I m 171, my boyfriend is only 169, and I m afraid he ll think I m 5 taller

Updated on psychology 2024-06-21
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    He wears inner height, you wear flats! It's easy! He can't even overcome this, he doesn't deserve to be liked by you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It doesn't exist, as long as he has self-confidence and you pay attention.

    I'm 166 and my boyfriend is only 165, haha, half-crippled among men!

    Originally, the girl looked tall, and his own height was about the same as mine, so it looked like I was taller than him.

    But we don't care, my boyfriend often asks me to buy high heels, saying that girls look good in high heels.

    I said, aren't you just on my shoulder?

    He said he didn't care. The first sentence that many people see is why your girlfriend is taller than you!

    He laughed and said that he was charismatic and temperamental.

    I often joked and put my hand on his shoulder and said I protected him. Nothing.

    I'm not happy yet!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Even boys will have a little inferiority! But as long as you don't wear high heels when you go out with him in the future, and don't say that he's short! You should also observe him from time to time, and if he has such a mentality, you should comfort him, don't get angry with him, and communicate well.

    This should be half the problem, and the other half is up to you! I wish you happiness and joy!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, it's like a friend of mine 167, but his girlfriends are all models of height, I think as long as two people really love each other, what is the problem of being tall or short? It's all trivial, don't care.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In the future, try to wear less high-heeled ones when going out. Don't keep him in your mouth, then he won't care too much.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    What's wrong with this, there is a man whose wife is 1.8 meters and he is less than 1.7 meters.

    I just got married two days ago.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, first of all I would like to say that I am short, only meters tall, but I am confident that I can live a normal life.

    When you ask these questions, you can feel that you have low self-esteem and are very sensitive to height, and you are afraid of the strange eyes of others when you go out on the street together. Because of the big gap, you used to work hard and wear high heels to help, but it was really uncomfortable to hear a lot of gossip, and you were very unconfident with your boyfriend. That's why you don't dare to go out on a date.

    Your question is to find the same patient you think, you think that those who are high and low can divert your pain, in fact, the most important thing is yourself, don't bother others, I will give you some small advice.

    1. "Do you love your boyfriend"You close your glasses seriously for 30 seconds and think about it, do you like that tall boyfriend? What does he like about him, does he love you?

    If you really love your boyfriend, as your boyfriend said, height is not an issue. If you think it's a problem, look at the second point.

    2."Is it your boyfriend chasing you or you chasing your boyfriend"。This is an important question.

    If your boyfriend chases you, it proves that he really loves you, because you are the type that your boyfriend likes, and you are the best in his eyes, and you really don't care about height. In fact, there are relatively few people in China, and there are not many people in China, but it is actually very common in foreign countries, and there is nothing big about it, you can't accept it"The boyfriend is dragging his daughter out on the street"The taste. Off-topic, the world's largest height gap between couples, in the United States, the woman's name is Stacy Herald, her height is only meters, the man's height is meters, the difference is more than one meter, they love each other very much, and the woman also braved death threats (doctors said that pregnancy will die) miraculously gave birth to 2 daughters.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do you care about your height? Do you think height will be a barrier between you? You feel like you can't accept the distress that height brings you, it's because you want to show a perfect self in front of your boyfriend, right?!

    If you still feel uncomfortable, you can make up for this so-called deficiency on the other hand, hehe, as long as the relationship between the two people is good, everything is floating clouds, I wish you and your boyfriend happiness forever.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Height is not a distance, age is not a problem, as long as you love each other deeply, be confident, and face it bravely! Don't miss out on the opportunity and regret it!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This problem is more serious, if you love him, but you are afraid to be together, then I think you may eventually break up, because love and marriage are two different things, saying a word may hit you, and the man's family should not agree to be two people with too big a height difference. Although height is not a distance, age is not a problem, but that is for the perspective of short men and tall women. Don't fret.

    If two people have a good relationship, they don't care what others think.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, two people together to seek mutual love, if the two of you together can be considerate of each other, then what kind of relationship does the rise have, in fact, we live in the world for spiritual satisfaction and love for the world, to find a partner in the world that completely satisfies you, it is almost impossible, if you are asked to choose a friend who is close to you in height but has a very general relationship or a friend who cares about you very much but has a little difference in elevation, how will you choose?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. Break up as soon as possible.

    2. Love deeply.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think it's anything, it's not good for two people who are too tall to be together, 1.7 meters and 1.9 meters to give birth to a boy may be two meters, and it's scary enough to give birth to a girl of 1.8 meters, it's too high to affect normal life, so it's just right to neutralize it, you also know that it's for others to see, and you don't feel pain, what do you care about so much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Height is not distance, the important thing is that you are close.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Height is not distance, your child is just the height of the two of you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't worry about height, it's actually good to think about it, and you don't have to worry about the height of the next generation, and it's quite safe to be with him. There is a feeling of a bird depending on the person

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Men are tall is an advantage, don't be short-sighted!!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Low self-esteem? There's no need, my buddy and his wife are also low, but we all say that he abducted him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. It's a good thing that a blind date has requirements for each other, and if you don't ask for it, you will pick and choose when you get to the scene, your requirements are not high, and 162 requires the other party to be 180 tall.

    Is there something wrong with this man, isn't it normal for me to want to find a boyfriend of 170 at 162, is it very demanding. One will say that I am short, and the other will say that the long and tall life is short and not long, I am really going to be angry.

    It's a good thing that a blind date has requirements for each other, and if you don't ask for it, you will pick and choose when you get to the scene, your requirements are not high, and 162 requires the other party to be 180 tall.

    Affection is something you want me to do, and of course it's for the sake of finding that one.

    Many people on the Internet just want to vent their unhappiness, find other people's faults, and engage in verbal violence, so don't care too much.

    Good luck.

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