After the breakup, what are the psychological changes of the boys?

As we all know, boys and girls have different emotional states after breaking up. If a relationship ends, the girl will be relatively sad, and even eager to make peace, hoping to return to the original state. After the boy broke up, it was not like this, and it was even the opposite of the girl.

Perhaps this situation makes it difficult for men and women to reconcile after a breakup, and it is difficult to recover from the original. Understanding the psychology of a boy's breakup is conducive to accumulating emotional experience.

1.Relieved joy

Although the boys who have just broken up are consciously sad, they feel relatively relaxed in their hearts, because they feel as if they are free from the shackles and can do whatever they want. They will not be sad and cry at this stage, they will go to play games, all kinds of play, and find the joy of being single. At this stage they also don't think back to the past, they are completely immersed in their own world.

2.Begin to feel lonely

After a few days, it was as if I had been liberated. But I also feel more and more that life has become different, I may have had a girlfriend before, but now I don't. The way of life in the past has changed a lot from now, and people's inertia is not very adaptable.

If they don't adapt to such a state, they will slowly feel lonely, and even occasionally think back to the past, but this will not be the reason why they want to return to the state of love, and they are still more restrained.

3.Feel the pain after the breakup

At this stage, the boys realize that they have completely lost her. And his girlfriend will not come back in the future, and his life has completely changed. At this stage, they recall their previous happy memories more frequently, and even cry when they think about it, and they also have the urge to go back to their ex-girlfriends.

The way and state of life has changed a lot from before. Adaptation has also been difficult. So at this stage they will feel the pain of a breakup.

After the breakup, the boy's heart changed by being tough at first, pretending that he was fine, then talking to friends for a drink, and then letting go. It won't matter in the future.

After the breakup, the boy's psychological changes may not be much concerned at first, playing games like crazy, and after a while, he will feel the importance of the girl's existence.

Maybe after the breakup, the boy's heart will be very reluctant, and then gradually he may taste your goodness, and he will choose to chase you again.

Stage 1 Feel free that you are trying to redeem him at this time, he will hate you and hate you. In the second stage, looking for a new love, you will find that you are not so attractive after the breakup. Stage 3: Anxiety and loneliness: After losing it, I know the importance of intimate companionship.

Stage 4 Remembering your ex and getting back together with your ex.

After the breakup, the boy may not get used to it at first, and it will be very sad to live alone, but then he will slowly be relieved.

The psychological changes of the boy after the breakup are as follows:

1. The desperation after the breakup of the male and silver people is all fake

Ruthless, indifferent, ignoring you, avoiding you, and saying cruel words, this is indeed his behavior after the breakup, but you must know that in the case of his breakup, all his emotions have exploded to the extreme, and these behaviors only represent his current feelings: he is hurt, angry, and scared, and he just wants to stay away from you in order to relieve his emotions.

But this does not mean that he doesn't love you anymore, his love is just diluted by emotions and weakened by your hurt.

2. It's not that he doesn't suffer, but the order of pain is different from yours

After the breakup, you learn that men should eat and drink, play everywhere with friends, and not feel sad at all, while you wash your face with tears every day, and the pain is terrible.

In fact, it is not that men are not in pain, but that the time has not yet come. After a breakup, a woman is in pain first and then relieved, while a man is relieved and then painful before he starts to miss you. The emotional changes of a man after a breakup are different from the order of a woman.

3. After the breakup, he will still be possessive of you

As long as he has truly loved you and held you in his heart, then even if he proposes to break up, after the breakup, he will still be possessive of you, and he will default to you in his heart that you belong to him.

So he is more afraid of seeing you have a new love, or have contact with other members of the opposite sex. If you want to get back together, you can start from this aspect to stimulate the man's possessiveness and guilt towards you, so as to achieve redemption.

4. Your emotional foundation will not disappear easily

The two have been together for so long, how can they say that if they don't love, they don't love? The emotional foundation is established little by little with sincerity for sincerity, even if the two come to the point of breaking up, the emotional foundation will not suddenly dissipate.

It takes time for feelings to dissipate, so many people want to reunite and blindly "disconnect" according to the online method, which is also incorrect, and it is easy for the feelings to dissipate if the disconnection time is too long, and the disconnection time is too short, and the negative emotions of the other party will not be reduced. Therefore, everyone must prescribe the right medicine and do not operate blindly.

5. He understands your recent situation and is testing you

If after a period of breakup, he will take the initiative to ask you about your current situation, and will understand you sideways, these behaviors represent that the other party is testing you to see if you have changed, if there is a change, maybe he will be shaken and have the idea of getting back together.

Guys may experience a series of psychological changes after a breakup, and the specific manifestations vary from person to person.

Breaking up is the end of a relationship, which can be a blow or a relief for a guy. The psychological changes of a guy after a breakup vary from person to person, depending on factors such as how committed they are to the relationship, the reason for the breakup, and the individual's psychological qualities. Some guys may feel lost and sad, they may reflect on their shortcomings and mistakes in the relationship and try to improve themselves to prepare for future relationships.

Other guys may feel relieved and relaxed, and they may re-examine their life goals and values and re-plan their lives. Other guys may feel angry and resentful, and they may feel negative about their exes and try to get back together in other ways. No matter what psychological changes a guy has after a breakup, it's important to give yourself time and space to recover and adjust, while also learning to learn from the breakup and prepare for future relationships.

Emotional processing after a boy's breakup:

1. Accept emotional fluctuations: Boys need to accept their emotional fluctuations after a breakup, including sadness, anger, self-blame, etc., and do not suppress or deny their emotions.

2. Seek support: Boys can seek support and confiding in friends, family or professionals to share their feelings and confusions.

3. Focus on their own growth: After a breakup, boys can focus on their own growth and development, improve their own skills and interests, and enhance their self-confidence and self-esteem.

4. Learning and growth: Boys can learn from breakups, reflect on their own problems in relationships, and strive to improve their behavior and attitudes.

5. Give yourself time and space: Boys need to give themselves enough time and space to heal and recover, not to rush to find a new relationship, but to focus on their emotional needs and inner balance first. <>