Do you hate your character?

It's a little annoying.,I like that kind of lively.,The kind of character that is familiar with everyone.,People who talk more funny.,It's a pity that I can't learn.,Fortunately, it's also a little slow change now.。

Since I was a child, I was a more introverted child, the neighbors around me said that I don't speak, I don't call people when I meet people, every time I pass by them, I will talk about it, sometimes I haven't walked through it, just say me, this girl doesn't like to talk, not called people, not like her mother, hey, I'm depressed, what do I have to talk to with you old men and old ladies, fortunately, my girl is like my mother, every time I go home from school, even if there are more than a dozen people standing there, she runs around and screams all of them, Then those old men and old ladies compared me with the girl, in the countryside these people like to gossip, sometimes they can chat all afternoon, anyway, there is nothing to do.

In fact, I used to be introverted, like when I was a child, I went to the store to buy things, people gave me less money for miscalculation, I was embarrassed to point it out, and I was embarrassed to buy things, I felt that I had autism, no matter who I didn't talk to, especially when I saw strangers, I was afraid and didn't want to communicate, now it's much better, go out to buy things and bargain, I don't feel shy at all, and then I love to joke with my parents, when I was a child, I saw my parents hiding far away, a few days ago my mother was drinking, and I arrived a little too much, I saw it and said, You are a little less, what if you get drunk and beat us, what if you get drunk and go crazy and scare us to death, and my brother is not at home, I can't hold you, it makes my mother happy.

In fact, this is still thanks to the child's father, it is he who has changed me from a girl who is unwilling to talk to anything to a girl who can still communicate with people normally, but I am not satisfied, I still hate my own character, I still want to become more lively, I want to become the kind of person who can communicate calmly when I see anyone, and is not afraid of other people's eyes!

My character is that all good tempers are left to strangers, and bad tempers are left to the most familiar people! I know that I should love the people around me, and I know that this is wrong, but sometimes I just can't control myself, in fact, my personality is very irritable, and I am the kind of person who wants to go along with everything I want, but people who are not familiar with me often think that I am more easy-going, easy to get along with, and have a generous personality, but only people who are really familiar with me understand how difficult I am to get along with and nitpicking.

I often read some articles, which probably means don't leave the worst temper to the person who loves you the most, every time I read it, I am full of shame, and I vow to control my temper, but every time I encounter something unpleasant, I will still be very angry, sometimes I am sulking in my life, most of the time I really want to slap myself, and even wonder if I have a problem, so irritable, I know that not everything will develop in the direction I expected, but I can't help it.

For example, when I talk to my parents, although I know that my parents care about me, if I can't accept the way I speak, I will still be very angry, and sometimes I will shout back, even if I regret it every time, but I just can't change it, looking at my aging parents, my heart is full of guilt. But for strangers, I can forgive her ignorance, I can accept her disapproval, and I give all my patience to the unfamiliar person.

I hate my own character, I hate myself who always hurts others, and I especially envy those who are gentle as water, they must have special cultivation in their hearts, so they can accommodate so many different opinions and voices, and they will treat the world gently!

In a perfect world, everyone around us would be friendly, kind, caring, attentive, and generous. We thrive with our girlfriends in a convivial atmosphere, without grievances, anger or resentment. But we do not live in a perfect world ...

Some people are crazy and crazy, and there are many people whose personalities are simply unacceptable.

1. A person who does not have the life of a princess, but has the disease of a princess;

There are always such girls around, who are obviously born in an ordinary family, but they make themselves look like a daughter, with a four-figure income a month, but they save money in order to buy a five-figure luxury product; is obviously a girl from a small city and a rural area, but she came to a big city to go to college to learn from the eldest lady who has never done housework in others; In life, you always ask others to accommodate yourself, and if you don't have team spirit, you will only annoy and annoy people.

2. Self-righteous, always self-centered people;

Maybe you have the most people around you who will do everything and do everything to the best; She thinks that her opinion is always right and that what you think is always wrong; also have to be centered on her and revolve around her in everything; And it's easy to be jealous of others, you can't do anything better than her, so it's very stressful to bury people in the bridge, since they are friends, of course, they have to promote each other; You won't be very annoying when you meet such a person, at least it will keep me away.

3. Always take the good of others for granted;

Whether it is a stranger, a friend, a classmate, a sibling, etc., you can't take the good of others for granted, because in this world, no one is obliged to help you except your parents; As everyone knows, others have troubled themselves in order to facilitate you, and you take it for granted that others give you the convenience of eliminating cracks, in fact, it is terrible to be used to bothering others in life, and what is even more terrible is that you have troubled others, and you don't know how to be grateful; I especially don't like that kind of person who always takes other people's kindness to you for granted ; No one should always be good to you, no one will always have to be the one who gives; What you give, you can get; All the true feelings are always in exchange for sincerity; Remember, when you get help from others in life, remember the good of others! Don't complain when others don't want to help you, because the other party is not obligated to help you;

4. People who have two sides of the human heart, and people who are not the same on the outside;

When dumidity occurs, it is to determine whether a person has inconsistent behavior; In fact, the inconsistency between the outside and the outside is the same as the camouflage of animals, which can be understood as a way of dealing with the world; But there are still duplicitous people around you, divided into good intentions and bad intentions, and by careful observation, you will be able to perceive it; For example, when you are proud, she will surround you and praise you, and when you are frustrated, she will be cold to you, and she will say things that slander you; For people with such a character, they can only be indifferent, cold, and vigilant.