Change what you want to do, change what you should do

Set a small goal first, such as going to the mall and supermarket to quarrel (although it is a bit damaged, but quarreling can really improve speaking and thinking skills), practice boldness, thinking to keep up with action! Do it for a short time (time permitting) to accumulate social experience and experience in interacting with people! Part-time jobs for friends, family, neighbors, etc., practice your ability to handle affairs, and then it's up to you how you want to exercise slowly, time will solve everything!

Because I don't know if you're a man or a woman, I can't be more accurate. Drawing, writing, calligraphy, and calculating ......It's all people with a personality like you. In fact, the specialty is not necessarily the piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, think about the alternative, there are a lot

Objectively make an evaluation of yourself, which shortcomings are fatal, and change it.

Start with your own shortcomings.

Work hard and set a goal for yourself.

Striving is not to learn repeatedly, but to surpass oneself and do better than oneself in the past time and again. That's effort, and I think there's a lot of effort, and it depends.

Psychology is a science that studies human psychological phenomena and their mental functions and behavioral activities under their influence, taking into account both outstanding theoretical and applied (practical) aspects.

A simple method is formed through many practical actions, and in the process, new habits are established. At least it seems to me that maybe it's just a small step, but it's done repeatedly.

Abide by the law and discipline and self-restraint. If we are always in a demanding environment to study and live, it is difficult to progress, so we should learn to restrain ourselves, demand ourselves, change from passive to active, consciously abide by the daily behavior norms of middle school students, and use it to restrain our words and deeds.

Do the following and change yourself in a month!

The authors of the 11 books collected in Parchment are successful people in various industries in the United States over the past 200 years, who have informed the world about the secrets of success and the meaning of a happy life that it brings.

To completely change yourself during the summer vacation, you must do these five things.

Start small and start with the details. First of all, restore your confidence and rekindle your zest for life! Here are some suggestions you can take:

1. Do what you like to do, do what you are good at, regain the joy of success, regain lost confidence, and find forward momentum and direction;

2. When the heart is tired, people are troubled by the imitation of the letter guess, so that the soul can travel, you can climb the mountain, see the sea, feel the magnificent scenery, embrace nature, and integrate into nature.

3. You can do some favorite sports to vent, and running, walking and basketball are recommended. Running can exercise the body, exercise and improve people's Tan's will and endurance; Walking can make people relax and relax; Basketball can make people learn to cooperate, enhance team awareness and collective concept;

4. You can find a close friend to get together, have a few drinks, confide in friends, and let the warm friendship dispel your inner boredom, depression and loneliness;

5. Chat with your family more, or play **, strengthen communication, enhance feelings, and tell your family that I love them;

6. Find a soulmate, let love sublimate your emotions, embellish your life, and illuminate your soul;

7. If there are any troubles that are inconvenient to talk to friends and family, you can chat with strangers on the Internet, confide in them, and you can also find new friends.

Now I am a college student, looking at the tedious study of the moment every day, doing the same thing every day, wanting to have good results but then not wanting to work hard, as if I have done everything but actually doing nothing. Meaninglessly playing with the phone, looking at the **, playing the game. You say you want to change, but it seems that everyone is the same, looking at them you are also "going with the flow", time is consumed all at once, you are also slowly consumed, maybe you have thought about breaking through but it seems to be slowly smoothed out.

I was afraid of such a situation, but Yan Na didn't know what to do, I knew my current situation clearly, and I couldn't do it day after day without moving the head of the hall and without a goal. This is what I am facing and living now, after reading this**, I saw an ordinary and valuable person, and I saw a person who has no "regrets", life is like this, now we have gone to college and have grown up healthy. There is no hope that I can fill me with confidence.

1.The reason why an envious person can't change himself is because his thoughts haven't changed, and they may only change their appearance and not their thoughts.

2.Make a plan to change your own goals, whether the scope of the formulation is large or small, and the anti-reckless is that you must have goals, and you cannot succeed without goals. Brother boring.

3.The most important thing is to persevere.

We hope you find it helpful.

Be hopeful for the future, don't dwell too much on the past, does it make sense to say the past? It may just be some reference, it is more important to meet the future, through the efforts of the present, try to change, it is possible to become better and better, only the future is the most likely, and the present is the most should be done, strive to do what you should do, do not indulge in the past.

To distinguish the priority of things, everything has priorities, what to do first, what to do later, these are their own arrangements for things, only in this way can the most important things be done first, complete the most important things to do, and then guess the loss to consider other things, if this point is not controlled, then it will often be more tiring to do things.

Try to minimize complaining, complaining is like negative energy, it has no meaning to our daily state, what can resonate with others, will only make things worse and worse, on the contrary, it will make others feel disgusted, the most important thing is that complaining has no meaning to things, it will only make your mentality worse and worse, complain less, find more solutions to problems.

Keep an optimistic mood, it may be more difficult to do this thing, but if you want your own troubled psychology and happy mentality, you should choose the latter as much as possible, maintain a good mood, and be able to face things with a positive and optimistic attitude.

Never procrastinate, procrastination means wasting time and energy, if you are still procrastinating at the moment, then do subtraction first, let yourself focus on a small number of things, and then do it with all your might, one by one, reduce the things that interfere with you, and streamline your life, so that you can better achieve your goals, so as to truly change yourself.

Respecting yourself, accepting yourself, and loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

Fitness to make yourself look more energetic.

Learning to talk to myself, talking to myself, or writing a journal is a good choice, and don't ask me how I know.

First of all, you must be ruthless. Second, be sure to set goals for yourself. The second is to set goals for hand sanitizer. Then, finding the right approach is key. In the end, we must insist. Traces.