How to choose the customs and customs of the wedding of long distance couples?

Choose to follow the customs of the man's family. After all, the entire wedding ceremony was taken out of the woman's house and then to the man's house. It should be held in accordance with the customs of the man's family, which is a kind of respect for the man's family.

I think that choosing the woman's family, after all, he married far away to the man's family, and she was far away from her parents, away from her relatives, and chose to be with you. Her wedding ceremony is just this custom, and she wants to follow the woman's own wishes.

Two people really want to be together, and the wedding is just a ceremony. You can choose the traditional customs of either the man's house or the woman's house. It is even possible to discard these two traditional notions. Young, liberal to hold a wedding that belongs to two people.

I think that the wedding of long-distance couples can not be confined to local customs, and they can learn from ancient weddings or Western weddings. It's just a formality, memorability is the most important thing.

I think the two sides can discuss the customs that are half for the woman and half for the man. Take the best parts of your customs and have a unique wedding.

It is a very common phenomenon, for now, it is necessary to pay attention to the habits of both parties, wedding customs and the like, discuss in advance, communicate in advance, and plan in advance It is the best, and it is really good to combine the customs of both sides.

Weddings are just a formality, and this form is not the most important thing. As for which customs to choose, the two parties can negotiate and have a wedding that everyone is satisfied with.

A wedding is just a ceremony. Whether it is in love or marriage, two people go together, and the most important thing is to go on happily. If the two sides do not negotiate or quarrel because of this, this is a very cost-outweigh result.

In fact, Foshan's customs are not too different in every region.

But there are a few things that must be done.

1. Gifts. No matter which township in Foshan, the man needs to give the woman's parents a gift before getting married. Generally one week before the wedding.

In terms of the amount, you have to discuss it with your wife and her parents! It's best to have a consensus with your wife first, so that your wife should help you do the "ideological work" of her parents!

2. If the woman is in Shishan, she should generally be a local, and the locals rarely go to the ancestral temple of Foshan to take pictures and visit which roads. They usually go to the ancestral hall in their village to pay homage to their ancestors. Ask your wife's family specifically. It is the so-called local custom.

3. Set up wine: If you are a local in Shishan, you will generally have your own ancestral hall in the village, so it is best not to go out to set it up. Placing wine in the ancestral hall is both atmospheric and convenient.

And it's cheap, the place generally doesn't need money, as long as you tell the people in the village in advance that you want to put the wedding wine here, it's generally okay, and if it doesn't work, just call your wife's family to come forward. It's a big deal to send two red envelopes. If the ancestral hall is close to your wife's house, you can save the float that you can send to the connection.

If you put wine in the ancestral hall, it is generally no problem to open the platform, eleven or two people. Ten dishes and one soup. Maybe 300 400 units.

Buy your own drinks and bring them with you. A table should not cost about 500 yuan in total.

Help you do the math: liquor: The wholesale market with a rice flower fragrance of 52 degrees is less than 50 yuan, and the cheapest can go to about 38 40 yuan a bottle.

2L bottle of soda. Yuan 1, juice: 6 yuan a piece.

Do the math yourself! 15 20 circumference is enough, do the math: 20 * (350 + 5 * 2 + 6 + 40) = 8000 yuan.

Get. Enough for 20*11 people per table. Total:

220 people dining!

I don't know if this is auspicious enough?

To add. Don't just bring money when giving big gifts. Also bring a lot of small amounts (about 1 2 yuan) of Liyi for backup, it is best to bring 50 envelopes. It should be used when moving the wedding dress. There is also a door opening.

As for what you want, just ask your mother-in-law directly. She said she would buy whatever she wanted. It doesn't cost much, and I won't ask you to buy a house for her! Hehe!

The wine in Foshan is generally paid by the man, and if the wine is placed together, the man can give the money, which is called joint marriage. Your situation is estimated to be placed separately, so that the woman's money for the wine is generally given at the same time in the gift money, and the parents-in-law do not care about the practice, it is the gift money to give, which means, and then the money for the wine is paid by the man.

Note that this side is very important to the national gift, although there is no three books and six ceremonies so particular, but the big gift must be dealt with, the first gift is to give the gift money, before everyone must discuss it, do not be unhappy in the future. In addition, the man provides gift cakes, and other auspicious gifts of local customs.

There is a rule to follow these paths"Chopsticks Road""Fulu Road""Qinren Road"(Some of this don't go) Ancestral Temple Road, and then take a photo in front of the Ancestral Temple! However, it is recommended that when you take photos in front of the ancestral temple, if your wedding day is a good day, you must prepare a lot"Laisee"Because you haven't parked the car, dozens of beggars have come over and surrounded you and asked you to take the money, you better call your brother pie, you hurry up and take pictures. If you don't send a hundred or dozens of letters, you won't be able to leave.

How come there is no police or chengguan to manage this phenomenon!

There are also a lot of requirements for big gifts!

Generally in one or two cities, whether it is in the man's house or the woman's house, it will be placed, but the premise is that you have money, I see you ask such a question, it seems that you are quite short of money, if you don't have any money, try not to invite relatives on the line. Do what you can. Happy newlyweds.

Take the advice of the bride and her family, and nothing can be wrong! Are you right! Hehe! Bless you all!