Why do many mothers in law want their sons to find a girlfriend like them?

Many mothers-in-law have very high requirements for these sons and girlfriends, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has also been a major problem since ancient times. Many people may not know how to solve such a problem, and we will find that there are many mothers-in-law who want their sons to find a girlfriend like themselves. Even though they may have such an idea, it is mainly because they feel that they want their son's girlfriend to be taken care of as well as they are, and he gives her enough love.

But we can't rule out that some mothers-in-law, they may not be like this, fully respect the freedom of their own children, and there are many such parents. But about why many mothers-in-law want their sons to find a girlfriend like themselves is. It's not a question that can't be understoodBecause all parents hope that their children will find someone who knows how to care for others more.

And many of us don't realize that both the parents of the man and the woman actually hope to find someone who can love their children like themselves.

Therefore, parents hope that their children will find someone like themselves, not that they are exactly like themselves. Rather, I am eager to see such an expression of love in a relationship that can give my children more of this kind of care. I don't want them to really find a girlfriend like their ancestors, but I hope that I can fully participate in the process of finding a girlfriend like him, and then give him enough opinions, which is also the original intention.

But everything can not be rushed to a certain degree, but we must respect each other, the opinions of both parties in such a relationship, can not just rely on one of their own opinions, to decide whether they are in the future life. Therefore, we must also fully understand that one of their parents' ideas cannot be completely based on their opinions, and we must also learn to respect them.

In this way, two people will get along more harmoniously, which is good for the stability of the family, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will rise to a higher level, and they will be more affinity with themselves.

Because finding a girlfriend for your son who is like you is feeling that you will take care of your son. Find someone like yourself, and then you can take care of your son like yourself.

Because the mother has deep feelings for her son, and the daughter-in-law will snatch his son, it is undoubtedly more comfortable to marry someone like herself anyway.

Because as a mother, they must have a lot of love for their son and take good care of their son, so they feel that if their son can find a girlfriend like him, he will be very happy.

Because I feel that letting my son find a girlfriend who is like his own personality can take better care of his son, and there will be fewer conflicts with him, so that the family will be more harmonious.

Because mother-in-law always thinks that she is the one who knows how to run the house the most, and she can feel the most sorry for her son, there are really too many mothers-in-law who want their son to find a girlfriend like herself.

Because people can't see their own shortcomings, most mothers-in-law feel that they are very good and want their sons to find such a girlfriend.

No, my mother-in-law will always feel that other people's girls are not worthy of their sons, and their own sons are the best.

Most mothers-in-law will, after all, they love the house and Wu, she loves you as much as she loves her son, and you are good for your son.

Yes, people will have feelings after being together for a long time. After all, she loves her son, and for her son's girlfriend, she will also love Wu and Wu.

Yes, because my mother-in-law herself has been a daughter-in-law and a person who has experienced getting along with her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. She is satisfied with your words, and hopes that you and her son will have a good and happy life in the future, and will let you treat you well.

No, it's hard to have a mother-in-law who really loves her son's girlfriend, unless she was born with a fancy for this little girl, and then they happened to be dating.

No, because the two are not related by blood at all, and the mother-in-law is good to herself, she just hopes that she can be kind to her son.

Yes, my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for three years, I have met my parents, my mother-in-law is a very reasonable person, and I will bring me anything delicious at home.

No, if the mother-in-law really loves her son's girlfriend, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem will not become a big family problem since ancient times.

Yes, being really good to you is actually good to your son, and the two of you are happy and happy, and her final wish will be fulfilled.

No, only two people with high emotional intelligence can be very harmonious together, and the most important thing in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to learn to give in in order to get along harmoniously.

This question is not absolute, it varies from person to person. Although it is said that "mother-in-law is not a mother", it does not mean that mother-in-law really can't treat her son's girlfriend as a daughter, and when you treat them sincerely, there is also the possibility of getting something in return.

Take my mother-in-law as an example, when I was in love with my boyfriend, he often said that his mother was very good, and hoped that I could treat her well, I was still a little unconvinced, and then after a period of contact, I found that his mother was really good to me, and I could also feel the kindness of her old man. However, I am still a little worried in my heart, afraid that these are superficial, and I am afraid that I will show my original shape after a long time.

After all, it is a distant marriage, and after marriage, I treat her like I did to my mother, although there are some small frictions between the two of us in life, but it will not affect the relationship between the two of us at all. She said that it was not easy for me to marry far away, and that she was so good to her son that she would treat me like an adopted daughter, and of course she did, and I was very pleased that I now have two mothers who love me.

There is also another kind of mother-in-law, who really can't treat their son's girlfriend sincerely. This is also very understandable, since ancient times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been natural enemies, after all, they have only lived together halfway, they don't understand each other, they don't lose their temper, they may be very peaceful on the surface at the beginning, but with increasing contact, their respective shortcomings are exposed. It's very good to get by on the surface, and some even have cold eyebrows.

In such a situation, neither mother-in-law nor daughter-in-law can give sincerely.

In general, I think it's not that the mother-in-law can't really treat her son's girlfriend, it may be that we are not good enough as younger generations, and everyone wants family harmony, but because of all kinds of incomprehension, the two people are opposed. Of course, it is not excluded that some mothers-in-law have their own reasons, it is difficult for them to accept that a strange girl breaks into her home that she has worked hard for decades, and then snatches her son, looking at the love between the two people, I can't help but feel jealous in my heart, how can a mother-in-law with this kind of thinking really treat her girlfriend who loves her son.