How to overcome fear of ridicule and introversion

Little sister. Why do they laugh at you? They're beautiful???

As far as I know, junior high school students don't feel like they've grown yet. It's like the flower bones haven't bloomed yet.

And women. The main thing is to dress up. The first one should be clean. If you are not satisfied with your hair, you can find a stylist to get it done.

And who's going to laugh at you? There are probably only a few people in a school who can notice you... Generally, if it is not very ugly or very beautiful, it is difficult to attract attention in a school.

Allah.. No one is talking to you. Find me. Hey. If you want, just hi me. Fun first.

Is it still introverted to have a personality like a boy?

Since you look like a boy, you should be generous and chic.

If you want to scold, scold it.

Don't be afraid to say no, learn to say no, and find reasons such as no.

You can also laugh at them and make yourself tough.

That way no one will laugh at you.

The best way to be introverted is to participate in group activities and force yourself to speak in front of many people. Introversion can be overcome, you can be a class leader in the class, and that's okay. Hehe, I wish you success and cheer, these methods are very effective, because my classmate was originally like this, but in this way she was exercised, come on, bless you!

You should sit with your classmates and communicate with each other! Wouldn't that be nice!

Psychoanalysis: Hello, subject! Hug you in the air and comfort you.

You say that you are introverted and are particularly afraid of other people's evaluations, but I don't know if you are only afraid of other people's negative evaluations of you, or if you are afraid of other people's negative and positive evaluations of you. If you are only afraid of other people's negative evaluation of your travel chain book, I think this situation is normal, human nature, like to listen to good words, like to listen to others say that they are good, do not like to say bad things, and do not like to hear others say that they are not good, this is a kind of human instinct, self-preservation, everyone is the same. If you want to overcome the fact that you care too much about other people's negative evaluations of you, you can try the following tips for you.

Learn to affirm yourself, learn to face what others say about you, first calm yourself down and listen carefully. When others start to evaluate you, you can tell yourself in your heart, no matter what the other party wants to say about yourself, I will wait quietly for her to finish, if you find that the other party is not completely correct, you will tell you again, this is like a blind man touching an elephant, she only sees a part of herself, and does not see the whole thing, but she points out the part of her own problems, which is a rare opportunity for growth for yourself, and I can make myself better and stronger after correcting it.

Be confident, give yourself some positive psychological hints, and don't care what others say, you are the best version of yourself.

There is no need to be too scary about this, anyone will encounter this situation, just let others say it.

You should try to get in touch with other people, knowing that they are judging you and just trying to make you better, not you.

I think you should never care too much about what other people think, just do your own thing.

<> "How to get rid of introversion, timidity, and low self-esteem.

1.Be proactive and actively participate in social activities.

Don't limit yourself to your own inner world, try to go out and make a few friends, socialize more, and enrich your network. Be brave and take the first step early.

2.Proactive communication.

When getting along with others, don't always wait for others to talk, don't need to escape from social fear, but pretend to be cold and learn to take the initiative to communicate sincerely, boldly, and confidently smile.

3.Be assertive and dare to express yourself.

In the scene of many people, speech, rest assured, not many people will really care about you, the more shy you are, the easier it is to attract attention, express your true thoughts, be generous, confident and brave to say it.

4.Learn to practice deliberately.

Whenever you are in an unfamiliar situation, give yourself a psychological hint, treat strangers as friends, practice deliberately, and overcome yourself.

5.No self-denial.

I believe that I can do it, if I don't understand, I can call for rough learning, and I can't ask, in fact, things are not as difficult as you think. Believe in yourself more and never deny yourself.

6.Eliminate fears before speaking.

Before stage fright, take a deep breath and believe that you will succeed and you will achieve a real self-breakthrough.

7.Speak into the mirror.

Find a mirror, imagine it as a friend of ours, practice facial expressions, and communicate as naturally as a friend.

8.Break the circle. Try to change the circle, change the circle than your previous one, and meet some people who are much stronger and taller than you.

1 You should first try to speak loudly and respectfully to your family, starting with speaking loudly. 2 Be sure to say hello to your relatives or classmates around you, don't worry about having nothing to say, or being cold, you can say "good morning" or "I'm going first, goodbye" or "How are you doing?" when you meet relatives or classmates. "What do you think of me as a person?"

Introverts are easy to be looked down upon, I used to be introverts, my classmates accommodated me in everything, sometimes I had conflicts with them, they didn't quarrel with me, just said "we all sympathize with you, because you are too honest, so we don't quarrel with you". At that time, I was very depressed, and I am not a beggar, so I want you to sympathize with something.

Don't worry about not doing well on yourself, be sure to believe in yourself. Don't worry about saying the wrong thing, and don't worry about causing a cold. I once went to see a psychiatrist because I was too introverted.

The psychiatrist told me, "You should make mistakes when you are young, and you can learn from the mistakes you make, and when you enter society, you will not be allowed to make mistakes."

As for going to parties or whatever, don't force yourself to do it, and I've tried to do that, and I think I'm just dumb with introverts, and it's really hard to sit alone and stupid.

Introversion is not a disease, it can be completely changed.

If a person is too introverted, he will be perceived as honest, and if an introvert does not break through himself, he may not enjoy a lot of fun in life.

Why can't I speak louder? You know that if you speak too quietly and that people ask you repeatedly, they will be depressed and don't want to communicate with you too much.

If others speak, you don't look at them, people must think that you have a ghost in your heart, or you are thinking nonsense.

Don't be afraid to say the wrong thing.

I wish you a speedy change in your introverted personality.

I recommend a song "Be Proud of Yourself", you must listen to it I think this lyric is very good: "If you want to get it, you have to jump as high as others, and one day, when I look back, I will be proud of myself".

Low self-esteem, what is it? It is a manifestation of lack of confidence in external affairs or people.

Introversion is not a bad thing. There are two types of human personality: introverted and extroverted.

Like, day and night, do you prefer to hail over the day or at night? Some people like the sun during the day, but it also has bad weather with thunder and lightning; Some people like a bright moon in the sky at night; But it also has the trouble of being cloudy and sunny.

Shyness is mainly due to lack of self-confidence, so why are people confident?

It's because you don't have enough knowledge about what you're doing or what you're doing.

Just like a driver driving, a driver with a driver's license and experienced is naturally full of confidence and leisurely.

If you don't know how to drive at all, do you dare to start a car and drive him away?

Yu Minhong, the founder of New Oriental, once said: You can say that you are the worst in the class, but can you prove that you are the worst in the whole school? Can you prove yourself to be the worst in the country? So there is no need to feel inferior.

Remember a saying, thinking is a virtue, doubt is not completely unnecessary, suspicion is less the better, sensitivity is a good thing, but being too sensitive equals vulnerability. Low self-esteem, introversion, and shyness are indeed very painful things, and it takes courage and patience to change. These are things that can be changed, so be sure to do them.

From now on, do what you don't dare to do, talk to different people, even if it's just a few simple words, or nonsense. Don't owe anyone anything, you must walk with your head up. It may attract blows and ridicule, but it is nothing to change it, and you must go back to think afterwards whether others are commenting on you or if you are too sensitive.

If you really can't persevere, just tell yourself that you are still alive, and if you live, you must overcome psychological problems and create a world of your own. Many successful people also have some character shortcomings when they are young. After a few years, when you look back at yourself, you realize how ridiculous you were then.

Persistence is victory.

Others look down on themselves and blame others.

I look down on myself and blame myself.

This mountain is actually related to your personality, you should be an introverted person, and this may have something to do with your life environment since childhood.

In fact, there is no need to deliberately change, you can change this situation by diverting attention to Jian Lingli, make more friends, walk outside more, and slowly you get used to that state will change.

It is good to supplement your knowledge and communication skills with others, and slowly get used to it.