Should I tell my parents about an unplanned pregnancy?

Updated on society 2024-06-25
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Be sure to tell your parents. Unplanned pregnancy is not a trivial matter, and it can be divided into many situations. If you are ready to marry your boyfriend, then you can raise the baby with peace of mind and give birth to the child.

    There is also a situation that you are not ready to marry your boyfriend, so the child must not be born, which is facing the need to go to the hospital to do **. <>

    Although it is a very normal phenomenon, it cannot guarantee 100% safety. If you go for this ** surgery.

    You didn't tell your parents, so if something happens during the operation, who will bear the consequences? If you have another operation, the doctor tells you that you may be infertile for the rest of your life.

    This? More seriously, what if your life ended on the operating table? What about your parents?

    So, no matter how worried and scared your parents are of knowing about it, you have to tell your parents. We are all the hearts of our parents, even if they know about it, they just beat us and scold us, it will only be because they love us so much, so they are responsible.

    My friend was unexpectedly pregnant, and she went with her boyfriend to tell her parents. When her parents encounter this kind of thing, they will definitely not let her boyfriend go, of course, they beat and scolded. But no matter how angry they were, in the end, her parents found a lot of acquaintances and consulted a lot of doctors.

    Under the condition of ensuring the safety of my daughter, I accompanied my friend into the ** operating room. Parents know that they are angry, but they will still focus on their daughters. At least the moment you go into the operating room, your parents have to be informed, it's their right.

    Girls, the most important thing is to be responsible for themselves, and even more importantly, for their own bodies. Don't do things that are sorry for yourself, and don't destroy your body at will. Our bodies are all given by our parents, and we must have the consent of our parents before doing anything.

    It's all grown up, so don't let your parents worry about it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Of course, you should tell your parents, what is the use of telling others?

    First, as an unmarried woman, once you find out that you are pregnant, you must inform your parents in time, in this world, there is no one closer to you than your parents, you have such a big thing and you don't tell your parents who do you tell to go? Who can really help you in such a matter? will dislike you.

    Some people say that after telling their parents, they won't be scolded, so why bother? I want to say that if you think so, you are wrong, as your parents, they scold you for your own good, they only scold you because they hate iron, and they don't mean anything else, so don't use your parents as an excuse to scold you. It doesn't matter how old you are now, in the eyes of your parents, you will always be just a child who has not grown up.

    Second, after all, your parents are from the past, anyway, there is some common sense about this aspect, so when you are unexpectedly pregnant, you must tell your parents, let them help you, will help you think about what to do next, your parents will try their best to consider for you, think more for you, if you reach the age of marriage, you might as well see if you can get married, marriage is the best choice, but if your age is young, then you had better go to a regular hospital with your parents to get the child out. But be sure to tell your parents anyway and let your parents know.

    Third, when you have any ideas, you must communicate with your parents in a timely manner, communicate in a timely manner, discuss, make the best choice, for yourself and for your parents, when you are unexpectedly pregnant, you must tell your parents, remember not to make any decisions yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, after all, if an unplanned pregnancy happens to you, you will definitely panic and don't know what to do, both of you have no experience, and you don't know how to deal with it, so you should tell your parents that they are here after all, and they will be able to give us some good advice.

    Although we are generally very afraid of this kind of thing, tell my relatives and friends to feel it, it is very embarrassing, and especially the parents, they will definitely criticize us, and even beat us, but they are also angry, especially for the woman, the woman's parents are very angry, and then they will calm down and will find a way for you to deal with it, so when you encounter this matter, it is best to tell your parents and discuss this matter with the two families.

    If you have feelings for him, then you can only marry your son, let the two families meet each other as soon as possible to set the wedding, if you don't want to be so early, have children to take on the responsibilities of a family, feel that each other is still young, can not afford a child, then you should tell your parents and ask them what to do.

    After all, if the child is knocked out, it will hurt the girl's body, especially hurt, so you must not make a decision easily, you must go through the consent of both parents, as well as the negotiation of the other party, and then make a decision, this kind of thing must not be sloppy, can not be irresponsible to beat the child, after all, this is a small life and is the crystallization of your and his love, so you must be cautious, you must be responsible for this love, and you must be responsible for this child.

    Don't be afraid to tell others because two people are afraid, two people quietly make a decision, do something irresponsible and directly knock the child off, encounter this kind of thing, this kind of thing happened, then we must be brave to face what we do must be responsible for ourselves, willing to bear the consequences.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How to say this, you can say it to your parents, they have the right to know about it. If you don't tell your parents if you're afraid they're worried about you, that's right. I don't mind telling your parents anyway, after all, it's a big deal, and you can't be the master alone.

    Unplanned pregnancy is that you should not be married yet, the two people are just boyfriend and girlfriend relationships, and you will find out that you are pregnant after the development. I know you're scared of being known by your parents, and it's a shock for them to think that their daughter has raised so much and is pregnant before she is married. It's a fact, you're afraid they know or you have to tell them, anyway, they are your parents, raised you so big, don't think about hiding it from them or anything.

    When the time comes, they will give you advice on the problems you can't solve, and they can really think about you, although they will feel that they hate iron and steel, but after all, you are the meat that fell from their bodies, and they still can't bear to you.

    If you have no intention of giving birth to a child at all, and you really don't want to tell your parents, then don't say it. It's your own business to say it or not, you feel that since it's an accidental pregnancy, the child in your belly shouldn't come at this time, so you want to beat him. Anyway, you don't want him after all, so why should you let your parents worry about this for you, I can understand this kind of thinking.

    If you really don't want your parents to worry about you, don't do anything on your own that they will worry about. Don't say they shouldn't worry about these things when they're old, you have to do what you say, really do what you should do and what you shouldn't do, and there must be a limit to everything.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If a girl is unexpectedly pregnant, she should tell her parents. When a girl gets pregnant unexpectedly, the man also has a lot of responsibility. If that man is willing to take charge, he will definitely choose to marry you.

    For these problems, the man should take responsibility. When a girl is pregnant, it is a time when she is physically and psychologically vulnerable, and she should be protected as a woman.

    If an unplanned pregnancy causes harm to yourself, and you don't handle it well, it will also have an impact on your future life. Some girls are afraid of being scolded by their parents when they are pregnant, so they dare not tell their families, and then secretly go to the hospital by themselves**. Because I'm young, I don't know anything, so I hurt my body casually, and there are many infertile people after miscarriage, if I don't know how to protect my body, then I will definitely suffer in the future.

    If a girl gets pregnant unexpectedly, don't hide it from them for fear of being blamed by her parents, since this kind of thing has happened, you must face it correctly. Parents who are exposed to their own bodies are responsible for themselves. In fact, there are many girls who get pregnant unexpectedly in this society, and I think in that kind of big hospital, there are many girls who have miscarriages almost every day, which is a very normal phenomenon.

    If you are unexpectedly pregnant, and want to hide your family, go to the hospital alone. Have you ever wondered who will take care of you after surgery? You can't do everything on your own.

    And for men, for girls, men will never understand much. I think a man who can unexpectedly get a girl pregnant is also irresponsible.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Tell your parents or not, I think there are two ways to think about this.

    The first aspect is that if you and your boyfriend are not financially able to allow the two of you to get married now, but something like this happens unexpectedly. At this time, you should not tell your parents first, you can find a time to discuss the matter with your boyfriend first, and how to solve it.

    If both of you have been disagreeing to have this child, then I suggest you still don't tell your parents about it. Your parents will definitely be very sad to know about this, they will definitely feel very sorry for you, and it will also cause your boyfriend to lose weight in their hearts.

    If you have discussed it with your boyfriend and the two of you decide that you can get married right now, then you can tell your parents about it, and then you must pay attention to the method when telling your parents about it.

    The second aspect is to look at your parents' views on the matter.

    If your parents are more introverted, they are the kind of people who are more honest and have no way to accept that their daughter gets married due to an unexpected pregnancy. Then you can stop telling your parents for the time being, and then tell your parents about it after you get married to your boyfriend and cook rice, so that your parents can only accept it even if they oppose it.

    If your parents are more extroverted and they are more open to this matter, then you can tell them about it in front of your boyfriend so that they can also be mentally prepared. It can also avoid causing more trouble later.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I just went to the hospital after the menstrual period was delayed for a week, and if the pregnancy test was positive, I went to the hospital for examination, and after confirming that I was pregnant, I called ** to report the good news to both parents.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm pregnant after I tell my mom! My mother said: You and he are both good-looking, and the baby must be good-looking.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Hello dear <>

    1.Young female friends have unplanned pregnancies and need to inform their family members in time so that they can take a better way to deal with it in the first place. After all, family members will consider from many aspects, and more importantly, from the perspective of safety, so it is very important to communicate with family members in a timely manner.

    2.The way to inform the family of an unplanned pregnancy can be a topic introduction method, such as a scene in a TV series, and then slowly transfer to the topic related to your own pregnancy, and at this time, you must clearly know that there is a mistake in your unexpected pregnancy, so you must humbly listen to the criticism and education of your family, and treat the problems that have occurred with a good attitude and correct way of doing things. 3.

    Young women who have an unplanned pregnancy can also tell their families through the Relay Notification Act. For example, discussing this matter with your best friends and friends, and then relaying it to your family through your friends, this indirect way is also a better way to talk to your family.

    How to talk to parents about unplanned pregnancy.

    Hello pro [micro travel did not smile] 1Young female friends have unplanned pregnancies, and they need to inform their family members in time, so that they can take a better way to deal with it in the first place. After all, family members will consider from many aspects, and more importantly, from the perspective of safety, so it is very important to communicate with family members in a timely manner.

    2.The way to inform the family of an unplanned pregnancy can be a topic introduction method, such as a scene in a TV series, and then slowly transfer to the topic related to their own pregnancy, and at this time, you must clearly know that there is a mistake in your unplanned pregnancy, so you must humbly listen to the criticism and education of your family, and treat the problems that have occurred with a good attitude and correct way of doing things. 3.

    Young women who have an unplanned pregnancy can also tell their families through the Relay Notification Act. For example, discussing this matter with your best friends and friends, and then relaying it to your family through your friends, this indirect way is also a better way to talk to your family.

    Hope it helps you <>

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