Let s talk about the most indifferent person you ve ever seen.

I felt quite cold, and I didn't feel a trace of distress or empathy for other people's tears. I don't feel the slightest bit when others have been wronged and suffered to complain to me, and sometimes I feel that I am wasting my time, but of course people like me do not show impatience, just listen silently and occasionally give some advice. In fact, the so-called advice is OK for all kinds ......of people and things, such as being sincere, communicating more, etc., etc., etc., etc.,I don't have a trace of guilt for the sins that my parents have suffered, but I look at the sobbing ......Isn't it indifferent......And this year's redyellowblue incident, a bystander to the child abuse incident, if anything, it's probably a keyboard warrior.

They live in the world, criticizing other people's affairs, but they themselves live in embarrassment, and the so-called expression of opinions is just based on the suffering of others.

Let's just say a little thing. The supermarket scale cut into the queue (the queue was very long at that time), and it was still fierce in the face of the staff's doubts. I happened to be first in line and scolded him.

He saw that I was a woman, and he was even more energetic, saying that the queue from here is the queue. I had a few arguments with him. During this time, the staff very consciously helped him weigh things first without saying a word, and the young man in line behind me didn't say a word, and the people in the queue behind him stretched out their heads to look, but no one spoke.

Then I finished weighing and was about to leave, and when I looked back, I heard him calling me a fool. At this time, no one spoke, as if acquiescing to what he had scolded. What can I do, at the bottom of the society is to have someone at the bottom, and it doesn't look like he wants to climb out, so forget it.

But what shall I say about the onlookers, and the staff who are helping to abuse them?

Personally, I don't think that an indifferent person actually means a person who seems cold and ruthless. Instead, there are people who seem to be enthusiastic and caring for themselves. They always claim to be kind and kind, but in fact they only sneer at others when they are down.

Or hurt someone else. Often, such people are more terrible.

The most indifferent person I have ever seen is a disrespect for life and a downlook for anything.

The most indifferent person I've ever met is when you're in great trouble and helpless, but the other person turns a blind eye.

My colleague's wife had cancer, and each colleague took money, at least a hundred. Our boss only gave out a 20 yuan red envelope.

The grandmother who was crossing the road on the side of the road did not dare to move forward because she was afraid of the coming and going vehicles. There was no one to help, so I just stood in the middle of the road and watched.

There is a sister's husband who never uses the money he earns to buy vegetables for his wife and the family, and my little sister has always been in poor health, and is responsible for the daily expenses of the family.

Some of my nephews are more aloof and super introverted.

My high school homeroom teacher had to give us endless homework during the winter vacation, and there was no human touch.

When a classmate had leukemia, everyone raised money together, and this classmate said "oh".

Let me think about it, when did I start to become the cold and cold person I am now?

Was it because I had a grievance over my roommates, and in the end my reputation was ruined, and they laughed at me for fighting for a dozen dollars?

Is it when I feel that the blonde is unfair, and I am found fault by the counselor, but no one dares to stand up and say a word?

Was it when I saw a strong man hitting a woman on the road, and I went over and held the man down, but the woman grabbed me in the face?

Or when I saw that the city management didn't give money for dinner, and stood up to accuse them of the temple little bodhisattva, the shallow king of Baduo, but the owner of the noodle restaurant said that I was insane behind my back?

The edges and corners of people slowly disappear, and most of them are not shattered by the ugliness in front of them, but by the ignorance and mockery behind them.

If this world is a big quagmire like an old man, some people are rolling in it, dirty and happy, and some people are in the most **, committed to erasing the filth on the side of the big brigade, but they are regarded as crazy.

And I just want to climb out as hard as I can, and watch from the edge of the mire, I can't do anything about the filth, I just want to be clean.

Romain Rolland said: "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to recognize the essence of life and still love life." ”

I don't think I can do it if the tone is too high, so for those of us who are unknown, it is our best effort to be able to recognize the essence of life and live peacefully.

The indifference between people is because of the increase in negative energy, which makes people become timid when they want to lend a hand, because they are afraid that their help will not cause bad consequences to themselves.

Indifference is Yanjin County, Xinxiang City, Henan Province, and I am all from Yanjin, I know.

Lengzhuang Village, Guguzhai Town, Xinxiang County, Henan Province.

Many people like to say that they are cold, thinking that this is the so-called 'high coldness', but in fact, most of them are inferior or boastful. Some people are afraid of being hurt by ruthlessness but amorous, so they first put on a calm and indifferent posture. For example, Zhang Ailing.

Some people feel that they are cold and thin, and they don't need to ask for help, but they want others to see that they have this postureIn fact, it is also a kind of appeal, the heart is still hot, and it is not really cold.

Most people have a feeling known as "survivor guilt."Even if it's not their own responsibility, if it happens to be the other person and not themselves who are picked by the probability of misfortune, they usually feel guilty. For example, if someone drives you home and has an accident on the way back, you feel guilty and give the other person a sum of money, even though it is not his responsibility at all.

For example: Liu Xin happened not to have it. After Jiang Ge's death, Jiang Ge's mother told people that ** might be Liu Xin's ex-boyfriend, which did cause some kind of trouble in Liu Xin's life, but if Liu Xin had compassion and a sense of guilt as a survivor, she would be willing to pay the price, endure those troubles, and try to make amends, instead of threatening Jiang Ge's mother.

This is called being cold by nature.

Coldness by nature may be a congenital defect, a kind of emotional fracture, lack of awareness of other people's situations, can only feel that you affect me to eat, affect me to sleep, you cause me trouble, only the idea of wanting to push others away instead of embracing the world. They don't feel that they are cold, they feel that they are normal and reasonable, and they will be very angry when they are blamed, which is the nature of coldness. Such people, of course, are hateful, but also unfortunate.

I have a good buddy, he likes a girl very much, he once told me at night with a happy face that that girl is the best person in the world, but the girl said to break up, he said okay. And he really didn't care about that girl at all, he told me that as long as he broke up, from that moment on, the joys and sorrows of the past or the future have nothing to do with him, he will neither remember the past, nor be sad in the days without her, even if he likes her. He said that he didn't know the reason, maybe it was just indifference by nature.

And he didn't tell me, but it was.

I hate it when he's uncomfortable and goes out to dinner with friends.

One night, we carried an injured and fainted person to the hospital, the patient's family did not have so much deposit on them at that time, the doctor said you go back to find it, there is no money, we can't save it, the family knelt and begged and cried, no, the doctor turned his head and walked away, when the family was helpless and sad to look for money, another doctor passed, pulled the patient lying on the ground with his foot, and asked me if this person is alive or dead? At that time, my heart was hit strongly, I was almost suffocated, this person was still, cold stone, so cold-blooded, this should be the most indifferent person I have ever seen, one of them.

When he saw that the old man had fallen, he did not help him up.

Every time I talk to her, I don't have to talk to her.

Friends who played together in junior high school, usually everyone talked about jokes, we all laughed so much that she couldn't laugh, she was always moody, and she always felt as if she was never needed and valued.

It's just that I don't have a special favorite person, a particular favorite thing, fruit, food. Everything is distinguished by a nasty and a non-nasty. All the people are so sophisticated just because I should do it, not really out of concern.

The people I love the most are my family, because they love me unconditionally, I should love them, and I must love them with my life.

I seem to be a very indifferent person, I have no interest in life and other people's things, I have to get by, my family and friends are all of them, I seem to have lost my senses, I seem to only care about myself, I want to not bother anyone, I want to go to a far away place by myself to live alone, and no one will bother anyone.

Others feel that they have no feelings, they are always so calm, they have nothing to do with themselves, and their emotions never fluctuate. Easily, no one dares to approach him. Of course, it must be a single dog.

As a person who has been close to me who has said that he is indifferent, probably most of the time the smiling face welcomes people are thoughts that dominate the body, you and I are both passers-by, stop and go, come and go in a hurry, I will not clap your hands to welcome you when you come, and I will not keep you with a sad face when you go.

My classmates said that I just had a calm expression on my face most of the time, and even if I smiled, I didn't show my teeth when I smiled, and I took it back after a few seconds. Why is this so? Because I don't know why I'm smiling, I'm having fun, what kind of expression I'm going to have on my face.

Never maintain feelings, because I feel that friendship, love, family affection or something is fading. I have someone I like, but I don't know how to like someone. For me, a person who has been learning from others when to cry and when to laugh, although without feelings, liking someone is really, too hard.

As an eccentric person, he seems to be hot and cold to people, he was just said to be indifferent by his roommate, and he doesn't have many friends, so he can't seem to dig out his heart to people.

Take a walk around Antarctica and come back! You can go to the North Pole too!

Regard yourself as superior to others, or be afraid to be interested in strangers who are unfamiliar with them.

Not so enthusiastic because I have experienced too much sadness.