What should I do right away?

I don't think we should do everything quickly, Lao Tzu once said, the world's major things, must be done in detail. If you just want to do things quickly, you're going to miss a lot of details. If you don't pay attention to the details, you risk losing your chance.

Now the whole society has also begun to popularize the lifestyle of slow life, advocating the attitude of slowing down and appreciating the beautiful scenery along the way. I understand that when everyone around us is looking for faster, faster speed and efficiency, we can't help but feel panicked. At this time, we must adjust our mentality, slow down ourselves, and pursue a better quality of life.

When this happens, the first reaction is to be in a hurry about what you are doing, or something that suddenly comes to mind, what you are doing at hand is important, or what you think of is important, and then you start to act. If the thought of something is more urgent and important, let go of the hand to solve it in advance, this is not wrong, don't mind.

People who are prone to this condition are generally acute. In this case, people's execution and implementation will be very good, and there will be no psychological problems, which is completely due to personality habits. So don't mind too much.

It's understandable to do whatever you think of small things, and if we're not crazy, we'll be old, and when we're young, it's okay to be crazy about some innocuous little things, because it won't cause much loss.

Emotionally, I can do whatever I want, and after knowing my husband for less than a week, he told me that he wanted to talk to me about friends, and I was okay with him at the time, so I agreed, and then we got married. Sometimes when I feel something while watching TV or reading a book, and suddenly I miss him, I will immediately send him a message, saying that I miss him, and tell him that I love you. Some people may think that women shouldn't be too proactive, okay I admit I'm not reserved, but so what?

At least I followed my heart, at least I don't have any regrets.

There is only one life in life, if you think of this kind of thing that may change your fate, you can do it, you are reckless and have no plan, there is not much opportunity to remedy it, it is better to be cautious.

In my opinion, it is completely possible to do it, because people are inert, and if you don't make up your mind to do it now, you won't want to do it after this momentum.

Pay attention to adjusting your acute personality in daily life. Taking a deep breath and thinking for three minutes before you do anything will help you adjust your personality.

The things that come to our minds, which are very important and must be done, must be done immediately. Because if you don't do it at the time, your memory will be blurred after a while, and when you look back and think about what you should do, you may never remember it again. The human brain domain is truly amazing!

It's the same in life, when we really want to do something, we can't take a break for a while, so we can only put it aside. When I have free time, I remember what I haven't done, but I can't remember what I wanted to do before. Human brain cells are really mysterious!

When we drive on the road and find that our fuel gauge is close to the last level, we should hurry to refuel, and don't think that with the remaining bit of fuel, we can still travel more than 100 kilometers. When the oil really bottoms out, there are already long queues at gas stations, and it is not easy to refuel at this time. The human brain circuit is really amazing!

I really hope that I have the kind of eye scanning memory function in science fiction**, the memory chip of the knowledge gift package, and the ability to analyze and process the limit, in that case, human beings are not ordinary people, but have evolved into superhumans.

To be a man, we still have to be down-to-earth, one step at a time, we don't need superpowers, we just need to continue to work hard.

I am an unsatisfied person, thinking about what I want every day, such as school, love, dreams. Every day was spent in my imagination, and in the end I suddenly realized that I still had nothing. I'm more or less interested in everything that changes, but it's just thinking about it, not doing it.

Now, I'm sitting on a small couch and leaning against the armrests in a position that isn't very comfortable. But I didn't leave here because I was afraid that as soon as I got up, I would lose the courage to continue typing.

Don't laugh, it's true. For a person who has not been good at writing since childhood, composition is really a big trouble. But today....Why? Maybe it's because of the phrase "do whatever you want to do right away", or maybe it's just because of a little feeling today.

In short, I picked up my phone, not to play, but to write an article.

It took less than 20 minutes to write this, but it was a big step for me. Writing is also one of my dreams, but it has always been a dream due to laziness, lack of self-confidence, etc. But today it will no longer be just a dream, and of course, I hope that one day I can say that I am an unknown writer.

In fact, everything is like this, we worry too much and act too little, so that many dreams are abandoned before we can start pursuing, so that many dreams are just dreams or "fantasies" after all.

Now I am a senior who is about to graduate from high school, and I am approaching the college entrance examination, but I only think about studying every day as my parents and teachers think, but that doesn't mean that I haven't worked hard. I know that my many dreams need to be supported by a good enough university. For the sake of my dream, I have been trying to break through myself since I was in high school, and I am still doing the same.

As soon as I'm done with this article, I'm going to dive into my homework. At the time of writing this article, I didn't feel the same pain as before, but instead became more nuclear and relaxed, I think it was another step forward.

Finally, I want to say, "Do whatever you want to do right away!" Don't let yourself be left with regrets. ”

What I want to do, start doing or preparing immediately, I think there are not many people who can do this, I can't do it myself, I want to do something in my head, but I will think about it again and again, I feel that it is not good to do it at the moment, it is a little abrupt, a little unprepared, and so on. Later, when you wait, you give up, or you wait and wait, and you never have the chance to do it again. For example, recently, I liked a colleague and had dinner a few times, and I thought she was just a colleague to me, so I hesitated to chase and confess, and as a result, she suddenly left her job last week and went to Guangzhou ......For another example, since I changed companies, I have been on the road to work for an hour every day, and I have always wanted to move, but I have never had the motivation to look at the house, and I feel that the current place is okay, and I will waste time on the road to read books to pass the time, so I have not taken action.

Procrastination is in the late stages, resulting in not doing what you want to do right away.

I also envy the kind of people who do what they think of, don't drag the mud and water, and take a trip that they can just go. As for how they can do it when they think of it, I don't know. I can only analyze the reasons why I can't do it.

First, the fear of not doing well and lack of preparation. Because you are not prepared, you will not think of it and do it immediately, and you are afraid that the lack of preparation will lead to a bad job. For example, a trip that is just a trip can not be done, because you have to prepare your itinerary, book flights and hotels, and pack your luggage to be prepared.

When these were ready, the preparation process found that it was too troublesome and difficult, so the plan was canceled.

Second, fear of failure. When you meet someone you like, you hesitate to chase it, when you encounter a good opportunity for a job, you hesitate to fight for it, or even give a speech on stage, although you want to show it in your heart, you still don't dare to go on stage. It's all because of the fear of failure, the fear of bearing the pain and loss of failure.

In fact, there are not enough failures, not enough pain and loss encountered, and when there are too many failures, and you are immune to loss and pain, then you will not be afraid of failure. How to do it without fear, I don't know, my way is only to fail a few more times, and it doesn't matter the result, since the result doesn't matter, then I'm not afraid of failure.

Third, lazy. Laziness is the root of all low mobility, why are you lazy, because there is no motivation and pressure, there is pressure and motivation will not be lazy, there is no pressure to clock in at work on the weekend, you will sleep lazy, if you can get up early on the weekend and be rewarded with a hundred yuan, then you will not sleep lazy. How to overcome laziness, I think the way is to set a goal, tell your friends, let your friends supervise you, force yourself to act, if you don't do it, there will be a punishment, such as losing 500 yuan to your friend.

Programs without supervision and punishment are ineffective for lazy people.

Analyzed the reasons why I can't act immediately after analyzing three points, I don't know if it's reliable, as for how to do it immediately when I think of it, I think it's also related to people's personalities, and it's easier to act immediately with a fiery personality, and my lazy and lazy character is to grind the skin and delay until the last moment. It's hard to change the personality.,I don't have much hope for doing it when I think of it.,If anyone has a good way.,Welcome to leave a message.。 Let's get it done.

Therefore, you must act, and when you think of it, you have to do it, because the more you think about it, the more emotions you have, the harder it is to put it into action.

Writer Yang Daxia narrated and let himself take active action.

You must have had this experience, your lover asked you to take something back from the unit, and after several days, you still didn't get it back, and you always forgot.

I've had the same experience. But now I'm pretty much out of it, so I'm really happy.

Below, I will share my little experience with you, so that you will not forget things again.

Let's also take this example as an example, your lover asks you to take a book home from your work.

Before you go to work, you must remember this incident, because, before going to work, your lover just nagged you. After coming to the unit, brushing your face and greeting your colleagues, you may forget about it for a while.

When you go to work, you probably think about it once or twice, because it's not a big deal, you don't think about it all the time, it's nice to think about it once or twice a day.

When you think about it, please go and do it right away, without delaying for a minute. Go find that book and put it in the bag you have to bring to and from work, so you don't forget it.

Otherwise, you'll forget all sorts of things.

Of course, if you are in love, you don't have to follow this routine, because you will think of her and him thousands of times a day, and you will never forget what he and she have told you.

If not, it's still very reliable to do what I said.

Be brave and don't think about everything so hard. I just don't dare to face many things, I always want to do it when I'm ready, or even when I'm ready, and I find all kinds of excuses to delay again and again because of all kinds of irrelevant problems.

It's all trifles. You can solve it right away, but you can't always take the first step, so you keep your attention on it, wasting your time.

There are a lot of small things, and it's only because Lu Nuclear destroyed your thin skin that you think how difficult this matter is, but as long as you do these things, it means that you have solved them.

For example, if you get lost outside, many people will always be embarrassed to ask passers-by, and then wait until they have turned around countless times, and then they grit their teeth and ask passers-by for directions.

However, this kind of thing can be said to be too small to be small, as long as you meet someone, just go up and ask, there is no big deal at all. If your skin is really thin, just close your eyes and grit your teeth and go up and ask directly, there is no need to waste time looking everywhere for where to go.

For example, if you meet someone you like, just chase it, be brave, take the initiative, show your sincerity, even if you don't catch it in the end, you won't regret it because you didn't do anything, you were taken the lead by others, or try to become what the other party likes. And if the other party really doesn't like you, there is no need to force it.

Don't think about it too hard in advance, don't always think about what others will think if you do it yourself; What would others think about doing that?

I didn't steal, rob, or do anything wrong, I didn't need to care what others thought, and it didn't hurt to be thick-skinned.