What kind of experience is it for you to be born and I am not born, and I am old when I am born?

The meaning of this sentence is: When you were born, I was not yet born, and when I was born, you were already old. You resent that I was born too late, and I blame that you were born too early. A kind of pity that hates to see each other late, but has no chance.

Full sentence: I was not born when you were born, I am old when you were born, you complain that you are late, and I hate you for being born early.

This famous sentence is excerpted from the Tang Dynasty "Tongguan Kiln Porcelain Inscription Liangwu Poem", the author is unknown.

1. The meaning of the whole poem: (Jun, the honorific title for men, mostly the name of a woman to her sweetheart) The literal meaning can be translated as: I was not yet born when you came into this world, and you were already old when I came into this Fengqing world.

I was not born when I came into this world, and you were old when I was born, and I hated not being born at the same time, and I couldn't be nice to you. You weren't born when I was born, I was old when you were born, and the distance between me and you was like the ends of the earth. You weren't born when I was born, and when you were born, I was already old, and I wanted to turn into a butterfly to find you, and we could be together day and night.

2. This famous sentence is excerpted from the Tang Dynasty's "Twenty-one Poems on Porcelain Inscriptions of Tongguan Kiln", the author is unknown. See the second volume of Chen Shangcha Zhengjun's Supplement to the Quan Tang Poems, vol. 56 of The Continuation of the Quan Tang Poems, p. 1642, Zhonghua Book Company, October 1992 edition.

This sentence expresses a kind of regret and helplessness, I was not born when you were born, and when I was born, you were old. In love, it has always been emphasized that you must meet the right person at the right time, but it is very painful to meet the right person at the wrong time. The whole poem expresses the beauty of a kind of regret of missing, two people who obviously love each other can only love each other, and cannot stay together, because of distance, because of age, and because they met and knew each other too late.

【Extended material 1】This famous sentence is excerpted from the Tang Dynasty's "Twenty-one Poems on Porcelain Inscriptions in Tongguan Kiln", the author is unknown. See the second volume of Chen Shangjun's Supplement to the Quan Tang Poems, vol. 56 of The Continuation of the Quan Tang Poems, p. 1642, Zhonghua Book Company, October 1992.

Extended material 2] This poem is a Tang Dynasty Tongguan kiln porcelain inscription poem, the author may have been composed by the potter himself or the popular Li Xiang ballad at that time. From 1974 to 1978, it was unearthed at the site of Tongguan kiln in Changsha, Hunan. See the second volume of Chen Shangjun's Supplement to the Poems of the Tang Dynasty, Volume 56 of The Continuation of Poems of the Tang Dynasty, p. 1642, Zhonghua Book Company, October 1992.

1.The literal meaning of Jun can be translated as: I was not born when you came into this world, and you were already old when I came into this world.

2.You hate me for being late, I hate you for being born early: (hate, here there is a meaning of hating God) You hate God for letting me be born too late, and I hate God for letting you be born too early.

3.Hate not to be born at the same time, every day and be with you: I hate the sky so that we are not born in the same year, the same month, and the same day, and we are with you every day.

I am far from the end of the world, and I am separated from the end of the world: I am separated from you by the end of the world, and I can't imagine it. 4.

Turn into butterflies to find flowers, perched on fragrant grass at night: you and I might as well turn into butterflies and fly flowers, accompanied by day and night without separation.

This experience is more painful, which is equivalent to you falling in love with a person of the opposite sex who is much older than you, and your parents will disapprove of such a relationship. Because the age gap between you is too big, for example, the man is 20 years older than you, your parents may be worried that the other person will die before you and don't want you to suffer this later. Most people will not have this experience, because the age gap will make too much of a generation gap between each other, but some people may not feel the love of their parents when they are young, and they will make the above choices when they grow up, maybe they want to make up for the lack of jujube and adulthood.

Jun was born and I was not born, I was born and I was old, this sentence made many people listen to what the stool erected said, mainly lamenting that the gap between the two is very large, and the gap between the two mainly refers to age. In fact, feelings are not limited because of age, but sometimes the world has more confinement between the two, and if there is no way to break through this limit, it is possible to really miss each other. There is also a possibility that the other party has already started a family, but you are attracted by the charm of the other party and can't help but become a third party in the other person's family.

Maybe you didn't make some moves, but your attitude will make the other person's wife feel uncomfortable. This kind of affection should be stopped, and you can't let yourself make a moral mistake.

Anything can happen in society, for example, I saw a love story shared by a woman in her 40s on a ** platform, the boy is more than 10 years younger than him, but the two seem to be more right together. It may be because the woman has never been married, so the maintenance is very good, and the boy is also more mature, and he is very sure of his own approach, not dizzy. I hope that all lovers can eventually become married, instead of being forced to separate because of the barriers of others.

When falling in love, you must have an expectation of your financial ability and future life, and don't be too impulsive, especially if you are in a relationship with a large age gap.

Yes, the sedan chair is that the boy is many years older than himself, when he is in his youth, the boy has become a man, I am married to my husband who is many years old, this is deeply understood.

You will feel very disappointed, and you will feel that no matter how dare you are, you will not have a way to catch up with the other party, and you will feel very powerless to play the bridge. I don't have that experience, and I don't think it will happen to me.

You will feel very flustered, and you will also feel that your actions are useless and cannot be saved. I've had this experience before, and I'm going to feel very powerless, and I can't do anything about it.