My ex girlfriend and my friend were together, and they came over to tell me what kind of mentality t

Updated on psychology 2024-06-25
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's a very painful experience for an ex-girlfriend to be with a friend. But if you don't love her anymore, you don't feel anything. <>

    An ex-girlfriend is someone who used to love you before, you used to be happy when you were together, and you went out to eat and go shopping together. Celebrate your anniversary together, because she made a wish to be with you all the time because he put on his birthday hat. Once, every bit was very happy.

    But when you break up, there must be a chasm that cannot be bridged. Maybe you're going to have a big fight, maybe you're going to fight, and all that good is in the past. I don't love her anymore and I don't have feelings for her.

    Therefore, you broke up peacefully.

    Let this girl be with your friend. Originally, you don't have feelings for him anymore, and it won't affect you if he looks for anyone, but he is with your friends. I would like to tell you what kind of state of mind this is?

    It's a kind of disgusting even though I'm not with you anymore.

    Maybe he still has an obsession with you, maybe she is still unwilling to you, but you don't have feelings for her anymore, she just wants your heart to move for her again. Maybe she doesn't love your friend. She's with her boyfriend just to get your attention, she's angry, she's unwilling, she's trying to keep you.

    If it weren't for this idea, she might have thought something else. He may have come to show off that he can find someone better after separating from you. It could also be that trying to disgust you makes you feel like you're inferior to your friend.

    He wants to be with your friends, dangling around you, and upsetting your eyes, if that's the case, then it's really not worth it for you to be together in the first place.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't know if you dumped your ex-girlfriend or your ex-girlfriend dumped you, in short, there is no need to worry about this kind of girlfriend with your friends, and your friends are not good goods.

    If you dump your girlfriend, then your girlfriend's psychology of doing this is somewhat revengeful, roughly, if you don't want me, I'll get along with your friends, making you look uncomfortable, the old lady is a sought-after goods, etc., you can divide this kind of person right, this kind of deformed psychology in the face of love, and more problems will break out later, and it is right to separate early.

    If it's your money girlfriend who dumped you, then it was premeditated with your friend in front of you, and being with you may be to get close to your friend and then get your friend, and then come and tell you that you are just a spare tire.

    Either way, all you have to do is cut off the relationship with them completely, and this kind of friend who gets along with a friend's ex-girlfriend is not a good person.

    If you're upset, tell your friends about a certain physical feature of your ex-girlfriend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You might want to hear how you feel about the two of them together, or if there's anything else you'd like to express to them.

    I've encountered such a situation before, and it's quite bloody. The boy I liked very much before was with a friend who was very good before. I remember when I liked that boy very much, that good friend was like my mother, and persuaded me to stop liking him, that boy **** is not good, I don't like how his peaceful personality is.

    At that time, his bitter heart seemed to be still in his ears, and not long after he went to college, his former good friend added WeChat to tell me that the two of them were together. I had mixed feelings. But it's not that I can't accept it.

    I broke up with him, and I didn't feel like I had any say in things that had nothing to do with me.

    She also asked me if I could accept it. Although my heart was in response for a while. But it's really none of my business.

    In the same way, your ex-girlfriend is with your friend, and the relationship with you is not very big, although one is an ex-girlfriend and the other is a friend, but this is a matter between the two of them, they will also ask your opinion, explain that they still care about your opinion, then you should be a friend. It's nothing, the ex-girlfriend is in the past tense and has gone.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Probably telling you that you were green very early.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Are you being dug into the corner of the wall, don't you know?

    Prove that she's still quite popular, and she has to be down in front of you?

    Or are you deliberately angry with you?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, I hope to get your blessing!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should be a "clean" and perfectionist. But you have to know that in this society, sex is not as conservative as it used to be, so you have to accept your girlfriend's previous behavior. Of course, if you can't accept it, just divide it, so as not to treat both of you badly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If it were my ex-girlfriend, I would be a little bit.

    You have to solve this problem by yourself, and your mentality is very important. No matter who you are, you will be unhappy and sad when you encounter such a problem. No matter what your feelings are for your ex-girlfriend now, if you love or not, you will let go of your feelings or not, because after all, you have loved each other, and when you see them together, your heart will definitely make waves again.

    In other words, anyone in the ex-girlfriend world can do it, but with his friends, he will be jealous, scratch his heart, and be angry.

    In fact, it is not necessary, everyone has the right to find their own happiness, and everyone can be with whom, that is a natural thing. If you still think about your ex-girlfriend's goodness, then silently bless her, and wish your ex-girlfriend will always be very happy, this is enough, be generous, after all, they are not secretly good when you are in love, it is after the ex-girlfriend announces that she is single, people belong to a normal relationship, so you don't have to be so entangled, calm down, and really hope that they are happy.

    It's all ex-girlfriends, and she has the right to choose who she is with. But it's awkward to be with your best friend. Two people who break up are like two parallel lines that don't want to cross paths anymore.

    But with my good friends, I have to get along day and night every day. Looking at the people who used to be close to you, now snuggled in someone else's arms.

    To self-suggest that she is already in her past tense, that she belongs to someone else, that she no longer belongs to herself. You have to be brave enough to admit this and face it calmly. No matter why you broke up in the first place, whether you are still unwilling and wronged in your heart, you have to admit that you have broken up.

    Don't dwell on the troubles of the past, after all, life still has to look forward, everyone has their own way to go, and no one can really accompany anyone for a lifetime. Learn to bless them. Now that you've broken up, it doesn't matter who she chooses to be with herself, so the best way is to bless them generously.

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