What would you do if your siblings always borrowed money from you?

Will still help. Because everyone is the closest person, if even the person closest to you stands by and watches, I must be quite disappointed, so as long as I have the ability and I can help the other party, I will definitely lend a hand. And in fact, that's what I've always done.

Help, do my best to help, I worked when I was a child to help my younger brothers and sisters earn tuition, they are now grown up, started a family, have a good income, as the eldest brother I can't earn much money, and I fell ill, but when I bought a house, my younger brothers and sisters gave me 150,000 each, saying that I don't have to pay it back, to repay the tuition fees that helped them pay when I was a child, I am very moved, blood is thicker than water, money and status are overlooked, and the most true love is guarded.

Can't lend it to him, I used to bully me because I was a boy, and I didn't even shout my sister, and at this time I remembered that I was his sister, but unfortunately it was late, and I held a grudge.

Use me as a cash cow, you can't borrow it, I've lent it to him several times before, if I give it to him every time he lends me, it will make him a parasite, and that's what really hurts him.

I always think about how it is possible to get something for nothing, I can't get used to them developing the habit of reaching out and asking for money, not lending them to them, and letting them make money by their own labor.

I have been dependent on my brother since I was a child, and of course I will give him money when he borrows him, he is the only one I can rely on in this world, and I will lend him money as best I can.

My brother also has to settle accounts, I already have my own family now, it's okay once or twice, no more, my wife will quarrel with me, let him earn it himself.

My sister gave me the opportunity to go to college, and if I didn't lend it to her, it would be too unhuman, not only to lend her money, but also to help with other things.

My sister's family is really difficult, she borrowed money for his family, and I, as his only younger brother, can help and will definitely help, and live up to my sister's care for me when I was a child.

My brother was spoiled by my parents, he borrowed money to gamble, I can't indulge him, lending him money is ruining him.

Force them to make money on their own, otherwise, they will always drag you to death

If you have money, you can help. I can't help if I don't have money.

At this time, he remembered to borrow money from me, and when he wanted to fight with me for my parents' things, he didn't have a face, and at that time he scolded me to leave a shadow in his heart, and now he wants to borrow money, but there is no door.

Borrow other people's money and know to pay it back, borrow my money and don't pay it back to my mother, and don't tell me to pay it back, my mother told me that the money was repaid, but she didn't give me the money, and then the next time she borrowed money from me, I said the reason for not borrowing, she borrowed from others, and when the two of them came to the door to pay it back, they borrowed it from me next time.

I didn't say it, do my best and help as much as I can.

Even the brothers and sisters don't care about how to deal with the world, mainly because they have a certain amount of borrowing.

It depends on one's financial ability and relationship with one's brothers and sisters.

If you have the financial strength to meet the standard and can help your siblings, you will help and help. However, if you have already started a family by the time you help, you need to discuss it with your husband (wife) and report it in advance. If you don't meet the standards and can't help, then communicate with your family in time, talk to your family, explain your difficulties, and let your family be prepared.

Don't slap a swollen face and become fat, especially if you already have a family, if you do that, not only will you be in a dilemma, but it will also cause the breakdown of family relationships, and eventually ruin yourself.

There is also the aspect of feeling brotherly affection, and your relationship with your brothers and sisters is also the reason and motivation for you to borrow money. If you don't have an emotional foundation or have had a bad relationship since childhood, then you can consider whether to borrow it. After all, there is no emotional concern, if you lend out money, others will not only not cherish the gratitude, but will also take it for granted, relying on the relatives to intensify the situation, and in the end it will only cause the dust to laugh into a tragedy.

Conclusion: Recognize the reality, start from reality, seek truth from facts, and don't be carried away by feelings, so as not to cause losses.

What do you do to a relative who borrows money and does not pay it back, especially a lover's siblings? When I encounter this situation, I usually do this: first, every New Year's holiday, I go to his house empty-handed, and when I go, I start to talk about the lack of money at home; The second is that I will call ** every few days or go to his house in person, and when I go, I will say that I have nothing to do to eat; The third is to tell them as long as we meet, and the two of us quarrel again because the family has no money to spend.

In the face of the kind of relatives who borrowed money and didn't pay it back, although they couldn't be urged to repay the money on the surface, they could still blame Sang and scold Huai to make them sleep. Below we have a detailed analysis and discussion of the topic of non-repayment of borrowed money.

First of all, every time I celebrate the New Year, I take my children to his house empty-handed, and after I go, I start to talk about the lack of money at home. began to say that everything was not going well, and said that the money lent out could not be returned, and then added that it was not about them. I don't care what they think in their hearts, for this kind of person who borrows money and doesn't pay it back, I have to point fingers at Sang and scold Huai in front of him.

One day he can't stand it anymore, and he will definitely pay us back.

Secondly, if I really have money and I can't pay it back, I will call ** every few days to greet him, or go to his house to sell it in person, and say that it's okay to go, just miss them, come over for a meal. If they get tired of me going all the time, they will always have the self-knowledge to pay us back the money they owe sooner. If I don't have enlightenment, then I will continue to go to his house to eat, and I should get some interest first.

Third, as long as we met, I told them that the two of us quarreled again, and the reason was because the family had no money to spend, but he always borrowed money to make amusement, and he didn't come back if he borrowed it. If they think it's about them, I'll say it's definitely not about them, after all, we are so close, it is right to borrow money from them. After saying that, I will joke that if I have money, I will pay us back as soon as possible, and the child will still need it for the exam.

In short, no matter what type of relatives they are, borrowing money and not paying it back is the biggest unkindness, and you can't be polite to them.

In fact, this situation is very common, and you can choose to ask your lover to ask these siblings for money. If you still can't come, then you have to come forward, don't be afraid of affecting the relationship, because if he doesn't pay back, it has affected your relationship.

I think you should discuss with your lover at this time, if the other party really has special circumstances and can't return the money in time, don't worry, just keep waiting, if the other party has money but doesn't pay it back to you in time, discuss with your lover a way to let the other party pay back the money.

If it was the first time I was called, I might not ask them to pay it back, because it would be easy to hurt the feelings between the two parties, but if they asked me to borrow money in the future, I might just refuse.

If my siblings don't pay me back after borrowing money from each other, then I will first explain it to him directlyBecause of the problem of money, I have always been very clear, and when I lend money to my relatives, I will directly clear the matter and explain the matter, that is, I should return the money to me before the date I lent him, if I don't pay it back to me, I will ask for it in person, and don't pick on me when the time comes, etc., using this way of saying ugly things in front, first of all, my brothers and sisters will definitely have a certain amount of preparation in their hearts, and then if they really don't pay it back to me, I also have a reason to say this, At this point, I am not afraid that they will have ideas, because I helped them when they were in trouble, but they did this to me, which shows that they do not have me in their hearts, and for such brothers and sisters, of course, I will turn my face and deny others. Of course, if you don't want to say it directly, I think the following methods are also feasible:

1. Euphemistically express

If you think the above method is more direct, we can also euphemistically express the situation of your lack of money, for example, when chatting with your brothers and sisters, you can talk about money, such as this month's salary company is in arrears, or the price is **, life is not good, etc., etc., this way of knocking on the side will not hurt the feelings between you, but also remind them to a certain extent.

2. Ask someone to convey it

In addition, we can also tell them by asking someone to convey it, for example, asking someone you all know to call them, saying that you need some money urgently, but you don't have time to take the initiative to tell him, so you can only ask this person to tell him, under normal circumstances, they will pay you back as long as they have money.

3. Make an excuse

Secondly, we can also test their thoughts by finding an excuse, such as telling them a white lie for the time being, telling them that something is going on in their family and that they urgently need a sum of money, and ask them if they can pay you back first.

You have to find a way for such brothers and sisters, you might as well buy a house, a land, or a car now, and bluff to let him return the money. Otherwise, such people will not pay back.

Don't ask, whoever you borrow should pay it back, otherwise you will be looked down upon by others, and you will always be a parasitic money worm, and it is not easy for anyone's money, so you should pay it back.

If it is said that there is a condition to pay back, it must be returned, and if there is no condition to repay it at one time, it will be repaid for a long time, and I have to pay it back, and the psychological side of owing zhi to others is very uncomfortable, isn't it dao?When I went to borrow from someone, I said all the good things, so why be a person with no credit?

Isn't the money earned by your brothers and sisters obliged to use it with you? It's also very hard for them to make money, it's not falling from the sky, it's sour that there is hanging money down, and you have to bend down to pick it up. If it is not a lot of money, he will not pay it back, you don't have to ask, it hurts your feelings to let others know that it hurts the face of your brothers and sisters to know what kind of person he is, and the next time you ask you to borrow, if it is not really an emergency or something.

You have to find a way, otherwise every time people ask you to borrow you, they will give it to them, and they will think that is a stupid hat! Even if you borrowed 99 times, the 100th time you didn't. They all say that you are not good to him, you just didn't lend it to him once, people are like this, their own people, just click it, there is no next time

Summary. Brothers and sisters, this is our blood relationship, and when we ask them to borrow money, many times it is easy to succeed. After all, from the blood and daily close life, we can trust what you say more, and we can't bear to see you in difficulty, and we can generally borrow money from them.

The money that siblings lend us has the benefit of helping, and few people care about the interest on money borrowed between siblings. However, there is also a downside to sibling borrowing, which is that if you can't pay it back, then your credit will be worthless to the other person. In the end, you can't get any other help from them.

When we borrow money, we usually do it when we really have no choice, which is also the result of being deeply influenced by traditional Chinese concepts. Each of us usually pays back the money we borrowed from our brothers and sisters as soon as possible, unless something major happens to us and it is more difficult. Personally, I still think that the act of borrowing money from siblings can be carried out, as long as it is within a reasonable range, and I must also replace the money borrowed from my siblings in time, because if you don't pay it back, you will not only lose it.

Brothers and sisters, this is our blood relationship, and when we ask them to borrow money, many times it is easy to succeed. After all, from the blood and daily close life, we can trust what you say more, and we can't bear to see you in difficulty, and we can generally borrow money from them. The money that siblings lend us has the benefit of helping, and few people care about the interest on money borrowed between siblings.

However, there is also a downside to sibling borrowing, which is that if you can't pay it back, then your credit will be worthless to the other person. In the end, you can't get any other help from them. When we borrow money, we usually do it when we really have no choice, which is also the result of being deeply influenced by traditional Chinese concepts.

Each of us usually pays back the money we borrowed from our brothers and sisters as soon as possible, unless something major happens to us and it is more difficult. Personally, I still think that the act of borrowing money from siblings can be carried out, as long as it is within a reasonable range, and I must also replace the money borrowed from my siblings in time, because if you don't pay it back, you will not only lose it.

Just a little humble opinion of myself.