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It really depends on who you are with, if it's someone you like, it's the best, and different types of love feel different, and there will be different beauty. I really liked a boy before, and it was the first time I took the initiative to pursue others, and I was not sensible, so I felt very tired. Although falling in love is the kind of sweet love, if you have one, I will give you one, and if you have two, I will give you all of them.

If the person you meet is right and you are mature enough, then such a relationship will not be too bad. If you meet the wrong person, and the other party thinks that you are not his lover, it will be a very sad thing.

If two people love each other, then the process will be extremely beautiful, extremely warm, but when you decide to end, it will be very painful, I don't know why, I think in my heart that I actually have no feelings for him, spend a good time with that person, don't think about everything in the future, cherish the present is the most important thing, this is probably the charm of love. ‍‍

When you fall in love, it is indeed very beautiful, it is only in the period of hot love, and in the process of falling in love, you will inevitably encounter disagreements and quarrels, and it is very painful at that time.

This first love of mine broke up three months ago, because of the long distance, he was tired, he said he didn't want to talk about it, maybe the moment he proposed it was also painful in his heart, but he still wanted to let go, and it was a devastating blow to me. For three months, I have been trying to get him back, but in exchange for my own pain again and again, I may be a person who values love too much, once with him, I regarded him as my whole world, so I don't have a good social circle, my daily life basically revolves around him, but at that time I felt very happy. ‍‍

There is such a person every day, you can find him if you have something, you can be coquettish to him, you can complain to him about the unhappiness in your life, in the same way, you can buy him delicious food, you can listen to him talk about things in life, you can beat him every day. It seems that this kind of life is quite happy, and even I often feel very happy when I think of this person's existence before going to bed at night, and I feel that I must marry him. ‍‍

No matter how much we have quarreled, how angry we are, or whatever happens, I still feel that this person makes me feel that life is good. So, maybe it's because I like it, because the so-called love in my heart regards him as a kind of faith, so whenever I think it's beautiful as long as he's still by my side.

I've been with the object for more than a year, and it turns out that this is the feeling of pretending to be a person in my heart, knowing the difference between men and women in doing things, I feel that I am his superman, which is good, and I don't want to fall in love for the sake of falling in love, don't find someone randomly, just to experience the experience of falling in love. ‍‍

The outcome of a relationship is not necessarily good. But the process of falling in love must be happy.

I think it's a two-sided issue, and there are good times, but there are also heartbreaking times.

Love is very beautiful at the beginning, because there are filters for each other when they are in love, and both people show their strengths and weaknesses are hidden, so the beginning is always good. They all want to understand each other, all they can see is the good side of each other, and both of them are immersed in the sweetness of love. And at the beginning of contact, there will really be more attraction and freshness, which will really make love very beautiful.

Both are trying their best to show each other the good side of themselves. Moreover, if you really like the other person, you will make a good impression on the other person before doing anything, because the other person is the best in the other person's heart. However, when the relationship enters a run-in period.

The two have been together for a while. Sometimes I don't care too much about my image and I don't control my temper too much. But, in the other person's heart, do you think that this is still the person I knew before?

He wasn't like this before! This will create a clear contrast, and over time, there will be contradictions.

Later, the relationship entered a run-in period, and the two have been together for a while. Sometimes I don't care too much about my image and I don't control my temper too much. However, in the other person's heart, do you think that this is still the TA I once knew?

It wasn't like this before! How could this be! This will create a clear contrast, and over time, there will be contradictions.

Finally, in the process of development, the contradictions intensified, and there was a lack of mutual restraint and failure to communicate in a timely manner. Later, in the process of development, contradictions accumulated more and more. Maybe because of a small thing, it can be used as a fuse.

Let the two people break up unhappily. In fact, the most important thing is to understand and communicate. After all, no one wants to see such an ending.

We all want to have a good time and don't want to break up like that. However, sometimes when we are in a bad mood, we can't restrain ourselves. We both thought it was the other's fault.

There is no point in arguing, we can only break up. By the time you really realize you shouldn't, it's already too late.

In fact, everyone's mentality is different. Not everyone can stick to love until they get married and are willing to live a peaceful life! The ultimate destination of love is marriage.

Many people spend their time in love, but then they worry about trivial matters such as money, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea. At this time, they feel that marriage is marriage, and it is no different from the love of the past. Most of them can't hold on, so they feel that life is not satisfactory and give up.

Because when you first fall in love, you imagine that it is very beautiful, you can first fall in love when you like each other the most, and then you will tolerate all her shortcomings, and when you first fall in love, you are willing to show the most perfect place to each other, and then you will not show your shortcomings.

The reason is because at the very beginning, the relationship between two people was originally friends, and when they first started to fall in love, they would feel very fresh and interesting, and they would spend a lot of time and effort to get to know each other, and at this time they would do anything for each other, and often stay together, so it looks very good.

When you first fall in love, everyone tries to bring out the best in themselves. The other party is attracted to this beauty displayed by the lover. Nature will be very beautiful, and after a long time, this beauty will lose its freshness.

Naturally, we will focus on more realistic issues, and there will be contradictions.

This is because at the beginning, the two people did not know each other very well, and they saw each other's better side, so the love at the beginning was very beautiful, but in the process of getting along later, there would be some contradictions, and some of their shortcomings would be exposed in front of each other.

The main reason is that when you first fall in love, you only see the advantages of the other party, and then you will infinitely magnify the advantages of the other party, and when you first fall in love, you also have a lot of freshness, and you want to know more about each other.

The heart is more longing, and at the same time there will be a kind of attachment to each other, and will be particularly cherished, this feeling will produce a sense of dependence, and at the same time there will be a period of love.

Falling in love in college is very beautiful, I believe everyone has had good memories, and at the same time, falling in love has also brought me a lot of knowledge, I remember not understanding anything at the beginning. Recently, a university decided to take spring break to let students fully experience the beauty of spring and love. This news has attracted everyone's attention and has also caused related discussions.

What love in college brought you, different people have different questions about this issue. Specifically, it includes feeling the happiness, sweetness, and romance of love, gaining the experience and enlightenment of growth, and recognizing the gap between real life and ideals.

1. Love in college can bring you happiness, sweetness and romance of love.

If there is anything that love in college can give you something, the first thing is that it can bring you the happiness, sweetness and romance of love. ......Lu Jianguang was very beautiful in college, and if he was able to fall in love during this good time, he could fully feel how happy and sweet love was and how romantic he felt.

2. Love in college allows you to gain experience and inspiration for growth.

College is an important experience for a person's growth, and before going to college, I was a child. But when you finish college, you'll grow up. ......Love in college can strongly support one's growth, make oneself gain the experience of growth, and be inspired, so that one's development and progress will be faster and more stable.

3. Love in college can make you realize the gap between real life and your ideals.

Everyone wants to have a happy and fulfilling life, but the reality of life is not the same as their ideal state. For this problem, I did not have a deep understanding of it when I was still studying in college. ......Through love in college, I can fully feel the gap between my ideal and reality, so that I can more clearly realize how big the gap between real life and my ideal is.

This has a very important impact on your future life and career development. Falling in love in college is very beautiful, what impresses me the most is the child's personality, very cheerful, she brought me a lot of good times, and the memories are very good.

Each of us wants to have a happy and fulfilling love, and we strive for it. But when you really fall in love, you will find a lot of things that you don't know or don't know deeply enough. ......Specifically, these things include love that focuses on love but requires strong strength to ensure it, the right match is really key to love, and love at first sight is romantic but not necessarily reliable.

1. Love focuses on love, but it needs strong strength as a guarantee. In the minds of the vast majority of people, love is the state of focusing on love. These people will think that there is only love and nothing else in love.

Such a view is inaccurate. ......In fact, falling in love requires a solid material foundation, and if you don't have strong strength or sufficient superior economic conditions, the difficulty of succeeding in love is very low. This matter can only be understood after falling in love.

Second, the door-to-door pair is really important for love, and it is very critical. Many people think that the right thing is an outdated concept, and it is not important at all for people who are in love now. But in fact it is by no means so.

There will be very big differences between two people who are not in the right household in terms of living habits, economic conditions, ways of thinking about problems, and the other party's recognition of each other, which will lead to many love problems between them. ......And the two people who are right are about the same living conditions, and their ideas and concepts are similar, so it is easier to have common messy language, and it is easier for two people to succeed in love. This matter can only be known after falling in love.

3. Love at first sight Love at first sight Although love at first sight is romantic, it is not necessarily reliable. Love at first sight is very romantic, and many people are extremely envious of it. ......But in fact, this kind of love will have a lot of problems because of the lack of understanding of each other, so love at first sight is not necessarily reliable, and many such relationships do not get the desired results in the end.

This situation can only be known after falling in love and having personal experience.

I'm a big grinning person.,I didn't think it would be in love.,It's still chasing by yourself.。 When we first got together, it really felt super naïve.

Sometimes I want to go to their classroom to send him some food, which is a surprise, but I am afraid that others will see it, so I have a little something, and I have been silently fantasizing about it for more than a month, and secretly ran to their classroom to put him on the table.

There will also be a small note, which is also warm to think about.

When I go out with him, I fantasize about being able to hold a small hand, bounce in front of me, and turn around to bump into him quietly.

Look at the way I look.

But he was a shy person and didn't like to express his thoughts, but I wanted to be too proactive, so I could only make trouble all the time, and I had to cry silently many times a day at that time.

Now think about it so naïve, I like him too much, I think he is good in everything, he is everything, and when he is disillusioned, he will be disappointed, and many times he will just accumulate too many grievances.

I only hope that we can do well in the future, and I also hope that everyone can cherish the people in front of us.

A word to everyone:

We always think that we will meet better ones in the future, but we don't know that better ones we have already encountered when we were younger.

talked about it once, but in fact, it was a child who was ignorant, and then broke up after quarreling.

Falling in love is a part of everyone's life and one of the most natural ways of human interaction. However, many people always have a lot of imagination and expectations for love before they start a relationship. And it wasn't until he really entered the world of love that he found that some things could only be understood after being in love.

Below, I will share some things that I will understand after I have been in a relationship based on my personal experience.

1.Getting along requires a run-in.

At the beginning of a relationship, the feelings between two people are very strong and warm, but when two people have been together for a long time, they will find that there are differences in personality, living habits, values and other aspects between the two parties. At this time, the two sides began to need to get along. There may be a need for concessions, accommodation, and things don't always go so well.

It takes patience, understanding and respect, but if you can run it in well, there will be more harmony between the two people.

2.Mutual respect is important.

Falling in love is not only an emotional experience, but also a process of mutual respect between two people. Mutual respect does not mean that all opinions and requests must be accepted, because this is not feasible. Mutual respect means not doing the kind of thing that pushes your opinions and requests to the other party without knowing whether the other party accepts it.

This will cause discomfort and disgust to the other person, and may even hurt the other person's heart. Therefore, mutual respect is an important factor in maintaining a relationship.

3.Learn to communicate.

Communication is a basic ability that everyone needs to master, and it is also a skill that must be mastered in a relationship. Communication is very important, both in life and on an emotional level. When there is a question or friction between two people, everyone needs to clarify their own opinions, express them, and take the initiative to understand each other's thoughts and feelings.

In this way, the emotional connection between two people can go deeper.

4.Love does not equal perfection.

Love is a feeling, but that feeling doesn't mean perfection. After falling in love, you will find that the other party is the same as yourself, and there will still be shortcomings and shortcomings. Don't hold on to the idea that the other person should be perfect, because that will only disappoint you.

On the contrary, you should learn to accept the imperfections of the other person, and be willing to face challenges and solve problems with the other person, so that you can carry out the relationship to the end.

In short, you will learn a lot in love, and this is also the charm of love. Whether it's good or bad, as long as you experience it, you will find that being in love is also a very interesting life experience.