For my love. What should I do?

Don't say I'm realistic, now love doesn't have the kind of feeling that is said on TV, people's feelings are always based on freshness, once the freshness is gone, the original feeling will gradually disappear, I don't deny, there is a kind of love that grows slowly in getting along day by day, but that kind of feeling is really rare, like a person, I want to know everything about him, once I understand everything about him, I won't have the same fanaticism in my heart, and I will always mumble in my heart in the face of his shortcomings, Even if you don't say it, and then you break up under the pretext of personality incompatibility. Like is also divided into many kinds, now there are a lot of people once they have a good impression of some people, like him, think that this is love, often confuse such feelings, and then wait for a long time, such a difference will appear, real love, not to say that it must last, but always think about being with each other, always thinking about him, thinking about his number to himself, thinking about her lovely shortcomings.

Now you have to distinguish clearly, what is like and what is love, don't confuse these two feelings again, maybe there is someone you like who loves you, I hope mine can help you! Good luck!

Then please think seriously before you accept a relationship. I think you're a person who falls in love by feeling, but sometimes you feel right, but after getting along, it doesn't get right, and you look for it again. It's better for you to stop looking for a while now, think seriously about what kind of person you really want, and then act when you meet it.

You don't realize the value of true love.

A good love is when two people progress together. The little sister of the Ning family.

Good love is two people who are together, become excellent together, and make progress together, while bad love is two people who are together, suspicious of each other, arguing with each other, and loving and killing each other.

There is no shortage of many such good friends around. I always ask, what kind of love is a good love? After thinking about it for a long time, the final answer is like this, good love is that two people progress together, ferment together, and become better people together.

Two people who are together, if one party has been working hard, has been improving, has been enterprising, and is becoming a better person, while the other half has been in the same place, maintaining the status quo, the gap between them will be widened. You'll say, I'm not wrong to stay the way I am, yes, you're not wrong. The mistake is that your other half has been improving, but you have been standing still, so in this way, the gap between each other will slowly widen, and the original love between you will be because one is getting better and better, and the other has been maintaining the status quo, and then going farther and farther, and the gap between them will slowly begin to arise.

I have a pair of good friends, the female is called Z, and the male is called W. When they were together, it was because the two were colleagues, attracted to each other, had a good impression of each other, and naturally got together. Later, both of them resigned, and each found a different unit to continue to work and get off work, and the two of them have been getting along with each other peacefully.

Later, for unknown reasons, W resigned. Started to eat and drink at home, three or two months passed, it seems that I have a lot of fun, and I have no intention of looking for the next job, but people z have been working hard in the company to mix well, I can't see it, and I have been urging w to find a job, and the two who started to take it slowly quarreled, reconciled, reconciled, quarreled, and then separated. Feelings are like this, I've been trying to become a better person, and you've been standing still, how can we get together better.

Later, Z got a new boyfriend, who cared for Z and belonged to the rising stage of his career, and he was trying to think of a plan and find a partner every day. After work, I took Z around and taught her all kinds of ways to deal with people, two people went to their own classes, and they got tired of being together after work, talking about what happened in today's life and work, analyzing each other, and seeking solutions

Good love is mutual appreciation. There can be many differences between you, one is very homely, one loves to play, one loves to read and one loves to play games, but you can not be interested in each other's pursuits, aesthetics, work, leisure, etc., but you must appreciate it. If you feel that what the other person is doing is a waste of time and full of disgust, it is actually denying the person himself.

Many young people will feel that they have sacrificed a lot for each other when they are in love, and they will sacrifice a lot of social interaction in order to be better with each other, but I think that a good love will not be like this, if this situation occurs with your other half, then you should have a good chat, two people look for each other's reasons, a good love is to let us grow, let us bring more to each other, not to ask us to sacrifice what we have for each other, if this is the case, Two people can't live happily.

2. Good love can make us more content.

A good love can make both parties understand the beauty of the world, and when they are with each other, they will become more content, thinking that the other party is their own world, so that they will have more motivation to bring each other better things, and good love can be done with each other, not only can they get along happily, but they can also be themselves.

When two people fall in love, they both think that each other is their own sunshine, as long as the other party is by their side, they will be full of hope, they will have more confidence in doing anything, and they will have more expectations for life, hoping that they can make each other live a better life.