physically. Another important thing is to be able to behave and do things, so that others will not be jealous of you and have no ill will towards you.

Hope to be able to adopt it, thank you

Hone it slowly.,This can't be changed all at once.,But I think the current person.,If you're good to him.,He treats you as grass.,You drag him a little.,He's good to you.。。 Don't be weak, the more you do this, the easier it is to be bullied.