broke up, I can t let go of him, what should I do

Updated on psychology 2024-06-11
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Be a strong woman! When the other party doesn't love you, no matter what you do, it's futile and will only increase his disgust with you So, try to hold back your thoughts, don't think that blind and silent giving and waiting will have anything in return The current society is realistic So you have to recognize the status quo, since you don't love it, at least you have to save your dignity, without you, I live well! Come on!

    True love will appear!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Time, time is the best painkiller.

    There is no one in this world who is sorry for anyone, only who does not cherish whom.

    Why did you break up with him when you liked him so much?

    It must be that he has something to be sorry for you and exceeds your bottom line.

    The issue of principle is important, at least we have to be worthy of ourselves.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you feel irretrievable, please let go as soon as possible. This is good for everyone, don't waste time on the irretrievable past, time can change everything, with the change of time, those will be the same as the past gradually faded, after a few years you will find that those who can't pass in the past will become the past, are memories.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm gone fool, take good care of yourself, remember to eat on time, sleep on time, don't stay up late, although you are very busy and tired, but you have to learn to take care of yourself You are a very strong person and a very independent person, but you also have a vulnerable side and an unbearable side, I am very happy to meet you, you know, from the moment I met you, I am willing to believe in a love, I will not touch love again in the future, I don't want to be hurt I am really bruised, I don't want to cry secretly at night alone, This time it will definitely be difficult again, I will try to forget you, promise me that I will be happy in the future, I don't want to see the person I like to love sad and unhappy, you must be happy, find someone who loves you, don't look for me like this cranky thinking about sticking to you every day, and finally say again I love you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    To quote the title of Amu's song---There is a kind of love called letting go".

    Time can dilute everything Maybe the love that belongs to you hasn't really arrived yet.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Once in love, how can it be said that they hate? No matter how deeply you hurt, hatred is only for a while, not for a lifetime. And if you want to let go of a relationship, how can you just let it go so lightly?

    Unless you don't have the slightest investment in that relationship, you can pull out. If you want to let go of him, you can only use time to slowly dilute the memories of this relationship. Believe that you can let go of him, then enrich yourself in life and live happily.

    The love that once fell in love will always be buried in the bottom of my heart. When you meet him one year, it's just that you just have an impression of this person, because you've been with each other

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Answer hello, 1, calm down for a few days and try to think clearly, whether you really love each other, or just unwilling. Then analyze the root cause of the breakup between two people, whether it is caused by the disagreement of the three views, or because of some small things that cause misunderstandings. If it is caused by a misunderstanding, then you can try to make amends, but not too forcefully.

    I worked hard, but I couldn't get it back, so I didn't regret it, and I completely gave up. 2. Move away from the city where the two of you are or go out for a good trip, you are scattered, away from the whirlpool of this relationship, when you are farther and farther away from the traces of this relationship, maybe you will be able to see a lot of things clearly, and you will figure it out inadvertently, you will find that even without each other, you can still live well, you can still live freely. Go outside and see different scenery, and you will be able to adjust your depressed mood.

    3. Find yourself a new and upgraded overall goal A person's vitality is relatively limited, if you concentrate on another actual situation, you will naturally succeed in solving the pain of falling out of love. It takes a certain amount of perseverance to do this step well, because it is difficult to start with, and at this time you need to get rid of the unsuccessful upgrade and the trouble of the groove cake mentality. But when you're at your best, you'll find that your daily life is still exciting, and there are many unknown industries that are worth your challenge, especially if you learn from them, and your psychology may be greatly considered.

    4. Don't entangle and don't botherIf you have broken up, don't entangle and don't bother. All the pestering and interruption will not bring back any good possibility, it will only make the other person more bored with you. You can think about what to eat at noon, think about your cat, think about your idol, chase a drama, watch a movie, and call ** to ...... to a good friendThere are so many options.

    5. Give yourself a vacation, feel the poetry and distant life not only in front of you, but also poetry and distance. If you encounter something you don't want to face or something unhappy happens, go out for a walk, and the whole person will really be different, the mood will be different, the view will be different, and the whole person will be refreshed.

    Question: We've been separated for a long time, and I wonder if he still likes me.

    Ask questions, but I can't put them down.

    The answer is clear, that is, you still have him in your heart, if you are single, he is also single, you can boldly go to him and start over, right?If you already have a boyfriend now, you have to let it go if you can't let it go, otherwise it will be you who suffers.

    I haven't had a boyfriend since I broke up with him, but after he and I broke up, he had a new girlfriend after 2 and a half months, and it seems that they have only been talking for less than 2 weeks, and I just want to know if he still likes me.

    Ask why he didn't get back together with meAt first, he also liked me to chase me, since he was such a cheerful person, why didn't he come to me.

    Question: Yes, I asked it, and I've asked it many times [tears], but this time.

    Asked a question, and he also had a sneak look at my dynamics, would he still like me, I didn't dare to find a reunion, because I was afraid of embarrassment in a class.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer.

    For the sake of the person you love, please make some sacrifices and keep your love, otherwise how can you talk about true love.

    You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart.

    Ask yourself, do you love so much?

    Are you willing to hurt both.

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when you are tired.

    Life is not a good life for one person.

    It's how two people live well together.

    But for some objective reasons, in reality, you can't be together at the moment, are you just giving up so easily, and you are compromised?

    Can't you keep it for love?

    Do you allow yourself to be so short-sighted and only see the happiness in front of you?

    Is this the end of my life?

    If it is true love, it will never give up

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If he or she asks us to break up, it's superfluous to ask anything.

    Maybe we can't let everything go so easily, but we can at least keep some dignity for ourselves!So if he or she proposes to break up with you, don't ask so much why, don't expect anything to be redeemed, know that it is impossible, breaking up does not mean that happiness and happiness are far away from you, maybe the next stop is really your happiness and happiness!Don't think that you have failed, not knowing how to cherish you is his (her) biggest loss!

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