How do you convince your parents to let themselves go on a trip alone?

If you have money, your parents will be relieved. When you are financially independent of your family, you will naturally be treated as an adult.

I started traveling alone in my sophomore year, and my parents were also worried, but they didn't stop it much, and when they got to a strange place, they called ** to report their safety, and it was good to keep in touch from time to time.

What I remember deeply is that once when I went on a trip, my dad called ** and said that my mother had swiped my circle of friends for a day and didn't see anything from me, and she was very worried.

Since then, I have remembered that even if I don't like to show the scenery of the journey in the circle of friends, the beautiful photos taken casually on the road, and the fun things I have seen are taken directly to them, not for anything else, so that my parents can rest assured.

When I was a sophomore, I didn't earn as much as I do now, 3,000 a month, and 5,000 was unstable. Except for the necessary living expenses, it is true that it cannot support a long journey. My parents always said, what if I don't have enough money along the way?

What if the child stays in a hotel with a safety hazard in order to save money? What if the black heart group is threatened by the tour guide after reporting a low price?

So I realized that a lot of my parents' worries can be solved by money.

In my junior year, my income doubled, and when I went out to play again, my parents were noticeably less nervous than before. And I found that from the day I stopped taking living expenses from my family, my parents seemed to realize that I was an adult.

When you are financially independent of your family of origin and cut the umbilical cord that feeds your parents' nourishment, your parents will soon realize that you are an individual. Moreover, I raise you, you have to listen to me, it is everyone's hidden thinking, especially in China, no matter how selfless your parents are, they also have some of their own possessiveness. It's the same between husband and wife, the one who pays more money is always more domineering.

So, when you don't need your parents to raise them, they will also come out of this kind of thinking cage, they no longer hold the lifeblood of your survival, and they have no reason to ask so much, at this time, go out alone, just say hello to your parents, no need to say more.

Of course, no matter how you play, you must remember to always send your parents a position, show **, eliminate their concerns, and let yourself have traces to follow. Girls try to go in groups as much as possible, and go back to their lodgings early at night when they are on their own, and since you have grown up, you must learn to take care of yourself.

If you travel alone, your parents will have some worries in their hearts, after all, it is not easy to be alone outside, especially when you encounter difficulties.

Ask your parents to show that you are capable of traveling. In fact, the outside world is not as beautiful as imagined, especially for those friends who have not been far away, there is no such experience, once you leave home and go to work or travel far away, your heart will become very lonely and helpless. It's very normal for parents to worry that you won't be able to handle your own affairs alone.

But if you behave yourself well at home, do your own things, and then take the initiative to help your parents do what you can, they will feel that you have grown up and can not only take care of yourself, but also help your family to do what you can. <>

Travel closer to home. If you tell your parents that you want to travel thousands of miles away, your parents must be very worried, but if the distance is very short, the worry in his heart will become lighter, the most important thing is to pack your luggage, and tell them that you are fully prepared to travel alone, and then promise them that they will keep in touch with their mobile phones at all times, so that their parents will not worry about themselves.

It's also good to talk about the purpose of your trip. Explain to your parents why you want to travel, if your plan is very thorough, and you will gain a lot after traveling alone, I believe your parents will agree to you to travel alone.

The most important thing to convince others is to deal with other people's concerns and directly hit the other person's pain points, so you have to figure out why your parents don't let you travel alone, is it safe? Is it the economy? Or something else.

Once you have a clear purpose, you can negotiate with the other party. If they are concerned about your safety, you can convince them that you are capable of doing so by giving some examples of your own actions. If they are concerned that you will spend a lot of money on your trip, you can communicate with them about your financial management and let them understand that you are a person who will make sense of yourself.

Of course, the above analysis is based on the fact that you and your parents can "communicate", and if you are not reasonable, then you can either dismiss the idea, or steal raw rice to cook it yourself, or travel with some relatives and friends to avoid their concerns.

Find a very reliable partner, preferably one that your parents also know. It is recommended that you can take your parents out to play first, and in the process of playing, show your personal ability to travel well

If you are an adult, you only need to talk to your parents, and you don't need parental consent at all. If it's underage, forget it, it's too dangerous.

Communicate with your parents and exchange your ideas and suggestions to convince them that you do have the basic coping skills to travel alone.

In order to achieve the purpose of your own travel, you must first make sure that you have a careful and safe route and plan. Including route maps and weather forecasts and cultural taboos, among others. Give your parents the plan you have carefully prepared, and they will definitely be impressed by your sincerity.

If not, hold a family discussion meeting, and put all the reasons and requirements on the table to see who is more reasonable. When it is held, it is best to have relatives and friends to participate, so that everyone can also make an analysis and judgment.

Tomorrow's ticket, adulthood, friends meet at the destination, there are adults, but parents are against walking to the airport alone, and the father has passed with friends**.

I showed my parents the guide.

Summary. Hello, the teacher has seen that it is not realistic to travel alone, but if you go to your parents and talk to your parents about being with friends and with friends of the same sex, the probability of parental consent will be higher, but the premise is that you must ensure that you are an adult and have the ability to act on your own.

Hello, the problem teacher has seen that it is not realistic to travel alone, but if you go to your parents and talk to your friends and are with friends of the same sex, the probability of your parents agreeing to bury the state will be higher, but the premise is that you must ensure that you are an adult and have the ability to act on your own.

I was 03 years old, and I haven't achieved financial independence yet, and I still spend my family at school every month

Then you are an adult, and you just tell your parents that you want to hang out with your friends, and you will have a better chance of agreeing.

But I can't make my own money yet.

If you go out to play, your parents can give you money, you can't make money by sliding and laughing, if you feel embarrassed to spend the money in the house, and you want to use your own money to get out of the slide hole to play, then you can wait for two letters and years.

After waiting for two years, I will graduate and I will not be able to enjoy the half-price discount of my student ID card when I go to domestic attractions.

So, if you don't have financial strength, you must rely on your family's support.

Although I am a teacher major, I may not be able to be a teacher, and if I am not a teacher, it means that there is no winter and summer vacation, and if there is no winter and summer vacation, I can also ask for leave, and there will be statutory holidays.

The statutory holidays are about to be squeezed into a nest of porridge, and I will definitely regret it when the time comes.

Then you can just take a leave of absence.

Is it necessary to report to the leader as strictly as in the past three years?

If you take a leave of absence, you will need to look at the company you are working for and what their requirements are.

Summary. After the trip, tell them that you are going to exercise yourself to increase your knowledge, and you will write your experience and post it in the family group, so that your relatives and friends will also praise you.

What they are worried about are two issues: 1. Asking questions about safety, and 2. Spending money indiscriminately. Then you can do a good job of safety knowledge, you can list a good song ** where you want to go, write down the distress ** to the tourist destination, etc., and ensure that the socks are opened to them every day**.

Give them timely updates on the location.

It is possible to organize a group tour, which is relatively safer.

You can also ask your best friends to play with.

I don't have girlfriends.

That is to organize with others.

Tour. After the tour, tell them that you are going to exercise yourself to increase your knowledge, and you will write heartfelt instructions and experience them and post them in the family group, so that your relatives and friends will praise you.

You can also say that traveling will make me a better version of myself, and I can better repay you and become such a good person as you.

And who to organize. and your boyfriend.

I've been in the womb solo for twenty years. With a group.