How do you deal with those around you who are annoying but trying to fit in?

In fact, people who work hard to be gregarious are very lonely, just like a large group of people chatting there, originally talking about beauty, boyfriends, gossip in the entertainment industry, and talking about super super hilarious, but as soon as this person appeared, you didn't plan to exclude him, but as soon as he spoke, it was to make your topic unexpectedly terminated, for this kind of person, in fact, they lack attention, and they are more eager for the people around them to give them enough attention. In fact, we have all been this kind of person, that is, when you try to fit into a group that is not compatible with your magnetic field, we are all such people. The most important thing is to let yourself know how to cherish yourself, you should find some people with a magnetic field, you have some topics to chat with, you will not be embarrassed and not cold in ** play your own yourself, at this time we are not trying to be gregarious, this is our group, we are comfortable, comfortable.

We will have misunderstandings in interpersonal interactions, but we must save ourselves in time. Choose to respect them, and while they are annoying, they are making changes for themselves. A person who works hard for his own change is admirable.

I think such people, we should give them a chance to be gregarious, can interact normally, don't behave very boring, so it is easy to hurt the other party's heart, in fact, these people are not trying to annoy us, they just did not find a suitable way to enter our circle, just thinking that they can enter our circle if they are good at communication, at this time, I think what we need to do is not to turn away, and we need to do some guidance to him, I personally feel that as long as this person is not bad-hearted, not harmful, We should treat each other with respect and tolerance. In this way, you can get a good relationship for yourself. Although they also have their own shortcomings, I don't like them, but many things are two-sided, annoying people have their own advantages, and such people are very strong when they play their own value, so don't underestimate them.

When everyone comes into contact with a new collective, they find a way to fit into it. Even if some people in the group are a little repulsive about you, it's normal. Because these people are already familiar with everything about this collective, and everything they are used to in this collective.

So he was always full of rejection of new things, because he thought that it would change his inherent life. In fact, giving others a chance is not giving yourself a chance. Accepting a person into us injects a new vitality into us.

Maybe he is a joker, and we have more laughter since then. Maybe he's a master of the game and can take us to the top of the game. Maybe he's a fitness goat and can take me to the vest line.

Try to accept a person that you find annoying now because you don't know him well enough. Everyone has advantages that we can learn from, and accepting one more person is also beneficial to ourselves. It is not so difficult to accept a person with a relaxed heart, not to mention that this is another person who tries to work hard to fit in.

First of all, although he is not social, he wants to be social, which means that he is not bad in himself, maybe he just can't play with you. The best thing to do is that you don't need to get close to him, but don't deliberately dislike him, normal interaction is fine, which is a kind of politeness. After all, it is impossible for everyone you meet in the future to get along with you.

But the most basic politeness is indispensable. In fact, you should have the most basic politeness to treat anyone, play well, and don't show disgust if you can't play, just nod your head. This also reflects a person's cultivation.

I feel that these people always have a slower nervous reaction than ordinary people, and when it comes to things that others have already done or played, they always suddenly bring it up again, and his heart may be good, and he doesn't have any bad intentions, but his reaction nerves are relatively slow. Usually, I take her to play when I have the opportunity, but if I don't have a chance, forget it.

Seriously, there are a lot of people like this around, and sometimes I really don't know how to say it, but it's quite tiring to think about them, at least in my eyes. Obviously, you can't interject in other people's conversations, so it's awkward to interject into the conversation, and others continue their conversation. I really want to fit into the circle, but I'm always outside the circle, I don't like this way anyway, don't melt hard when the circle is different.

It's better to live yourself than anything else, sometimes it's really not that you're not gregarious enough, it's that everyone's work and life are different. Constantly improving and enriching myself, I think it is much more suitable than hard melting, and I personally have always done this.

I'm sure there will be some effort around us to adapt to various occasions, to be gregarious and to be on the same frequency as everyone. Because everyone is not born gregarious, we will be exposed to all kinds of different circles in our lives, and we are constantly adapting to one circle after another. So there is no doubt about trying to fit in with the crowd and adapt to different circles.

It's a positive attitude towards life. We should support and understand others in doing so.

In fact, each of us is a gregarious and ungregarious person, we are just suitable for our own small circle, for example, because of some interests and hobbies come together, but the other group is not suitable for you, when you want to meet more friends, want to contact more circles, you will also encounter similar things.

I think this kind of person is actually very worthy of dating, he works hard, but he may be really because of the problem of low emotional intelligence, which makes others think she is very annoying. This kind of person I would be willing to make friends with.

In fact, those people are also very pitiful, they are not aware of their mistakes, but they feel lonely, they want to try to fit in, but they can't fit in.

Ignoring him is the best way to stay away from such annoying and unaware people, and when there are more people who are far away from him, he will understand and make certain changes.

This kind of person is too much, in fact, he feels that others don't know, this kind of person is the most obvious, others can see his thoughts, what to do, for this kind of person will become more and more unsociable, because no one will like such a person.

I think such people, we should give them a chance to be gregarious, although they themselves also have their own shortcomings, do not let you like them, but many things are two-sided, annoying people have their own advantages, such people play their own value, when they play their own value, they are very strong, so don't underestimate them.

In fact, each of us is a gregarious and ungregarious person, we are just suitable for our own small circle, for example, because of some interests and hobbies come together, but the other group is not suitable for you, when you want to meet more friends, want to contact more circles, you will also encounter similar things.

In fact, these people don't want to bother you, they just haven't found a suitable way to enter your circle, they just think that they can enter your circle if they are good at communication, at this time, what you have to do is not to turn them away, and you need to do some guidance to him.

You can communicate normally, reduce contact appropriately, but don't be very bored, so it is easy to break the other party's heart, the worst way is to communicate with him, and reject this person directly.

Such people are really annoying, because some of their own shortcomings keep others away from them, but they want to be able to have some contact with others to reduce their loneliness, which will make others feel more annoying.

We have one such person in our dorm. At first, the relationship between our dormitory was quite harmonious, and the two of them walked together, but then he had a conflict with the person who walked together, and the two broke up. He has a big flaw of his own, he is very selfish, so we don't really want to pay attention to him, he was also alienated from us at first, but then he felt that he might be too lonely, so he wanted to reconcile with us.

But every time he joined our conversation, we would be very awkward and we would have nothing to say.

I think it's better to tell the truth about such people, after all, life is just like this, we have to live a little happier, and we can't make ourselves unhappy for these indifferent people. So then we made it clear to him in the dormitory, we still don't have any contact, he hasn't joined our conversation since we made it clear, and we have become very harmonious, so when you encounter such a thing, you must say what you think in your heart, don't let yourself hold back, make yourself unhappy.

In fact, these people around us who are more annoying but try to fit in, we should learn to tolerate him, after all, sometimes they also want to play with us, but the way they do things or talk is different, at this time we must learn to tolerate and try to help him.

。。。When a person strives to fit in and recognizes the value of money, it means that the person has really grown up, and it also means that the person has died completely.

I tried hard to die, but my soul told me I didn't want to die, and I didn't want to grow up.

So I'm not going to try to fit in anymore, even if it costs a lot, at least I'm alive.

For this topic, I am reminded of Wang Ju in "Creation 101", who once admitted that she was an unsociable person. The reason is because for a while she insisted on squeezing into the circle of different groups, which caused a situation where she was not like herself.

We can indeed meet many such people in our life circle. Due to their different living habits and chat methods, every time they appear, they tend to be instantly cold. For this kind of people, in fact, they lack attention, and they are more eager for the people around them to give them enough attention.

So, when we are faced with this situation, it may be caused by the isolation of some small groups. Personally, I think that as long as this person is not bad and does not harm others, we should give respect and tolerance to the other party. In this way, you can get a good relationship for yourself.

In the last sentence, when you meet someone with this kind of character, please don't dislike the other person, and believe that he is also a very good person.

This kind of person is generally called a hypocritical person, that is, how should we treat this kind of hypocritical person?

The first thing to do with hypocrisy should be to not expose him. Let him continue to pretend, in fact, this kind of person is also very sad, because they live very tired, after all, people with two faces, life is definitely more than real people, although everyone may see that kind of hypocritical person every time, can not debunk her, but also have to get along with him happily, they feel very hypocritical, but there is no way, we can only use the way of others, but also treat others.

Secondly, we must see it in our eyes and in our hearts, be hypocritical to hypocritical people, and be sincere to sincere people. If you see through it or not, life is like a play, and it all depends on acting skills.

In fact, there is really no need for a person to work hard to be gregarious, because people like to play with the people they talk to, even if you work hard, you are not the right person, it is useless.

This kind of person is really annoying, and if it were me, I would stay away from them as soon as this kind of person came over. If the magnetic field of two people is too far apart, it is really tiring to communicate together. I will respect my heart, and if I don't like such people, I will automatically stay away from them.

I think this kind of person is very speechless, sometimes we have a good chat, but since you have ruined our atmosphere, I personally like such a person and don't come, and I can't get into the situation and force in.

I choose to respect them, and even though they are annoying, they are making changes for themselves. A person who works hard for his own change is admirable.