What motivates you when you most want to give up?

The motivation I have now is that I really want to be a person who likes who I am. When I was 17 years old, I chose between going to USTC for an undergraduate degree and studying in the United States. I worked hard for four years as an undergraduate, and I got my wish with two bachelor's degrees, got an offer from the company I wanted, and had the opportunity to work in the United States.

During this time, I also had a boyfriend who had been in a foreign country for four years. When I graduated from college, he was coming to the United States for graduate school. It seems that everything is very well and I will live a very happy life.

However, the idiom of being prepared for danger in times of peace is very reasonable, and when you feel that everything is good for granted, it is precisely the beginning of a crisis.

My motivation is to be unwilling. I am not willing to watch other people's credits, grade points, life, and fun, and I can only be a passer-by, A, B, C; I am not willing to watch other people's astronomy, geography, literature and history talk and laugh, and I can only silently envy in my heart; I am unwilling to watch other people's lives be positive, there are endless things to do every day, and I can't chase endless dreams, and I can only rot in the corner; I am not willing to watch others get closer to their dreams little by little, and I am still in the same place, not knowing where the future lies. I don't want my future to be out of my control.

Unwillingness is what motivates me now.

Slow down time. Every time I come home, my parents are getting older day by day, my grandparents are getting worse day by day, my brother is getting married, my sister is already working, my sister is going to elementary school, and I am going to graduate. I hope that I can make time slow down by trying to do everything I want to do in my limited time, and spend time with all the people I love.

That should be slowing down. Momentum to move forward. One word, money.

You can't do anything without money, you're nothing. It's everyone's responsibility to work hard to make money.

I have always believed that either you work hard to climb up, or you rot in the bottom of society. At some point in your adolescence, you will understand the importance of learning to test everything, you have to be desireless, you have to learn to be alone, you have to force yourself to the fullest, no one will pay for your future. If you don't take the initiative, you will lose.

Success is not something that comes in the future, but something that accumulates from the moment you decide to do it. If you don't want to lose, then don't be lazy, you work hard, that is, for a better self. A person who fell into the manure pit and was still complaining that the manure pit was smelly would not be able to get out of the manure pit.

Only by standing at the highest point can you have the capital to protect the people you want to protect.

My motivation to move forward comes from losing. I thoroughly understand that a person's life is a step by step loss, loss of loved ones, loss of time, loss of health, loss of ability, loss of memory. The days to come are constantly losing, but in other words, I am the youngest today, the healthiest body, the most abundant spirit, and the most abundant compared to any other day in the future.

In today's most pinnacle of the coming days, what you don't do now will be even more difficult to do in the future. If you don't move forward in one moment, you won't move forward in the next moment, so my best bet is to move forward in the moment.

When I was a child, I was afraid of the days of no money, financial constraints can cause incomparably more difficulties than you can imagine, and even living well at home has become a luxury, and people have always lived in an extremely depressed mood, which I don't want to experience for another decade or two in this life. So from a long time ago, the motivation to move forward was to let myself and my loved ones live a life that would not be tied down by money. At the very least, you don't have to fight because a light bulb is not turned off and wastes electricity.

Yesterday we went to Chinatown, bought a new mat for the bathroom at home, bought a bathrobe that she had always wanted to buy but was too expensive, bought a lot of snacks of all kinds, and ate a hot pot and a boiled fish. This money does not come from our parents, but is the income of our small family through their own efforts. That's the reason to move forward.

I've got to carry something on my back. It's easy to float up without carrying anything, carrying the person you love, carrying your parents, and going down step by step.

Do you have your own ideals? If so, that's what motivates you to keep going. It will give you the strength to get back up after you fall.

Do you have someone you love? If there is, she or he is the driving force for you to keep going. Think of his voice, think of his smiling face. All worries will disappear. For his sake, for your future. All the pain, all the effort is worth it.

Are your parents still alive? If you are, they are the driving force for you to go on, and it is not easy to raise you for 20 years. Giving back to your parents for the rest of your life is what a person should do, not to feel hopeless and make your parents desperate.

Motivation may be the most cherished thing or the hope in your heart, but either way, there is a way to think for yourself: you have to think about what despair is, how important it is in your life, what will happen in a month, what will happen in a year, what will happen in ten years, if it only makes you desperate for a while, then you can think about it.

There is a saying: I want to see how miserable my life can be, and if I live to be 90 years old, I will give God the middle finger!

Myself, I'm a bit narcissistic. Never allow yourself to be destroyed.

Whenever I want to give up, the motivation to keep going comes from my children, I am a mother, and I don't have the right to give up a lot of thingsA lot of times, even if I grit my teeth, I will choose to keep going, and we don't have a lot of qualifications to give up a lot of things.

When we are alone, if we can't continue to work, if we are not happy at work, if we can't get along with our boss, we will choose to leave, we will not force ourselves to persist for some reason, we will easily give up one thing, because this thing makes us feel uncomfortable, so we will do this, but then we get married, we become mothers, we have armor and weakness.

Children are our armor and our weakness, and we have to insist on a lot of things for our childrenReal life is not a TV series, it is not so easy, and it is not so comfortable to make people feel that life is so comfortable, but more to make people feel pressured, because we always want to give our children better, always want to let our children have more, so that their lives can be more carefree.

With that, we have pressure, and we can't give up a lot of things easilyFor example, at work, we are no longer like before, we give up when we say we give up, we put down when we say we give up, we say we don't agree with our bosses, we fight with our bosses, we can't make a lot of decisions that can be easily made before because of some personal reasons and personal emotions.

So when we encounter difficulties, we still choose to persevere, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that, because life is like this, many times it is like this, we have to learn to grow slowly, no longer make some childish decisions like a child.

What is supported is the dream, the kind of person I want to become. As long as there is hope, it will always persevere, and it can fail, but the motivation will not decrease, and the effort will be more.

Personally, I think that when I want to give up, the motivation that supports me to continue fighting is that some celebrities have said that only perseverance can lead to success.

Every time I want to give up, I think why don't I try harder, now that I've made it all this far? Victory may be just one step away from us, and it would be nice to hold on a little longer.

When I want to give up, the motivation that supports me should be unwilling, I also worked hard, put in so much heart and energy, I am not willing to give up halfway.

1.Encouragement and support from your family. Because many times I insist on studying medicine because my family is behind me and I don't want to live up to their expectations.

2.The benefits I gained after I did this are also the motivation to keep working hard.

I have to bear the responsibility of the family, the responsibility of my parents, and the care of my friends, I can't leave them behind, and my life must go on

For me, every time I feel like giving up, just thinking about my family and my children is what keeps me going.

My parents' dreams of traveling, my children's dreams of dancing, and my own dreams of going abroad are the driving forces for me to keep learning.

It's the contempt of others, the kind of contempt and denial, the contempt for your life and even the whole person, that makes you want to rebel in your bones.

What can it be?

Poor! Lazy!

If I didn't study hard at that time, I would have to go home and do farm work, I was a person who could sit and never stand, and I would definitely not be able to work, so I had to study hard!

A girl who grew up with me, because both of our parents know each other, so my parents inevitably often compare me with her, and naturally my self-esteem will not be able to stand it, every time I want to give up and my grades drop worse than her, my self-esteem will automatically ignite the fighting spirit.

Chicken soup for the soul.

Seeing some chicken soup will really rekindle the fighting spirit, but it won't last long.

The disappointed eyes of the family.

When I was in high school, I couldn't study anymore in the last few days, so I wanted to give up repeating.

One time when I came home, I told my family about it, and my grandfather didn't say anything, he just looked at me deeply.

At that time, I wanted to study hard and not let them down.

It's idols. Because the behaviors related to idols will become the goal of my learning, and only when I have learned to a certain level of achievement, can I implement these behaviors. Therefore, the beauty and experience of idols always successfully ignited my motivation to study when I wanted to give up.

Everyone has different ways to ignite their own motivation to learn, but there is a basic principle behind all the changes.

When you decide whether to do something or to give it up, you are basically judging how valuable it is.

Positive value minus negative value, whether surplus value has the motivation to push itself to do this. Of course, the connotation of this value is very rich, for example, material life, material gains, can make him satisfied, escape the pressure of survival, avoid pain and danger, etc., may be value.

Therefore, in essence, to motivate oneself to learn, it is necessary to find the positive value of learning for oneself, and comprehensively amplify this positive value.

For example, a child prepares for a final exam. The positive values of this matter are: getting high scores, being appreciated and recognized by parents and teachers, gaining a sense of accomplishment in the envious eyes of classmates, going to a fun place to play during the holidays, parents will give gifts, and will not be beaten and scolded?

There is no risk ...... retake

At the same time, this matter also has negative value: you can't go out to play, you have to spend time reading books, you feel irritable and feel miserable when you don't understand the problem, if you can't do it, there will be serious frustration, and you still have a game that you don't care about, which can be seen as the negative value that spending time reviewing brings to the child.

If the child is rational enough, adjust his behavior to learn. But I feel that the motivation is insufficientHe can choose to write down as much positive value as possible from learning on a piece of paper to create and amplify this value。In addition to those listed in the previous paragraphHe can also convert negative values into positive valuesFor example, she told herself that after studying for an hour, he would play a game for 15 minutes and use the game as a reward for his learning, so that he was very motivated to learn.

In the same way, it can be inferred that when we are learning in other areas ourselves, we can use this way to motivate ourselves and find as much positive value as possible.

In this way, I can study easily, and at the same time, I am happy and willing to learn.