What are some things you must not say when chatting with friends?

Don't speak ill of others. If you speak ill of others today, you will get into a lawsuit tomorrow. Some people especially like to talk bad about people behind their backs, today they tell Xiao Wang how bad and bad Xiao Song is, and tomorrow they tell Xiao Song how Xiao Wang is un......reliable

Don't mention the other person's unbearable past. Everyone has a past, especially some unbearable pasts, which are unspeakable hurts and unspeakable history. When you're chatting with someone, don't open a pot without mentioning it, curiosity kills people, and that's not bad at all.

Don't show off your skills. When chatting with friends, you don't need to deliberately highlight your abilities and make them feel inferior to you in every way. A wise person will hide his edge, be a humble and polite person, and praise each other at the right time, which is not vanity, but a skill in getting along with others.

Only stupid people will show off themselves and belittle each other.

Bad words about mutual friends, because you don't know the good or bad of their relationship, so don't gossip casually in order not to centrifuge; In terms of emotional problems, you are complaining for a while, and your friends are not helping you, and the object is not helping you; Friend's family situation. Don't ask around, no matter what the situation.

When chatting with a friend, if you don't have a special relationship, don't say bad things to anyone, because you don't know what day it will be passed on to others.

It should be that you can't say things that hurt the other person's self-esteem, or if you laugh at the other person, and you can't say bad things about others in front of your friends. It's easy to ruin the relationship between two people.

Never loud. Confucius told a story. There was a general named Meng Zhiyan in the Lu State, and when the army was defeated, he took the initiative to lead his subordinates to resist the pursuit of the enemy.

It is believed that communication between people requires mutual respect, and it is necessary to understand each other's interests and hobbies in order to find an entry point, and it will also make people have a good relationship. In the process of conversation, people need to master some small skills of conversation, through which they can also make their language full of charm and make themselves popular. The need to keep smiling in the process of chatting with people without being able to convey a negative attitude, and the need to convey positive energy to people is also a daily etiquette.

Smiling should be with every moment of people's lives, so that they can feel more happy, not always bothered by too many things, and at the same time make people feel very close to people. Whether it is to their relatives or friends, people should face it with a positive attitude, and should not let the other party be affected by their negative attitude, otherwise it will make the other party feel bored, and there will also be resistance, which is not conducive to friendly communication. <>

In the process of chatting, people should not be self-centered, but should consider each other's interests and hobbies, which can also make the communication between the two parties more pleasant, and at the same time, it can also make the other party feel happy, and they will become more relaxed. People should grasp the size, and they can't ask some questions related to privacy, otherwise it will make others feel uncomfortable, and it is not conducive to gaining the favor of the other party, which will greatly reduce their impression. People should always grasp the sense of distance, and they should not be unscrupulous in front of familiar people.

Everyone wants to be recognized by others, and in the process of conversation, you can give some affirmation to the other person's point of view, which will also make the other party more recognized by themselves, and at the same time, the other party will be willing to be close to themselves. This does not mean that you need to be courteous to the other party, you can praise some of the other party's shining points, too attentive, will make the other party feel very fake, and will also make the other party have a bad impression. If you don't understand something, you should ask in time, and you can't pretend to understand it, otherwise you will seem to have no knowledge.

The skill of communication is to talk to each other attentively when communicating, to pay attention to the feedback of information during communication, to pay attention to remote communication, and to compare hearts to hearts.

When chatting with someone, you must look into the eyes of the other party, have a sincere attitude, speak gently, don't talk too much about other people's privacy, when the other party doesn't want to listen to you, don't be a mother-in-law, you should pause before speaking, think about whether what you say will make others uncomfortable, smile when you speak, and control your bad little actions.

You can share your daily life with each other, you can talk to your friends about the things you like, talk about the places you like to go, talk about your dreams, and talk in a humorous way.

Friendship is such a strange thing, it brings infinite support and strength, but sometimes it becomes a fatal wound in life.

Everyone needs friends, which means that everyone has a weak side. Friends are not like lovers, it brings you innocence and happiness, and a force to be reckoned with, but love often makes people confused, like falling into the abyss, terrible and helpless! There are no absolutes!

Love is not useless, just like friendship can also be used like that.

Some people say that friends are just using each other. But there are also people who say:

A friend is everywhere, and he or she will always live by your side. In fact, if you think about it seriously, you have some inseparable friends around you, and you have some unforgettable memories, and in the memories, you will find that the most memorable thing for you is the moment when friendship is long-lived. You won't be lonely, you will always have your own confidant in your life, but you haven't met it for a while, or it's right by your side.

Friends will comfort you when you are lost, give you courage when you are depressed, and share with you silently when you are happy. Don't burden yourself, don't let yourself stop. Friendship is also something that needs to be grasped, and it is not something that awaits you forever.

Let go of yourself, don't hide, throw out all your emotions, the power of friendship will let you go. Hear no, when your life is in danger, who is calling you again and again, your throat is hoarse, but there is no intention of stopping. Seeing no, who is for you, who does not hesitate to go against the will of your family and insist on being with you.

Don't forget, he or she is all for you as a friend! Crying, tears can't stop flowing, have you ever thought about who helped you wipe your tears, who is distressed for you? Friendship is greater than the power of love, don't take advantage of friendship, that's everyone's sincere dedication!

When you cheat on your best friend and betray him/her, you will eventually regret it. Because when you lose it, you find out that he (she) has taken care of you desperately, not only in love, but also in family ......

Friendship may not be strong enough in a person's heart, and family affection is not great enough, but friendship can make people not lonely all the time. Haven't you found out yet? You like the rain, but your friend doesn't like it, but he (she) accompanies you, for the sake of friendship, do something you don't like, to accommodate, to love, to cherish, to work hard, this is also the existence of friendship......

Don't take a person's sincere dedication for granted, no one is obligated to take care of you and love you, only cherished people will do so. Don't try to disappoint their hearts, it will create an unforgivable situation. I've been hurt, I've cried, I've missed, I've loved, I've laughed, but have you ever thought about who is always by your side!

Everything is just waiting for you to discover, to feel ......

Answering the ancients, there are three words, and it is better to say it skillfully. I think that what can be said and what cannot be said needs to be decided according to the context in which it is spoken. Say more words of praise, less words of hurt, more words of encouragement, less words of blows, more words of comfort, and less words of falling stones.

In short, to speak, to achieve your purpose, so that the person listening to your words can accept, understand, accept. So you're not talking in vain.

Before you speak, think about it, if you are someone else, how will you react when you hear those jobs, and that's it

I think everyone should have their own personal space, and not everything has to be shared.

There are many things that can be said, but some things are better not to be said.

Everyone has a little bit of privacy.