How to distinguish a friend from a real brother?

Wine and meat friends are actually just superficial brothers, when you have difficulties in asking for help to yourself, they are always unwilling, thinking of reasons to refuse, a true friend is just the opposite, even if they can't do something, but they will readily agree and then work hard for it, this is a real friend.

If you want to tell if this person is a friend of wine and meat, or a real brother, you just need to borrow money from him. When we borrow money from a friend, if we have a place in their hearts worthy of being a true friend, then they will definitely be obliged. Even if you don't have money, you won't shirk it.

Will find a way to make it up for us, because friends don't open their mouths easily at all. And those friends who drink and meat will push back. It won't even pick you up**.

There is no need for such a friend to go on.

If you want to see who is the real brother, who is a friend of wine and meat, or to see who can come out to help you when you encounter difficulties, the so-called adversity to see the truth, usually when drinking a brother called kiss, when encountering things, will hide away from you.

In fact, it is very simple, as long as you inform them that something has happened to you, you need their help, what kind of help they need to give you, and see if the other party helps you unconditionally, only those real brothers will help you unconditionally, and those friends who drink and meat will shirk you for various reasons.

If you want to distinguish between a friend of wine and meat and a real brother, that is, at a critical juncture, who can stand up and pull you instead of hiding far away and want to cut off relations with you.

If every time you call him to sing, have dinner and play, he comes, and then you encounter some difficulties and need to do something, you call him, and then he finds various reasons, and then you contact him and he can't be contacted, this kind of person is a typical wine and meat friend, if you encounter something and you haven't said it, take the initiative to hit **, comfort you and help you The kind is a true friend, people are mutual, how to me and how to others.

One of the easiest ways to do this is to borrow money.

True friends will do their best to help you, but friends who drink and meat can only share the joys and sorrows.

I used to think that I was friends with everyone, but because something happened to ** when I borrowed money, many people were reluctant to lend because they were afraid that I would not be able to pay it back, but there were still some people who didn't say a word and transferred money directly to me.

The amount I borrowed is not large, only a few thousand yuan, and those who can borrow are brothers, and those who don't borrow are friends, and everyone has a scale in their hearts.

Wine and meat friends figure wine and meat, plot Moutai, Wuliangye and Xishui Daqu, Louis, Rum and Waterga, pork, beef and mutton, fish, chicken and shrimp, and the habit is characterized by plotting wine and meat.

A true brother tries to do things, to draw life, ideals and goals, to do, to do things and what to do, and the outstanding characteristics are indeed non-stop doing.

The most direct is to borrow money, if it is a true friend, I will definitely borrow money to help me without saying a word, if it is a friend of wine and meat, I will definitely deliberately avoid it, and find a lot of excuses to say that I can't do it. There is also the fact that true friends will not come to rub your benefits, but wine and meat friends are like this.

You are down, look at the trough to see who is helping you, and never give up on you, but it is easy not to test people's hearts.

In fact, a real friend is a lifelong confidant, only a true friend is called a friend's friendship, but not all friends are real confidants, friends also have ordinary friends, ordinary friends, sincere friends, the most confidant friends, real friends are to make themselves worthy of cherishing and trusting confidants, but also the most trusted people in their hearts, friends will know how to be grateful and return, righteousness and trustworthiness have a conscience, friends should be mutual giving, not taking, People who can share weal and woe with you, who can take the initiative to stand up for you when you need help in the most difficult times, give you comfort, do things for you, help you, and relieve your troubles. A friend is a mutual considerateness, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, and mutual willingness to pay for each other, and a loyal guardian for each other. Friend:

It may not be reasonable, but it must be knowing; Not necessarily inseparable, but certainly sympathetic; Not necessarily the icing on the cake, but it must be a blessing in the snow; It doesn't have to be in touch all the time, but it's always in mind.

A friend is a friend who reaches out to you on the road of your life, especially when you encounter difficulties; When you are happy, it is your friends who laugh and cry with you; When you are most painful, it is your friend who holds your hand to give you strength, the weight of your friend is not in words, not in material, not in wine and money, but in the care, understanding, help, and support between friends、、、 if you are in a lonely journey, remember what your friend said, you will no longer indulge in it, if you can feel your friend's hand by your side in the painful days, the whole person is suddenly full of strength; If you dial your friend's ** when you are depressed, and when you hear that familiar voice, even if you don't say a word, you feel that the hesitation is no longer shrouded, then this is the weight of a friend.

There are three essential differences between wine and meat friends and true friends:

Clause. 1. Seeing the truth in adversity.

True friends will lend a helping hand no matter what kind of difficulties you encounter, but friends who drink and meat will stay away, and sometimes you will only see them when you are drinking.

Clause. 2. Measure feelings by the amount of alcohol.

The so-called drinking and meaty friends have no feelings, but real friends never have such thoughts, and real friend feelings will always be there.

Clause. 3. Hypocrisy.

Wine and meat friends are particularly hypocritical, saying some nice but useless words, but real friends will always remind you that ** is not done well, although there is no flowery language, but it is really good for you.

As the name suggests, wine and meat friends are called brothers and sisters when they have food and drink, and they repeatedly shirk when they have difficulties, and they have nothing to eat and drink together.

A true friend is a confidant who wants to make a heart, treat your business as your own business, and help your friend when you need help in trouble.

Speaking of wine and meat friends and true friends, I remembered that my husband and I also discussed such issues.

Let's summarize each other's friends. Looking at our respective friends, you can see what the difference is between these two kinds of friends.

On the wine table, there are all kinds of drinking volumes, and everyone who knows which friend has a bad amount of alcohol will join forces to persuade them to drink. If you don't drink it, you will say that your feelings are not deep enough, and you will drink until the other party can't drink.

The more you drink, the happier you are, and the more you drink, the more you will blow all kinds of things.

If I hit ** and went to check the post and urged me to go home, I laughed at my husband, saying that my husband and wife were strict, and I finally came out to drink, and I couldn't have fun.

What I can't tolerate is that I still encourage the old girl to say goodbye...

When my husband is in difficulty, I don't dare to pick up one or two **, saying that I also have difficulties...

These are my husband's friends who drink and drink.

As for my friends, when I quarrel with my husband, they will stand up for me and help me scold my husband. After scolding, he would point out what I had done wrong, and then persuade me to cherish my family and live a good life.

When I need help, I don't say a word and do what I can to help...That's my true friend.

There are many people you meet in this life, no matter whether you make real friends or friends with wine and meat, it's good to be yourself, and you still have to treat the people around you well.

Wine and meat friends are also commonly known as drinking friends, everyone has nothing to do at the dinner table, drinking and drinking together, thinking that you are not bad, drinking with you, very happy, and then, just if you have nothing to do, we always look for you to come out to drink, come and go, we become friends.

A true friend is when you are in trouble, you don't have to say anything, he will come to you immediately, give everything he has to help you, he will not be the kind of person who hides far away when he sees you in difficulty, so people often say that wine and meat friends are not good, and they run away at critical moments, we must clearly know what kind of friends are around us, know which are the real friends, and which ones are worthy of our heart!

Friends are your own choice, friends can help your friends (real friends); Friends of fox friends (friends who cause you to go down the slope); Friends of wine and meat (friends who are purely eating, drinking, and having fun), etc. A true friend does not mean that you just need your friend's help, and your friend will help you, and when your friend needs you, you step aside, then you are not a real friend; As for fox friends, I think everyone understands, as long as you have been to school, you will know, there will always be good students and bad students in a class, I ask if there are really people who are willing to become bad students from the heart? Is anyone willing to befriend bad students?

There are various reasons for this, everyone's life is different, so there will be too many reasons, this is society!; What is a meat friend like? Generally, women rarely make friends with such people, and men will be more (personally, not with the facts), anyway, there are good and bad friends of wine and meat, the preference is just like everyone to eat, drink and have fun together, and the bad ones are ......(Think for yourself!)

Classmates may be the first person to meet in a person's life in addition to his brother (only these five items are talked about here), classmates should be the relationship with you can be said to be the first to happen, I believe that if you make friends with classmates you have a good relationship with them since you were in school, and you will definitely have contact after many years of not seeing each other (personal examples, not including all), classmates, I think it is for you to do your best when you encounter something. Classmates can be a little backing for you in the society in the future, and he may have some subtle changes in your life, but no matter how you change, as long as you are not the scum of society, then your life should be very good. Colleague is one of the indispensable conditions for you to enter the society, I believe that anyone who has worked will understand the importance of colleagues, because there are many things that are not easy to say, or rely on everyone to understand it themselves when they go to work in the future.

A colleague can also say that it is your backing, but I don't think it's 100% sure, so it's important to figure it out for yourself. Colleague, I think you are more dedicated to what you do when you encounter problems. As for how much they can do, it depends on how you usually get along with them!

Of course, wine and meat friends are not pure friendship, because wine and meat friends will gather around you to drink and chat when they have nothing to do. Like a friend, when something happens to you and you need their help. All kinds of excuses and excuses, and then stay away from you, such friends are not pure friendship at all.

It's just a fox friend and a dog friend. If you have such a friend around, I think you'd better stay away from him. There is no need to waste your feelings with these friends.

If you want to make friends, you can make friends with those who sincerely help each other, that is true friendship.

Wine and meat friends, you also said, can this kind of pure friendship be calculated? This kind of isn't even a friend at all, it's just some superficial brothers. It's nothing more than drinking and eating, maybe thinking of you, and then asking you out and asking you to pay, it's as simple as that.

Try it, if you ask your friends to borrow money, what will their reaction be, how many people will lend you, and you must find all kinds of reasons to alienate you. You may think that this is not friendship, we can often sit together, eat, drink and eat meat, isn't this a happy thing in life, isn't it like this, a big bowl of wine, eating meat, and having friends chatting next to it.

But didn't the ancients of time have a saying that the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water? I think the real real friend is the kind of person who may not have any connection with you, after all, everyone in this society is under a lot of pressure. You have your work and life, and he has his work and life, and you can't keep in touch all the time, or go to dinner together or something.

But when you meet such a friend, if you have any problems, you call him ** or send a message, you say that my brother has been short of money recently, you see if you can easily lend me some money to turn around. A true friend will never say a word, and he will find a way to call you whatever money he has on hand. Because he is your true friend, he will think in his heart that if you are in trouble, he will not help you, who will help you, and help you, and you will never ask when you will pay back.

will tell you, brother, you will take the money first, and when it is convenient for you, you will pay me back when it is convenient. I never talk to you about interest or anything like that. It will not be like those friends who drink and meat, always saying in front of outsiders how much they have helped you, asking you to be grateful, and so on.

This type of person who usually doesn't contact you and takes the initiative to help you when you need help can be called a true friendship and a real brother. You should make such friends, and those so-called friends of wine and meat are nothing more than persuading you not to drink at the winery, and if you don't drink, you won't give me face, what's the use of you coming to such a brother? He is a brother with you, just to eat and drink with you.

So this kind of wine and meat friend is not a friend.