What should I do if my wife wants me to quit smoking and drinking, and I can t accept it?

It's hard to quit smoking and drinking, but for the sake of your family, I think you should give it a try, even if you can't quit, but you should do it in small amounts. Cigarettes are really hurtful, second-hand smoke is also harmful to the health of people around me, I smoke myself, and the process of quitting smoking is very painful, especially for old smokers. If you are going to have a child, then you must quit, if it is not important to hurt your body, then you have to think about the child, this can really affect the next generation.

I'm surrounded by people closest to me, and it's okay to do something for them, even though it's really hard, so I can understand your unacceptability. Smoke can help us resolve the contradiction in our hearts, and some of our hearts are not good to confide in the people around us, which is also the company of smoke, which is a psychological effect, but in fact it really hurts the lungs, we all know it, but we don't pay too much attention to the consequences. Your wife is more for your health, if she herself just hates the smell of smoke, she can kick you out to smoke, to make a long-term plan to quit smoking, the process of quitting smoking is very difficult, once you quit successfully, it will be good, and the time will not be particularly long.

Wine is also a tool to vent, when we are happy, we raise a glass together, when we are uncomfortable, we drink alone and get drunk, drinking too much alcohol hurts the liver, and it is also one of the key parts of the body, and if you drink a lot of alcohol, it can also affect the next generation. My dad loves to drink, and he hasn't quit, and his health has not been very good because of this, he still wants to drink, and he can't stop it at all, so I and my mother often talk about him, and he is just perfunctory. Once, when his health was very bad, he drank a little less, and then he recovered and continued.

There is nothing that cannot be stopped, only what the heart cannot overcome, or is unwilling to overcome.

Whether it's alcohol or cigarettes, it can make people happy, maybe you occasionally think like this, life is so long, what if you don't have a chance to have fun in time? I think that if you have a family, you should think about the family, slowly quit smoking and drinking, if you have perseverance, you will definitely succeed, and when you want to smoke, you should chew gum and stick to it for a period of time.

Why can't you accept it, do you think your wife's request is too much? You haven't even tried it, you don't know if you can quit, and you say you can't accept it, and it's not okay. I know it's hard to quit smoking and drinking, but give it a try and give yourself enough confidence and courage.

Your wife is also for your own good, which is not too much to ask. It's just that you must be used to smoking and drinking, and it's hard for you to quit all at once, and it's reasonable that you can't accept it. Don't quit in the first place, you won't be able to do it.

Start by quitting smoking, little by little, from one pack a day to one pack every two days or one pack every three days, as long as you have enough confidence, so that you can do it, you will make progress, don't deny yourself too early, everything must be tried before you know the result. Later, one pack of five or six days will be reduced at this rate, and I believe you won't think about smoking in the future. This is a great benefit to your body, if you don't smoke, your family won't have to smoke second-hand smoke, and for them there is only good and no harm, no longer have to endure the smell of your smoke.

You probably have to drink at every meal, and you drink a lot, and you feel bad if you don't. It's okay to drink alcohol, but don't drink too much and slowly reduce the amount of alcohol you drink. From the beginning of a large cup to a medium cup, medium cup to small cup, small cup to the last do not drink.

While you might say that I say it easy, I don't experience how to know the difficulties in it. But you're a man, you still need that bit of willpower, and I'm sure you can do that.

It's my idea to say all this, and in the end, it depends on whether you want to do it or not, and whether you want to do it. Remember that it's not just for yourself, it's for your family's good.

Men may have the habit of smoking or drinking, but when they find a girlfriend, the girlfriend often doesn't like the boyfriend to smoke and breathe well, after all, whether it is smoking or drinking, it is very harmful to the body. Because boys are used to it, they can't quit for a while, and girls often lose their temper with their boyfriends at this time. In fact, this practice is not right, first of all, it has become a habit for boys to smoke or drink, because girls don't let it, boys want to quit suddenly, it's really difficult, just like not letting girls wear makeup, it's not easy to change.

Then there is the fact that boys, whether they smoke or drink, often do so to relieve fatigue or reduce their worries. At this time, it should be more about giving men a little understanding, after all, it is really not easy to be a man.

For girls, whether they don't like men to smoke or drink, or for the sake of boys' bodies, they are all for the good of boys' bodies, so women often say things to their boyfriends like this, which can also show that girls really love this man, so men shouldn't blame your woman for this, if it weren't for her love for you, she wouldn't care about your things. But girls should also pay attention to the way they speak, and also pay attention to the way they let their man quit smoking and drinking, don't let him quit in a day or two, they are really not easy to do.

For men, your woman makes you quit smoking and drinking because she loves you, for such a woman, you must know how to cherish it, you must listen to him, even if you really can't quit, you must tell your woman that you will try to smoke as little as possible, and you must not go against your girlfriend and disobey her, so that you may lose someone who truly loves you. Don't be cold to the woman around you because of this, trust that she will give you a happy life.

As my girlfriend told me, she said that smoking is really bad for my health, and he doesn't want me to smoke and make me sick, so that I can leave him very early, so that he can live by himself and live really painfully. I think I should quit smoking even for her sake. I know it's really hard for me to quit smoking at the age of 5 or 6 years, but I will definitely do it slowly, and I am very grateful that he never forced me to quit slowly, and I believe that we will be happy in the future.

Nowadays, physical health problems have become an issue that people are paying more and more attention to. Therefore, it is normal for a wife to want her husband to quit smoking and drinking.

It's normal for my husband to be unacceptable, because a person's habits can't be changed all at once, and my husband feels unacceptable, but I think my wife can take her time, and if she can't quit, let it be less often.

Between husband and wife, it is more important to be tolerant and understand each other, because the husband is not a saint, even if he is determined to quit smoking and drinking, but he must take his time and not let him resist his heart, just like when he was a child, he didn't want to listen to his parents during the rebellious period.

With the development of society, air pollution is becoming more and more serious, so people's physical health problems are really serious, if they are still smoking and drinking, their bodies will be even weaker. <>

So I think people can quit smoking now, if you drink, just don't drink too much, it's okay to drink a little often, it depends on the individual, because there are people around me who are addicted to drinking, and they can't do without alcohol, they will go crazy, which is very scary, if this is the case, they may have to use the hospital to help.

My husband can't accept it, I think it's excusable, but I still have to pay attention to my physical health, my wife is also for your good, let you quit smoking and drinking, isn't it for your good? So you have to understand your wife's good intentions.

Why do husbands and wives become husband and wife? It's because they have each other in their hearts, otherwise how could your wife make you desperate to quit smoking and drinking. Right, you must know that your body is your own wealth, and fine water can flow for a long time, as long as your body is well, won't your wife stop caring about you in the future!

1.Quit it. 2.I really can't quit quitting my wife.

Dear, hello, my wife is forced to quit smoking, I don't want to quit smoking, what should I do if I can't quit smoking, reply as follows: Is my wife forced to quit smoking in the name of health? If you want to quit, quit, your wife is forcing you? ：：

Before you married me, I was a man who smoked and drank without separating his family, and if you married me, you would quit drinking, and I agreed, quit. But I usually walk outside, Yanqiao and Liquor Road, originally quitting smoking and drinking is to respect my wife, but now it has become Bengali, do you want this husband to even quit smoking? That's not good, at least my wife also respects your husband and me, you knew that I smoked when you first married me, and now you force me to quit smoking, whether I have a loan, is your husband and I don't even have the blessing of a cigarette, and people of my age who don't smoke are basically dead, and there is a smoker I'm fine, you will think that you should have advised your husband to smoke, sterilization, refreshment, and water are all good, the smoke itself is beneficial and harmful, you better persuade me to smoke less, it's really good.

My uncle is like this, he is sixty-seven years old this year, and when he went to the hospital for a physical examination a while ago, the doctor warned him that he was too old to smoke or drink. When he returned home, his children persuaded him, and his aunt also pouted, and he pondered and was ruthless, and he stopped smoking cigarettes and drinking. After three days, I started coughing, I had no energy during the day, and I felt weak in my limbs.

He has been smoking and drinking for decades, and he suddenly quit, he himself said, it's like he had to have crutches to walk, and he is used to relying on it, and if you let him suddenly lose his crutches, he won't even walk. No, I smoked it again, drank it, and the amount was much less than before. went to the hospital for a closer examination, and found that he was in his headThere was a cerebral infarction before, and the cerebral blood vessels inside were dried up, and he didn't feel it at all.

I am 40 years old, and I have been drinking for three years and <>have been drinking for three years when I was diagnosed with high blood pressure and high blood lipids

Now that the blood lipids are getting higher and higher, I decided to quit the bar, since the beginning of spring this year, to now more than 3 months, I have drunk a few times between them, about three taels each time, in fact, there is no obvious change in the body, just a weight of 1 kilogram, and I have quit a few times before, just because I didn't feel that there were any star changes in the bodySo I didn't insist, I haven't drunk for so long this time, so I can't drink or drink.

There may be problems with the body, and people who drink a lot will have alcohol dependence, and there is a person around me who loves to drink but can't drink enough. Drink basically three meals a day. I suddenly stopped drinking a few years ago.

No one knows why, but the result is that his hands tremble after he becomes addicted to alcohol, just like some ** people, after taking a sip, he will be fine. When I went to the hospital to see a doctor, the advice of people was not to quit all at once, but to cycle gradually.

Although I also prescribed some medicine, I didn't have a sip of wine. People who take medicine will react slowly, but will be confused, so that they will catch fire once. Later, the family felt that it was not a matter of going on like this, so they directly let them be hospitalized**.

I don't know exactly how to treat it, but now that I'm back, I'm still drinking. But drank less. I think it's hard to quit.

Nowadays, it is better to drink less, and there are many <>people around me who have accidents and passed away because of drinking

The most important thing to drink alcohol is to quantitatively, but never to be large, no matter how high-end the wine is, don't be greedy. It's a good thing not to drink anymore, and I put up with a lot of effort, putting up with ants crawling, cat's claws scratching my heart, and irritability......Wait for uncomfortable, I've been drinking a little bit recently, why, I'm fat, my stomach is bulging, my body shape is gone, and I feel gasping when I go upstairs.

Vests, T-shirts, pants can't be worn, I haven't drunk for more than a year and have grown more than 20 pounds, I consulted everyone to quit drinking, and drank for more than a month, the tip of the belly of the good family is gone, and I want to drink for a while, and I really lose weight to prove that I am not suitable for quitting drinking, and the reason for drinking is very sufficient.

If you take the vows, you may cause a lot of diseases in your body, and it will also cause a lot of adverse effects on your body.

It will make your body better, it will make your sleep quality better, and it will increase your life expectancy.

Quitting alcohol will definitely make your body healthier and will also make the relationship between you as a couple better.

Even if you drink alcohol, the 20-year festival will not have any effect on the body, but will only make the body healthier, because alcohol is really harmful.

Now, if you quit drinking, you will definitely be healthier, and you will live longer, and your mental state will be better.

Whether it's drug addiction, smoking addiction, or any other addictive hobby, only people who have experienced it can feel that feeling, which is completely understandable, and it is of course a good thing if you can strengthen your will to quit, and the following strategies will hopefully ease your symptoms for a while when you can't fight.

Wife: I know that the purpose of your persuasion to quit smoking is for my own good, and I don't understand this deeply, so I am very touched because I have found someone who really cares about me--- that is you are a good wife who covers you ---and me!

I fell in love with cigarettes before I knew you, and the feeling of loving cigarettes is like loving you, and you want me to leave cigarettes as painful as telling me to leave you, and it's hard for me to do it, because I don't want to leave what I love, you are so, cigarettes are so, while I feel your true love for me, I hope that my wife can tolerate my shortcomings on the basis of loving me, and this shortcoming of mine is not my fault, it's just a bad habit of lack of health, Since I fell in love with you, I have tried to fight hard to get rid of this old friend, you may also feel this pain of mine, I hope that my wife you will not eat my vinegar because of this cigarette, I promise not to smoke in front of you, and at the same time brush your teeth and rinse your teeth after smoking before kissing you--- my dear wife!

Amitabha! Sin! Sin!