Why do some girls marry outside? Which province has more girls married outside the province?

At the beginning of the development of the son of the Yuan University book (Wei Yingwu).

Is it better for a girl to marry a local or a foreigner?

Of course, it is good to be local, close to my mother's home, convenient to interact with my relatives and friends, and there is no need to change my life and eating habits.

But whether you marry a local or a foreigner, it is best to marry the right talent.

Let me tell you about my experience. I am married from other places, my mother's home is Hubei, and my mother-in-law's family is Henan, hundreds of kilometers apart.

It's been more than ten years, when I first arrived at my mother-in-law's house, it was winter, the weather was very cold, Henan was colder than Hubei, I went to buy a thick cotton jacket to them, I still wore such a thick jacket for the first time, and I wore a layer of winter with a layer, it felt like "wrapping zongzi".

In the first year of the New Year at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law Chinese New Year's Eve eat dumplings at noon, eat dumplings at night, eat dumplings early in the morning on the first day of the new year, let me eat three dumplings in a row, if I don't stop but also eat the fourth ......And there are only dumplings, nothing else. The mother-in-law said that they eat dumplings there for the New Year, and they don't know what to eat otherwise. My husband said that my mother-in-law's favorite thing is to eat dumplings, and this is indeed the case.

Actually, I don't hate dumplings that much, it's just that I really don't like the dumpling filling they do. After so many years, I still don't like that stuffing, and I have to eat it for a long time.

Wash and slice the green radish first, wring out the water of the radish with a thin cloth after cooking, and then chop it together with the meat, green onions, and ginger.

In the summer, my mother-in-law's favorite is cold cucumbers. When I first went, I was really not used to it, and most of us ate cucumbers in Hubei. And my mother-in-law only cooks one dish - cold cucumber, and I also lead the child and feed the ......, I really can't eat it.

This kind of dumplings and cold cucumbers in Henan really impressed me. However, I accepted the cold cucumber later, and I thought it was quite delicious, but my mother-in-law didn't mix it well.

In fact, these are all small things, I have been married for more than ten years, and there are many big and small things, and many things are not easy! I can't finish it for a while.

I have also endured a lot of hardships over the years, and I have come over after living a life. Isn't it born to endure hardship?

The two children were raised by their grandparents. But it doesn't matter, it's good to have someone to take it, the children are close to my grandparents, and my husband is good to my parents.

Life is not easy, but fortunately, the husband is considerate and the children are obedient.

Although the days are not rich and expensive, they don't have to worry about food and clothing, and it's true that they are plain! I am content!

It's best to marry someone you like.

Judging the quality of a marriage by geography is inherently very problematic, are you doing well? It has a lot to do with what you think in your own heart.

Not only Zhejiang, but also the entire core area of the Yangtze River Delta has a tradition of girls not marrying outside, such as Shanghai, Nanjing, Suzhou, Wuxi and other places. Although there are many people who marry to other places, the proportion is still relatively low.

Of course, paying attention to tradition is only one aspect, on the other hand, Zhejiang, as the province with the highest wealth index, has a developed economy, prosperous business, and rich people everywhere.

And to tell the truth, Zhejiang is because there are too many rich people, so it looks down on most of the other cities, and it is considered that the door is not the right household if it does not have a strong economic foundation.

For example, a blind date corner in Shanghai that is popular on Douyin is very realistic, an aunt gives her daughter a blind date, and a man says that he has six or seven suites, but the aunt says with disgust that he can't buy a bathroom in Shanghai with six or seven suites in a small place. As a result, the man said that the house was in Beijing, and the aunt immediately turned around and greeted him with a smile.

This aunt's reaction seems to be a despised behavior, but in fact, this is the status quo in the Yangtze River Delta. Zhejiang is not only rich, but also the average housing price in the province is higher than that of Jiangsu and Guangdong, in other words, there is a rich and stupid reputation and a house, no matter how bad it is, you can find an inverted door from the local area, why marry far away?

Of course, if your family conditions are superior, your own conditions are good, and you are from a big city, and the young couple has a deep relationship, then even the mother-in-law in Zhejiang is willing to marry the girl, because in this way the child will be happy and she will not lose face.

The reasons why Zhejiang girls rarely marry outside can be understood from the following aspects:

1.Geographical advantages: Zhejiang is a region with developed economy and beautiful environment.

It is located in the Yangtze River Delta region, which is well-known in the country, with superior natural geographical environment, four distinct seasons, pleasant climate and rich products, and is known as the "land of fish and rice". Zhejiang girls grew up in such a superior geographical environment and have a deep affection for their hometown, and most of them are reluctant to leave their hometown.

2.Personal psychological advantages: Girls who grew up in Zhejiang generally receive good family education and higher education. They have a strong sense of identity and love for Liangque's own hometown, and are reluctant to leave this land.

3.Advantages of wedding environment: Zhejiang has attracted a large number of outstanding talents from other places to come to develop, including outstanding men from other places.

In general, the reason why Zhejiang girls rarely marry outside is mainly due to factors such as geographical advantages, personal psychological advantages and marriage environment advantages.

Whether it is good for a woman to marry far away depends on herself, if you really love each other, you will definitely live well. After all, two people who really love each other will be happy no matter how they go, so they must believe in their love.

Of course, it is not good for girls to marry far away. Far away from friends, away from parents, away from relatives. How lonely it is.

Of course not. Girls who marry far away only know the sadness after they get married, and they will generally regret it, unless the economic conditions are particularly good and the in-laws are good to you

It should not be good for a girl to marry far away, it is inconvenient to go back to her parents' home, she can't see her parents for a long time, she misses her hometown, and she misses her relatives, which is very unfair to girls.

In fact, if a girl really marries love, it is a very good marriage, and it is based on love to marry love, whether it is a distant marriage or a close marriage, it is happy.

The key is to see how the man you marry far away, and how you two manage your married life after getting married, because after marrying far away from your parents, you need to deal with many things yourself, and it also depends on your own ability to deal with things.

Is it good for a girl to marry far away? For me, it's not good. Parents are not in sight. Will be worried.

It's all fate, and it's miserable to marry close to each other, what do you say?

I don't know who to talk to if I am wronged, I can only report good news and not bad news.

Hello, how do you say this, some are very happy and feel very good, and some are unhappy and feel bad, so it is good to see if the person in your family is good with the family.

I don't think it's good to be too far away, because I can't talk to my parents about any grievances or something.