Is it worth it to buy a house or give up love, because the house gives up feelings?

Updated on society 2024-06-21
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Life will be difficult in the future, and she also said that no matter how difficult and hard it will be in the future, she will follow me.

    This is very contradictory, I can't keep up with it now, but can I follow it in the future? If she really wants a house and no one, you can leave her, it's a clear thing, a man should be like this, give up everything for a career, wait for you to have a career, a house, a car, love, anything will be there, believe me! That kind of woman can't be.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can't buy a house like that You are still young and ambitious It is rare Are you still afraid that you will have money and no woman in the future After a few breakups, you will know what is the most important Don't be impulsive Make a wrong move and lose the whole game...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Looks like I'm much luckier than you! Hey, hi! I just bought a house and paid 200,000 yuan without a down payment, and I have to take a 15-year loan! Hi I have been a house slave for fifteen years

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    People always regret the past, always feel that the former lover is so good, so nostalgic, and even when he detects the hidden ruler or she betrays you, you still feel that it is a misunderstanding, he has his difficulties and helplessness, he loves you, and you are willing to believe in this defeat of the idea, and often regret it.

    For love, it is worth it to insist on absolute judgment.

    Give up your true love and you will regret it for the rest of your life.

    Let go and love.

    Nothing is absolute.

    Feelings are no exception.

    Time is the best way to prove things.

    Is love able to stand its test.

    It's actually about how deep each other's emotions are.

    Acknowledging that time dilutes a lot of things.

    But that doesn't mean it can make everything go away.

    Sometimes don't trust time.

    Don't blindly test love with time.

    If you use time to test your love.

    The result is regret.

    Don't let it be the protagonist of your life.

    Everything is in your own hands.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Women are always stupid when it comes to love, and I think you have to think about it. The shelf life of love is only a few years. You can guarantee that after you work hard with him in the future, he will be good to you after living a good life, and he will not have other thoughts...

    He doesn't have the ability to say that you are realistic, will naked marriage be happy in today's society? You should think about it, the above is my opinion, I hope it will help you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The house is just a shelter from the wind and rain, as long as the hearts of two people are firm, then don't care so much, you said that you are in a state of breakup now, it seems that the relationship is still not solid, the relationship can stand the test, and the rest is nothing! Have a good conversation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A house can make a woman feel secure, work first to earn money to support her family, stand firm, and do business, which is not something that ordinary people can do.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think I'm already in the stage of breaking up, so there's no need to keep going. Break up The next relationship may be better.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The house represents the material, it represents reality, and reality is always contradictory to ideals. As far as I see your situation, you can see if you can delay the marriage period again, after all, you are too young, only 22, and you still have a choice. He chose to surrender to reality, and you ......I can't see it, but I still think you should give up, you can't go against the sky.

    Persistence will let you know how stressful life throws you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    But I just want to think about whether a man who doesn't have a house to marry a wife is worth marrying, or these two words, it's not worth it We can understand the difficulties of our parents, but we have given in, and the mortgage house is not good, which is puzzling.

    Is the woman afraid of others laughing at the down payment, or is the mortgage pressure to repay the loan, or does she not want others to control herself?

    Either way, it shows a truth, this man is irresponsible in marriage issues, and he has no plan for whether he can bring you happiness after marriage.

    If you get married, you win.

    If you follow it, it's hard to be happy.

    I don't want to say my conclusions, but the idea is to be cautious.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If that's the case, the man can't accept it, I feel like I can't bear the pain and let it go, don't be too wronged by yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Do you have to ask for a room? There are ups and downs in doing business, and the key is to still do it.

    Now if you buy a house with a down payment, can you still invest and do business in such a dashing way?

    Give it a shot young! That's right!

    It's a pity to give up!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I won't say anything about it first, I strongly recommend that you go to see the couple who bought the house, and you will understand. Of course, I still don't think it's worth it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I just want to say, day, dynasty house price, hehe、、、

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The love that chills your heart should be given up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He gives you more pain than pleasure.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love is a floating cloud, always floating, coming and going freely, unpredictable, one will dress the sky up gorgeous, the sky is clear, and the other will be dark clouds pressing the city, wind and rain full of buildings. When the sky is clear, there are few clouds, and people see the brightness of the clouds, but when the sky is cloudy, there are many clouds, and people see the dimness of the clouds. There are always many clouds floating in the sky, very brilliant and beautiful, dazzling and dizzying, but only one of them is truly yours.

    But the sky is not always clear and cloudless. When the clouds of love begin to change their color, that's when the weather and mood change. Whether you have a cold or a relaxed heart depends on whether you can understand and grasp it.

    Even if you can't feel me, love makes me still love you.

    I asked if there was a stop sign for love, I asked when the encounter would come, and was there any clue to guess? Maybe there are no princesses in fairy tales, and perfection is just an extravagant thought. `

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you can't go to university, you don't have to have a future. Now there are so many specialties. It's good to study a major. After learning well, you will still be productive.

    First of all, the boy has to give the girl hope for the future. If it's me, I'm going to see how the boy performs.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Some people say that money is a good thing, it can make you full of confidence, and it can make you full of self-confidence. When a person's pocket is empty, he will panic, you must know that in today's society, it is difficult to move an inch without money, although money is not everything, but without money, what do you take to live, what do you take to pursue your love?

    When you have money, you can buy a house, and with a house you feel at home. If a man doesn't even have a room, how many women are willing to follow him to suffer, maybe when they are in love, women don't care; But if you really want to talk about marriage, I think many women will hesitate: whether to marry him or not.

    I remember when we first graduated, we went to look for jobs in the sun, and I thought that many of us would rent a house, and even if the wages were low, many of us would have a beautiful ideal: I hope that one day we can have a house of our own in the city, because there is no sense of belonging when renting. Although buying a house can be stressful, there are still many people who are desperate to buy a house, because with a house, there is a sense of security, although the price of buying a house is too great, I think the vast majority of people are willing to pay.

    My boyfriend and I are from a small county town in the fourth or fifth tier, when we graduated from university, we stayed in Wuhan to work for the common ideal, working for these years, although the salary has risen by two times, but with the income of both of us, we still can't afford to buy a house in Wuhan.

    Thinking about the past 5 years with my boyfriend, in order to buy a house, we have been frugal, but the house price is rising day by day, but our deposit speed is getting slower and slower, I realize that the dream of buying a house is getting farther and farther away from us.

    In a blink of an eye, my boyfriend was 32 years old, and his family urged us to get married, but my boyfriend's hometown was in the countryside, and his parents were honest and farmers. When we get married in the future, his parents will not only be unable to help us, but will become a burden to us, because my boyfriend's parents need to spend 30,000 or 40,000 yuan a year to see a doctor.

    Now that my boyfriend is proposing to me, I hesitated, I have been waiting for too long at this moment, but it is really time to get married, I am cowardly. Because marriage is a lifelong event, you can not care about anything when you are in love, but if you are really going to get married, you have more problems to consider, and it is often more realistic than opening your eyes to hail and cherry.

    I asked my boyfriend to buy a house, and my boyfriend said that he didn't have the strength, and said that he wanted to leave some money for his parents to treat their illness, in short, the money should not be spent indiscriminately, and said that we would rent a house and get married.

    I love my boyfriend very much, if renting is just a transitional period, I can accept it, but from my boyfriend's mouth, I can see that he doesn't want to buy a house at all, does he plan to rent a house for the rest of his life? In my opinion, renting a house has never felt like a home, and it is always like a wanderer.

    My boyfriend keeps saying that he loves me, but he can't even give me the most basic sense of security, this kind of love is too hypocritical and too cheap.

    I cried and roared: you can't even afford a house, what will you love me in the future? Don't talk to me about love, love can't be eaten. I just want a home, a house that is completely my own, since you can't give it to me, I'm sorry, let's break up.

    Many women feel that having a house can lead to a sense of belonging and a sense of security, and we can understand that women are not always too materialistic, and no one wants to live a bumpy and tearful life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This concept of love is very incorrect, love should not always be some material conditions, it should be more pure, which is more conducive to the development of feelings.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In this regard, I think love should not be built on the basis of buying a house, and your love is also very pure, and your three views are also very inappropriate, I hope you can be cautious about your Shen Burning Dou feelings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I feel that such a phenomenon is a special reality, and the woman is also very real, why do you make things difficult for the other party, it's too bad.

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