I can t let go of my own personality 20, and I can t let go of my own character

This one... I'll teach you how to fool the façade first, in fact, I use it a lot, and I can understand your mood very well.

At the most basic point, if you can avoid going out to dinner with your parents, avoid losing face! (If you have to go out, you can ask other people's backgrounds and majors first, etc., and be prepared!) It's too late to tell. ）

2: Unless there is a topic that you are good at, you will pick up the stubble in the right situation and atmosphere (not that you start, otherwise as soon as you change the topic, you will have nothing to say, embarrassing!) And in moderation (that is, when the atmosphere at the table becomes very good because of your speech after you speak), don't talk endlessly, so as not to show the stuffing, and then you start up a favorite topic of others, let others talk about it again.

3: If someone else is talking, you have to pretend to listen carefully to what they are saying, nodding from time to time, or grace a word or two.

4: If someone asks you questions that you are not good at or that you don't want to do, you say: This...

I'm sorry, I don't know much, what do you think? (Pay attention to your expressions, be sure to pretend to be embarrassed, or you're already embarrassed...)

In this way, you give the contradiction to someone else.

5: If you really don't have a topic to think about, I suggest that you usually learn more about current affairs.

Domestic issues are the mainstay, such as people's livelihood and public focus issues! Don't get into the financial stuff, unless you want people to talk about it. As for when to speak, it's up to you, for example, everyone is really silent, and if you liven up the atmosphere first, naturally many people will rush to speak.

6: The most important thing is that you must remain calm, make others think that you are unfathomable, and only say useful and dramatic things.

In fact, the most important thing is to strengthen yourself!

I've heard a saying that a person who only does one thing in his life then his value will always stay there Only if you want to communicate, there is nothing you can't learn Learn shallowly Just change the topic by the way They all like to answer the call and like to play You don't have to be inferior We are about the same age In fact, drink some wine with them I feel like I can let go This is also a psychological suggestion Come on.

Society is a big dye vat, and people with exquisite faces are the easiest to survive, so you better keep your nature! There is no need to learn from others.

How much bigger than you?

Just talk to your peers!

Economics is simply not what you need to know.

Spend more time with your peers, you will have more common topics, and you will feel that your personality will be open.

Or change the conversation if you don't understand what is said upstairs, or ask more questions, believing that they will be happy.

Friend, you should do more sports so that you can show the momentum of a man.

Everyone's personality is unique, but some girl personalities that can't let go may show the following things in common:

1.Shyness: Girls who can't let go usually don't like to socialize directly with others, preferring to be alone or socialize with a few people.

2.Sensitive: Girls who can't let go are usually very sensitive, very concerned about other people's reactions and words, and sometimes they will ponder for a long time when others unintentionally say or act.

3.Conservative: Girls who can't let go usually have their own set of moral standards and codes of conduct, and are more conservative about sexuality, feelings, and other things, and will not easily show their feelings that destroy Zen.

4.Shyness: Girls who can't let go are usually more likely to be shy or shy, and feel uneasy and embarrassed about things they think are wrong.

5.Self-protection: Girls who can't let go usually protect themselves and show a more cautious attitude towards strangers or new environments.

It is important to note that these characteristics do not necessarily apply to all girls, and each person's personality is unique and influenced by a variety of factors, such as family background, upbringing, and cultural background.

1. Introverted, shy, sensitive, not very good at expressing their emotions and thoughts, easy to fall into a state of self-isolation.

2. Lack of self-confidence, lack of confidence in one's own ability and charm, easy to feel inferior and uneasy, and dare not show back to guess the true self.

3. Too rational, relatively cold to feelings, not very good at expressing their emotions and needs, easy to make people feel alienated and difficult to approach.

You have been more introverted since you were a child, but you think that your introversion is just a façade, and you are still more rebellious at heart. In the face of unfamiliar people or people older than you, as well as in some relatively large occasions or performances, you show that you are not the real you, and you will feel that Paison can't let go of himself. I think it's more likely that you're not confident in yourself and you're afraid that your performance will make a bad impression.

So as to show others, it is a well-behaved model that does not like to talk.

You can ask yourself, what are you thinking when you are dealing with someone you don't know well or someone older than you? What are you afraid of or worried about saying what you want to say? Are these worries and fears of yours real and will happen?

You mentioned that you have recently become a teacher, and you are more gentle when communicating with children, and you think that you are not the real you, and you are very pretentious. So, do you feel in your heart that talking to children should be gentle? And this may be a misconception on your part.

You can also explore that you will feel embarrassed if you say it out loud, what are you embarrassed about?

Personality formation factors are as follows:1.The psychological definition of personality is the comprehensive embodiment of people's attitude towards real phenomena and the corresponding behavior and expression.

It is the most important way of expression of social attributes, but also the embodiment of important factors of psychological activities, it is precisely because of its importance, so it has always been the focus of psychological research, so it is necessary to analyze the appearance of personality according to the characteristics of the character, and then achieve the practical effect of solving practical problems.

2.The factors of character formation are complex and fragmented, and if you summarize the main manifestations of its formation, it is mainly reflected in the following three aspects:

They are genetic factors, growth and development factors, and social environment factors.

It can be said that it has both its own factors and its corresponding environmental impact. From this point of view, personality can be changed, but it requires a lot of qualitative change after quantitative change.

First of all, you must have confidence in improving your personality and believe that your personality can be changed. It is often said that the country is difficult to change, and the temperament is difficult to change. This is true, but it is also too absolute.

Personality is not innate, it often has a lot to do with the environment, family and education, and can be influenced and cultivated. If you change to a good growth environment and be with people with relatively high quality, it is conducive to the formation of a good character.

Change the way of life that was too rigid and monotonous in the past. Take the initiative to make friends extensively, especially those who are open-minded and cheerful, and pay attention to choosing sunny people as friends. In this way, it will play a subtle role, and it will gradually change and gradually become cheerful.

Change your attitude and behavior. Quit your own pride and prejudice, and try not to give others the impression of being self-admiring and pretentious. Learn to respect others, and realize that people are just different in their choices, and you are not necessarily nobler than others.

If you always associate with people with an attitude that you are better than others, you will only run into walls everywhere, be coldly treated by others, and be ruthlessly rejected by others.

Learn how to express your thoughts and emotions. When something doesn't go your way, don't be depressed and close your heart. In a relationship, if you have a bad complexion, are silent, and ignore people, others will not be willing to approach you.

If you are like this, it is difficult for others to understand you, and they will often misunderstand you, and they are even more reluctant to risk disturbing you and annoy others.

Learn to get along with people. In communication, we should be good at observing other people's interests, hobbies and behavioral characteristics. Find out what the other person is interested in and what they don't like.

By grasping these situations, you will be able to do what you like when you interact with people, and others will find you easy to approach, so it will be easy for you to become friends.

Cultivate a wide range of interests in yourself. If you have a wide range of interests, you will make more friends, and you will have a lot of common topics when you get along, and you will connect people with common interests. With a wide range of interests, you will devote your body and mind to the activities you enjoy, which will reduce the excessive focus on yourself and make you love the wonderful world outside.

1.Communicate with people during physical exercise.

2.Take a portion (treadmill will also do) (build trust).

3.Participate in more events and organize.

4.Try something more positive about talking to women (although you're not very good at it)5Watch some romance movie films about feelings.

6.It must be insisted that this is not a day or two, and you can't be afraid to be in no mistake, but you are missing something in the United States for this.

experience, but on the other hand also hands.

According to the experience of ancient and modern China and foreign countries, as well as personal experience, coupled with the principle of genetics, personality is born and cannot be changed.

But in life, it doesn't matter what the character is like, what matters:

1. Establish self-confidence and firmly believe that your character is unique, the best, and someone will appreciate it!

2. I believe in the principle of a hundred flowers blooming, and the lack of that kind of character in this world is not perfect!

3. When choosing your future goals, such as career, love, marriage, friendship, hobbies, etc., try to give full play to the strengths of your personality, and you will be able to achieve twice the result with half the effort!

4. Remember: there are many extroverts in the world, but there are not many successful people, the opportunities are equal, grasp yourself, the character of the successful person is the character of success!